TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 6)

[VP91x]

Hi lovelies,

Gorgeous to see some more BFPs!!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Chickoletta

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@Jazper
@Sunflower1988 - 8th July
@ManchNic - 11th July
@elliew818 - 11th July
@AC2020 - 11th July
@Eli2020 - 11th July
@littletandme - 13th July
@mrsssk - 14th July
@Rebecca1992 - 14th July
@fafi - 17th July
@chloedancer897 - 17th July
@Lollol86 - 17th July
@2020wish - 17th July
@fafi - 18th July
@HE88 - 19th July
@Rainbowhope11 - 20th July
@Bellabubble - 20th July
@GraceG26 - 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby - 21st July
@Renna - 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985 - 26th July
@VP91x - 26th July
@Rb486 - 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2 - August?
@Northernsoul90 - not testing
@Sophj19 - not testing

@Banbi
@busby85
@calimommy
@Quail15
@Re6ecc4

Update on me CD12 - in FW waiting on ovulation. On Soy Iso this month and doing a (reduced) SMEP approach. 🥰

Anyone else would like to join please do xx

Sorry girls haven’t read through chat yet as I’ve been out but went to bag all rubbish up there for a dump run and had a last glance at my test this morning... what do u all think... it is possible it’s just an evap as hours have passed ...

This is it without the backing paper part behind it

@2020wish it looks blue so I would say positive 😊😘

It just doesn’t feel real... cause I could of swore it was stark white this morning but I was so tired and kept having to run my eyes and just thought sod it its neg and dumped it. I’m only 8dpo also.. the frer has a like also but it also has a big indent in the back off it so I’m not convinced on itS cause I never got a positive on pink dye tests ever with all my pregnancies x

@2020wish I'm not sure on the tests after a few hours pass, I wouldn't have thought a line would appear, but I don't know for sure so I can''t offer much help.
I'd say take another tomorrow morning and take a photo of it too, in case you have sleepy eyes, and then hopefully there'll be a nice clear line for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Sjk89 Aww your new pup sounds lovely!! Everything seems such a long wait but hopefully you will get there with your appointments xx

Thank you @MichT4 ☺️

@2020wish I agree with @MichT4 im not sure about tests after a few hours but definitely retake in the morning!! Fingers crossed for you that it's a bfp 🤞🏼

I just did another one and it’s darker. I took a photo on glow which just registers positive or negative and it actually showed as positive

Still not convinced 😂 I don’t trust any lines any more xx

@2020wish it's so great your manager is being so supportive! Fingers crossed that's a line and it gets stronger!!

@stayinghopeful92x good to hear you're making progress with tests.

@sjk89 welcome to the group, sorry to hear you've been going through such a tough time. This is a great group and fingers crossed we can support your way to a healthy pregnancy. Is this your first?

@Niisa I hope all goes well with your scan tomorrow! 🤞🏼

@Hayleylou89 glad you've had a lovely trip!! Good to hear from you 🌞

@michT4 I mean it wouldn't hurt to get on it hehe 🍆

@michT4

I can understand why your worried but they look like really good strong lines!!

I have definitely read that alot of people can ovulate pretty fast after misscarriage and that the first day of bleeding in misscarriage is counted as cd1.

If your comfortable trying again I'd def make the most of thay peak!

Xx

That's definitely darker! @MichT4 surely it is LH then?... I would keep doing them and hopefully you will see a peak soon!

@MichT4 definitely dark, I would have thought Femometer would have registered them as even higher! I would also try if you feel okay too! Xx

@fafi @Emsnewmum @Northernsoul90 thank you. And definitely no harm @fafi. It’s funny because after my first MC I didn’t even think about DTD and maybe I missed the crucial time. Who knows.

@emsnewmum thing is, if day one of proper bleeding is CD1, then I am only CD5, way too early when I’m usually a CD27ish ovulation girl. But then I started spotting a week before so perhaps I am later on than that. I guess it’s all a bit unknown after a MC, even more than normal.

I’ll just keep taking them and DTD when we can. As I said I have no expectations with this cycle, so will just see what happens xx

@VP91x I was surprised it didn’t, especially when glow marked it as positive - normally that’s the stingy one.

I think I am ready to, I’m conscious it might cause some spotting maybe. It almost feels too soon in a ‘should I feel guilty’ way. But then if I am trying to ovulate, maybe I should go with it xx

@MichT4 yeah definitely, sometimes you have to take a few pics of them! Bit fiddly.

Sounds like a good plan ❤️ how did your training go x

@michT4

Maybe it's gone of your spotting, or is just early this time. But yes your right it's all so unknown really as it's different for every body. Definitely looks promising x

@VP91x it was good, I didn’t fall over again 😂
I jumped back in where I left off so it was a fairy heavy session after quite a break, so that said, it went well. I felt deflated how weak I was but it’s hardly surprising.
Anyway, I got it done so that’s an achievement in itself! I think I might be immobile tomorrow, so maybe DTD tonight is crucial 😂🍆💦

How did Bella get on today with her potty training? 🩲 (the only pants emoji I can find) xx

Thank you @Emsnewmum. I think I’ve learnt to never assume anything with the body.
How are you? xx

@MichT4 yes definitely an achievement that you got it done 💪🏼🏋🏻‍♀️ bet you feel loads better for doing it. Haha!! When you can't even walk up the stairs it's the worst.

Yeah good actually! Less accidents than yesterday. Although when she got home, she get her potty and decided to wee right next to it on the carpet 🤔 xx

@MichT4 @Northernsoul90 thanks for the replies. Raging at myself now throwing the head up in a huff this morning without looking properly

@VP91x stairs are hellish. I’ve had a couple of times where I can’t really bend my legs, it’s the weirdest things. We had a night away booked with friends and I couldn’t walk barely at all 😂, oddly after one of my lighter sessions.
How has your training been, this week aside?

Hmm that’s a strange choice. Maybe she thought she was over the potty. Bet she’s well proud of her little knickers xx

@2020wish no need for rage, it’s always early with FMU. Only a sleep to wait, with an extra DPO so hopefully you’ll see it even through blurriness x

@MichT4 she was staring right at it, the little weirdo. Haha yeah she loves them funnily enough. Need to make her a sticker reward chart.

God yeah it's so painful, you dread going for a wee 😩. Alright managed to do something about 3-4 times in the week. Feel better for it although my eating had been crap this week xx

@Hayleylou89 glad you had a lovely time in spain xx
I'm CD28 my last cycle AF came on CD29 so AF she tomorrow really, previous cycles AF has come on CD27 and CD26 but no sign yet but think it may be tomorrow she is due and based on femometer app. Not that I got confirmed ovualtion ... so dunno if my cycle is normal this month 🤷‍♀️ xx
I'm fuming . Sold my ava like a month ago on ebay . I sent it have proof of sending it... and the courier has confirmed they lost it. So of course the girl who didnt receive it needs a refund as she never received it ... but they are only compensating me £25 !? Instead of the £120 I sold it for .... when I have evidence I sent it and the carrier admit they lost it ... so I had ava for one month... didnt get on with it didnt get pg and now down £100.... 😓😓 sucks . Wont be selling anything on ebay again xxx

@Renna that’s shocking! Why are they only compensating 25?