TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@MichT4 I know people can be so insensitive! I hope you are feeling better now and having positive signs 🌈

If someone, after swearing blind to all and sundry that they were NOT going to test early this cycle, did just that at 10dpo using MIDDAY urine (crazy I know! 😫) would the test most likely show negative even if that someone was pregnant?
Asking for a friend 🙈😂

@VP91x I know right!! I'm wrecked!! Of course hes delighted 🙈 I'm 3 dpo so wondering how soon I could test?? I know I definitely wont last until AF is due I am so impatient x

@Mommybear05 I'm good! I'm on 6th cycle post-MC now. Last month didn't ovulate which is maybe my 3rd cycle out of the 6 that I haven't (two cycles were 20 & 24 days so unlikely that I did!)

I've tried Soy Isoflavones this month to try and bring forward ovulation as it was really late when I did. Awaiting an ultrasound appt that my doctor referred me for to see if there's anything going on. If it takes ages and this month doesn't work out either going to get some done privately. Oh, does the Vitex just regulate your cycle or do anything else? I've heard it mentioned but not looked into it. Is your LB still fully weaned off breastfeeding now? Xx

@Jazper 😂😂😂 that made me laugh so much. Yes, not reliable at all!! What did you use? I'll put you down for testing in two days time 😂🙈

Yes @Jazper I'd say it's too diluted and probably also quite early so you're definitely not out, I did a test about 10dpo with last pregnancy and it was negative at that point.
But at least you can join the crazy early irrational testing gang with me and @Eli2020 🙌

@Rebecca1992 I would say at best try 10dpo with a super sensitive test which would be 12th?xx

@VP91x I bought some one step ultra sensitive 5ml/hcg so I will probably try the 13th/14th 11/12dpo

Hi all, I hope you don't mind me jumping in on this thread. I'm still trying to conceive after a miscarriage at 8 weeks in December 2018. Since then have had no luck and now contending with OH having a low sperm count and crap motility and me having found out I have high FSH and being told I'm probably pre menopausal now.

Congrats to all this who have their BFP!

@VP91x yip that's right I'm in Scotland 😊 xx

Seriously @VP91x 😩😂 EVERYTHING inside of me was screaming 'NOOO! DON'T DO IT!!! ARE YOU CRAZY?!' And I was just like 'yeah' 🤷🏽‍♀️ and did it anyway 🙈🤣
And two days time, I'll take that as an order 😁😁 yes, put me down for then x

Happy to be part of your gang @elliew818 and @Eli2020 . Reassuring to know there are other crazies in the group 🙌🏼

Seriously @VP91x 😩😂 EVERYTHING inside of me was screaming 'NOOO! DON'T DO IT!!! ARE YOU CRAZY?!' And I was just like 'yeah' 🤷🏽‍♀️ and did it anyway 🙈🤣
And two days time, I'll take that as an order 😁😁 yes, put me down for then x

Happy to be part of your gang @elliew818 and @Eli2020 . Reassuring to know there are other crazies in the group 🙌🏼

@elliew818 it made me happy when I read that!!! I genuinely hope you are pregnant 🤞🤞 please keep me posted how you are getting on! Did you feel implantation? I had some pulling and pinching feeling at 4 dpo but I know it's impossible for it to be implantation that's early! And if it was this test wouldn't have been negative this morning. Which brings me to ... hi @Jazper please do join our gang of early testers 🙈 I think your pee would definitely have been diluted! What test did you use?

@VP91x I am ok thank you. Have kept busy today but of course it’s always on my head. I just want to go to the loo and it not be there.

And thank you @elliew818. I went to call for advice but they are Monday-Friday so I’ll call tomorrow. I doubt they can do much, maybe a blood test, but just so they can advise I might give them a call.
Thank you for telling me your SIL experience. It’s good to know hope isn’t lost, but it’s just to disheartening why these things are sent to test is xxx

That crazy I posted it twice 🙈

Welcome to the group @Hayley19835 , sorry to hear you are struggling after your mc. That's a lot to contend with but keep positive. This group will keep your spirits up along the way xx

Thank you @Eli2020 . Oh and I did use FRER but still hoping it was too diluted. Give me all the hoooooppppeee 🙏🏼😫

@Jazper thank you, he has an ultrasound Friday and genetic bloods being done also. I've had another FSH done so hoping for some answers as too what is going on with us both. Never imagined when TTC#1 I'd be this far down the line and still no where close. It's certainly changed my perspective on life and what we take for granted x

@elliew818 when you said you are an Essex girl but nothing like one ... I'm not originally from the UK and when I first moved here to study and lived up North and had not met anybody from Essex I remember watching a TV programme and a girl said "I'm a typical Essex girl" and I actually had to google "what's a typical Essex girl" 🙈🙈🙈

@Hayley19835 welcome 🥰 oh no that sounds like a tough situation. Is the doctor putting you under any treatment or any medication/investigations? Xx

@Rebecca1992 sounds like a good plan! Fingers crossed for you.

@Jazper 😂😂😂 honestly we all do it, I've got loads of cheapies that it will be hard to not pee on.

@MichT4 have you had more? I'm sure they will help somehow tomorrow, glad you are feeling ok ❤️❤️

@VP91x only brown now, but still there 😢

@VP91x
We were referred in December through NHS to local fertility clinic, so I've had all the routine tests all normal bar my FSH which has been retested this week. OH has had no investigation just his SA which they said take multivitamins, no hot baths etc re-tested at 3months and it had got worse 🤦🏼‍♀️ so he's having ultrasound and genetic bloods on Friday

@Jazper still your pee would have been way too diluted! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you. I think it's best to test at 12 dpo (says the woman who knew this perfectly well yet decided to test at 8 dpo 🤦‍♀️). Have you had any symptoms? X

@Eli2020 don't think I felt implantation but have been having some pains near my right hip, boobs are bigger, increased smell, bad skin so basically all AF symptoms or pregnancy symptoms so the only thing that's convincing me is the belly.
Where are you originally from out of curiosity? Yeah I wouldn't even want to google typical Essex girl tbh, we have a bad rep!
@MichT4 hopefully they'll be able to give you some reassurance tomorrow 🤞

Hi @Hayley19835 welcome to the group! I’m sorry that you have had such a hard time ttc after mc. Hopefully the ultrasound and blood tests will show something that can give you some answers and advice 🤞🏼🤞🏼 xx

@MichT4 sorry to hear about the blood - could be perfectly fine, I’ve everything crossed for you