TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@chloedancer897 I'm 11 CD and got my smiley on CB today confirmed with cheapies too. So I will likely ovulate tomorrow;)

@Jazper it is definitely too early. My first pregnancy ( MC) was lightest line at 11 dpo... I had really move it around to find the line. When will you test next time ? I'm also trying to convince myself not to test too early this cycle. I expect to be 1 dpo in two days wohooo

@Hayley19835 welcome to group! I'm sorry to hear your story! But there are many women who get pregnant later in the life, I know of many cases in their 40s. And it sounds like you are both being checked and get some help ❤️Baby dust dear 😘

@MichT4 I totally get how worried you must be. My sister had a period like bleed with both of her kids and on and off throughout pg, I really hope it's nothing and the EPU can give you some reassurance tomorrow x

I really hope all you ladies waiting to test get your bfps this month 🤞🏼🙏🏼 the tww is a killer and I pass no judgement on early testers as I am a serial tester even after getting a bfp 😂

I’m quite proud of myself today, my sister is pregnant and due in September and since the mc I have found it hard to talk about anything pregnancy related. Today though I actually quite enjoyed chatting about it and it made me feel even excited I suppose about the thought of getting pregnant again. She is going on a shopping trip with my mum for baby things next week which gave me a twinge of sadness as I felt like I should have been going and buying things (I could still go but that is way too much for me atm) but I just tried to busy my thoughts elsewhere and I was fine again 😊. I am very close to my sister and want to be able to support her so I’m glad I felt a bit less weird about things today!

Thank you @Diorissimo1985 and @mrsssk

🤞🏼🤞🏼🌈🌈

That’s great to hear @Northernsoul90. You know it’ll be your turn soon, and you will be on those shopping trips xx

@MichT4 I hope you’re feeling okay and that you can get some advice tomorrow. I’ve got everything crossed for you! 🤞🏼🌈✨

@MichT4 would you be due your period around now? I have bled every month around my period due date first month was fresh then brown I still had spotting yesterday when I would have been due, I had early scan when it happened second time and was told it’s normal and she could see a tiny spot of bruising that was just coming away, don’t loose hope I know easier said then done xxx

@Eli2020 yes definitely better if we all get BFPs 🥰 I'm born and bred in Essex but now in Edmonton, North London x where in Essex are you from @elliew818 ?

@Tink20058 yes it would have been due anywhere between Friday and today depending which app I was looking at.
It’s reassuring to hear it can happen and be fine. Had you had a positive test before the first time it happened? How much was it?
Sorry for all the questions, probably shouldn’t ask as this could be totally different. Just really want this to be ok xxx

@Northernsoul90 thank you I'm hoping we find an answer after these tests and something can be done🤞🏻🤞🏻x

@HopeForRainbowbaby thank you I'm only 36 so I'm trying to remain hopeful. Was a bit shocked when she said pre-menopausal as I'm still relatively young (in my eyes anyway lol) x

@MichT4 have you tried taking another test?

@MichT4 yes it was after my positive pregnancy test it was like a really light period then turned brownish and stopped I’m sure it lasted around 48 hours I thought I had miscarried again I was just told to take another pregnancy test the following week by my epu So did clear blue digitals and the weeks increased but happened again the following month I had private scan and was 6 weeks and she could see a small area of bruising and said it could be period type bleed but that was just brown like old blood, then had the same yesterday was just in the morning when I wiped was a bit brown but I only had my 12 week scan the night before so didn’t panic as much, I bled all the way through with my eldest son he is nearly 15 now 😱 xxx

@MichT4 have you tried taking another test? I know it might be stressful and totally understand if it's too much for you but maybe even seeing a positive test will put your mind at rest for another day? Sometimes you can get breakthrough bleeding when your period is due, your body sheds a little of the lining it doesn't need. That's why many women think they've had a period but they're actually pregnant x

Ladies what’s FRER? I’m assuming first response?

@chloedancer897 I haven’t taken one today and I won’t do because even if I see the positive, i know the hcg would still be there anyway. I think I will wait until Friday/Saturday and take one, unless it gets loads worse then I guess I’ll know.
I guess I could do a weeks one and see if the weeks progress like @tink20058 had. Just worried it’ll give me false hope. So tricky.

@Tink20058 that’s really interesting, thank you for sharing that. I hope this is the same for me. What happened with any symptoms you had? Were they strong throughout? xx

@MichT4 yes I know what you mean. Sorry, I've just become so obsessed wit POAS that I think it's the answer to everything!

@Lollol86 yes it's first response 😊

@chloedancer897 😂😂
I would do it, and not sure I’ll hold out for a week, but I’m hoping something will make me feel more positive soon and I won’t feel the need as much. I just hope we get there. What a rollercoaster xx

@Rainbowhope11 don't worry yourself it should actually be a fresh new month thread so look at it as July part 1. Good things to come

@Girlmum83 congrats hopefully with time you can both come together and talk things through. As a man I'm sure he is trying to remain strong for you but the truth is they hurt deeply and struggle with emotions

Hahaha @VP91x me too 😂🤣 I don't even know what CD I'm on anymore. I've been dtd since I saw the peak on CB, but haven't seen a temp rise yet. I'm hoping it happens tomorrow, but we'll see. Either way I'll wait another two weeks before I take the plunge and take the Provera.

@DBTJ yup, you're right 😊 a new month of opportunity💕

Hi everyone, we had a mmc in March at 11weeks and decided with the pandemic to stop trying for a few months as things seem to be calming down we have decided to get trying again, I'm nervous, excited, scared, every emotion going

@MichT4 I haven’t really had any 😕 I got little bumps on my nipples at around 5dpo and they have just got slightly larger but haven’t had morning sickness or anything my boobs got slighter tender/larger at around 8 weeks but that eased off after couple of days xx

@Hayley19835 god, they take a while to grt through the tests don't they? I hope you get some answers soon, do you know at what point they would take things further? Fingers crossed you get your BFP soon xx

@MichT4 stay hopeful that all will be okay ❤️ keep us updated on what EPU says tomorrow if you decide to call them xxx

@Tink20058 crazy that you bled all the way with your son, that happens to so many and don't even realise they are pregnant until wayy later. Bodies are so mind-boggling!

@Rainbowhope11 ooh I hope you have a temp rise tomorrow so you and your partner can have a rest 😂 that's good. Did you do anything for 4th July? Hopefully I won't be too far behind you 🤞

@chloedancer897 thanks lovely, I’m so rubbish with all these abbreviated words 😂😂 feeling old

@StrawberriCream welcome❤️ sorry you had a loss. How are you finding things now? Are you tracking in any way or taking any supps etc? Xx

@SmileyT alas no bfp for me yet! But I promise I’ll
Let you know if it happens and also give a little warning before taking time out 🙈
Cd 23. Ah that’s the part where you are just waiting! I hate the wait! Are you finding it any easier as the months go by? I think I would be ok if it weren’t for this spotting all the time! Good you have a ‘feeling’ about August though. Thank would make a May baby?? But you might get an April one yet! Xxx