TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@MichT4 please try not to worry. A certain amount of bleeding can be normal. Do you have anything nice planned today or just a nice relaxing day at home? ❤️

@HopeForRainbowbaby I'm 2DPO today and already symptom spotting even though I know it's way too early!lol what about you?

Thank you @chloedancer897. I really hope it’s just normal early PG spotting 🤞🏼
Going to go and get some fresh air, nothing strenuous, then just relax.

How are you? And your Sunday? xx

@MichT4 remember your commandments and enjoy being pregnant today. Just relax and be kind to yourself ❤️

Heading out for a walk because all I've done the last two days is watch YouTube videos of people doing pregnancy tests and I'm driving myself nuts! So I need to get out lol

@Girlmum83 that's amazing! What an emotional journey you've been through. I'm sure your oh just need some time to process it all. It's a lot to take in! Wishing you all the luck in the world 🌈
@VP

Ended too soon!
@VP91x AF due on the 11th xx

@VP91x AF will due for me on the 30th of this month.

@MichT4 I have a close friend who bled through the whole of her pregnancy like this and now has a very lively and healthy 3 year old! Our bodies are weird. Stay positive, sending love ❤️

I also agree the 'pregnancy comments' are insensitive most of the time. I started to shield when I found out I was pregnant as I'm a teacher and when I went back to work after the mc a handful of people said 'oh thought you were pregnant when you stopped coming in' now surely they realise if I was still pregnant I wouldn't have come back to work so obviously somethings happened. People don't mean any harm but they don't realise those comments are like a knife to the heart when trying to recover from a miscarriage.
Also breaks from social media were much needed during my mc. I couldn't cope with people announcing pregnancies everyday whilst I was silently loosing my baby. It gets better though, I no longer feel sad/angry/ jealous. I just think to myself that one day that will be me 🌈❤️

@AC2020 hi cycle buddy ☺️ af also due on the 11th for me. Which cycle is this for you? Keeping my fingers crossed for both of us we both will be announcing bfps this month☺️ I hope you are better behaved than me as I took a test today and was bfn and had a little heart break 😒

@MichT4 im sorry to hear you are dealing with this at the moment. This could be totally normal as the Bub is just getting snuggled in nicely. I'm sending lots of positive energy your way x

@AC2020 @Eli2020 yay cycle buddies also due on the 11th 👌🏾 how long are both of your cycles? x

Hey @Eli2020 fingers crossed for us both! It's my first cycle of ttc after mc which started 1st May and ended on the 23rd May with negative pregnancy test. Still got a bit of brown discharge and I'm so tired these past couple of days. I just feel like I'm on a tightrope between excitement and fear - so looking forward to being pregnant, having a baby and starting our family but terrified of potentially go through that hell again. I don't know if I'm strong enough

@SmileyT I'm 28 day cycles

@AC2020 sorry to hear you've been through this 🙁 for me this is my 4th cycle after miscarriage in the end of March. Also now I read your other message about people commenting-makes me so angry how insensitive some people can be 🙁

@SmileyT @AC2020 and @elliew818 I think we are all cycle buddies due on the 11th 😍 my cycles are 28 days btw. Does anybody have any symptoms at all 😃 I acquired a pimple yesterday and another one today and that's not super common for me-it's 50/50... sometimes I get a pimple before AF sometimes I don't But that's all I can contribute symptom-wise 😅Anybody else having any actual legitimate symptoms ?

Just seen it didnt tag @SmileyT and @elliew818 in my previous message

@Eli2020 they can be.
I've just felt tired these past couple of days really but nothing more. Fingers crossed it's not an AF pimple! 🤞🏻

@Eli2020 @AC2020 @elliew818 yeah 28 day cycles for me aswell... the odds say at least one of us should get our BFP next week 🤞 🤞 no symptoms over here apart from a few pains around right pelvis, knackered and if I squeeze my boobs enough they hurt 😂 but I've noted these on previous cycles so who knows. I also had surgery for MC in March so 4th cycle I guess x

@SmileyT @Eli2020 @elliew818 🤞🏻❤️

@SmileyT @AC2020 @elliew818 fingers crossed 😍 and best scenario we all get bfps 🥰 where do you live ladies? I live sort of between Morden and Sutton x

@Emsnewmum ahh have your apps always been right for your ovulation? I think once you don't have any more bleeding/spotting and you get a positive you are probably okay to try again but maybe double check with EPU if you're concered about the polyp? Im in Hertfordshire I think @HE88 is in Scotland? Xx

@Rebecca1992 woah, hats off to you that's a massive streak 😂 you definitely need the rest!! Are you 1dpo now? X

@Wishingfornumber2 Thanks. Hope you are feeling good. Where are you in cycle? X

@Eli2020 I'm an Essex girl I'm afraid...but nothing like one! Sorry about your BFN, I sympathise, I never test before AF usually because it's too heartbreaking but I've just got a feeling I am. Not really a legitimate symptom and DH thinks I'm raving mad but my belly looks pregnant. Sounds stupid I know but it feels hard and rounded, hard to explain but I've been eating healthier this month so it looks like it's popped out of nowhere 🤷‍♀️ if I'm not pregnant I need to start doing some exercise lol
Glad there are some others due around the same time so I can revel in a BFP or 3 even if it's not mine!

Got all the dates down for everyone who wrote so far, have a few more left if anyone else wants to tag me 🥰

Spent my afternoon deep cleaning my kitchen, including defrosting my freezer 🤔 never a good idea.

@MichT4 I hope you are feeling better ❤️

@Northernsoul90 aw sorry to hear that. Mine was a blighted ovum too 😟 it was horrible seeing the scan with nothing there. I didn’t need medical management and it was natural and happened in March. Cycles regular but I’m getting this spotting early all the time.
Aw that’s annoying that you still test positive. I hope that things settle down again soon for you 🤞

Thanks for sorting the dates for everybody @VP91x and that does not sound like a fun Sunday, well done for being productive though!

Ah sorry for multiple posts but just remembered I'd read through and not actually congratulated @MichT4 !!! So pleased you got your BFP and my SIL has multiple bleeds during her pregnancy and all was absolutely fine...I say this but I'd probably be worrying too! Have you spoken to EPU? (Sorry if you've already said)

@VP91x hey lovely to speak with you again. How are you? Where are you in cycle now?

I think if I speak to my doctor she will say it’s too early and that things may not settle for a few months. This is 4 months since mc. I was taking vitex to help regulate cycles after breastfeeding and stuff. I stopped taking it as I was worried what would happen if I did fall pregnant, like would I just stop taking it? That would play with hormones and then if I carry on taking it through pg is it safe? It’s not doctor recommended so I just thought when I stopped bf to stop taking it and go natural. So yup nothing apart from ttc vitamins. My doctor isn’t very nice tbf- she’s always too blunt and short with me. I stay for the midwife who is lovely! X