TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

[Rainbowhope11]

@Dipsy77 yay!!! Congrats lovely! Fingers crossed that you see a lovely progression line xx

[HopeForRainbowbaby]

@Girlmum83 what a story ❤️ your emotions are also pouring out when reading your words. I followed it anxiously and I couldn't be more happy for you ! Congratulations to you and your husband ! Wow and already 9 weeks☺️ are you whole time in bed with bed rest request from doctor ?

[VP91x]

@elliew818 if I actually ovulate this month it'll sooo hard for me to not test from. 7dpo, can't help myself 🙈 fingers crossed for 11th 🤞

@SmileyT this is very true!! Ahhh what did you think second time around? How are you this morning?

@Northernsoul90 thank you lovely x

@ManchNic hey! how have you been getting on?

@Emsnewmum I think generally omcr you have stopped bleeding you are good to start TTC again if you feel comfortable are you tracking with anything at all? Xx

@Wishingfornumber2 ahh I'm glad you're onto a new cycle so you have a fresh start! I'm sure your cycle will regulate again this month sometimes you just have an odd cycle I think. Hope you're okay xx

@Dipsy77 oh wow, congratulations! Definitely a BFP with a line on that IC too. Fantastic news ❤️ you're 10dpo aren't you? Xx

[VP91x]

@Rainbowhope11 we will be on part 10 by the time I'm due to test again!🤣 How are you feeling?xx

@MichT4 how are you this morning lovely 🥰 xx

[SmileyT]

@VP91x yeah I actually got OH to watch it aswell and he was like 'she definitely isn't dead' so I'm sticking with that for now. 😂 feeling good this morning, standardly no signs of PMS or anything else and I haven't manually marked anything on apps so they are saying I'm somewhere between 8 and 11dpo just based on info I've input and predicting AF between Wednesday and Sunday but I still think it will be Friday. What have you got planned today? You had any early fertile week signs yet with the iso? x

[HopeForRainbowbaby]

@vp91x AF due on July 21. I will try to hold off testing as long as I can. Thanks for making a list.
@Wishingfornumber2 I'm glad that you have started the cycle after negatives. And can get ready for ttc ;) There are many factors that sometimes can lengthen the cycle. And even with regular cycles( at least before MC) there will be some differences. My cycles were just weird after MCs( so I can't comment on that except that midwife told me that my cycles may return to normal within 6 months or never be the same). And before that I have noticed that If I have travelled somewhere, my cycle could be longer by 4 days. Do you know when did you ovulate ?

[VP91x]

@SmileyT haha maybe there will be Frozen 3 and our questions will be answered!? 😂 Glad you're feeling good! Bella has just requested Frozen again for her morning watch 🙈

Will probably just get out somewhere for a walk or something. This rainy dull weather is annoying. How about you?

Nothing yet, today is my last day of taking it. Although had bit more of a bleed this morning so this will be last day of AF. Xx

[Dipsy77]

@VP91x thanks I'm either 9 or 11 I'm thinking more 9, I am starting to feel sick and my heart rate has jumped up from a normal 63 to 73, the highest it's ever been is 69 I'm waiting till tomorrow FRER before I feel confident enough to believe it xx

[Dipsy77]

@VP91x @SmileyT I've looked at the plot on wiki and it doesn't say she died, I was mortified when I read that but I don't think she is (hoping) although DP says she is lol xx

[Eli2020]

Morning ladies, I feel quite deflated this morning 🙁 I'm 8 dpo and did an IC test and it was negative. I'm just so sad thinking I should have had a big bump by now and instead I'm going through this pain 🙁 @elliew818 I completely relate to everything you are saying. The only reason I never tested yesterday at 7 dpo like you is because I never had a concentrated enough Pee. Speaking of which the one I tested with wasn't that concentrated as I was up 4 times to pee during the night, so maybe was an hour and a half homd sort of thing but still thought it should show if I was truly pg 🙁

@VP91x af is due for on the 11th. I had decided to not test till the 9th but as expected I like to torture myself and start testing early and have an even longer heart break 😒

@Girlmum83 oh wow !!!! What a story!!! I'm so excited for you-I can only imagine what a roller coaster this has been for you but what a blessing! Now that you look back would you say you had any pregnancy symptoms at all that you maybe thought were something else at the time? X

[VP91x]

@Eli2020 I know you feel deflated but 8dpo is still very early, especially with an IC which is about 20-25miu sensitivity aaaand, with only 1.5hr hold at best. Definitely not a reliable result❤️ hold off if you can until 11/12dpo and use an early result test 🥰

[VP91x]

@Dipsy77 all brilliant signs, you'll definitely have a strong line tomorrow on your FRER 😍

[Northernsoul90]

@Dipsy77 congratulations! All positive signs you’ve been experiencing, I think you should get a strong line tomorrow ! 💖

@Eli2020 sorry that you’re feeling down today 😣 8dpo is very early to show up on a test though so definitely don’t lose hope for this cycle yet. Test again in a few days maybe with a more sensitive test 🤞🏼 Xx

[SmileyT]

@Dipsy77 I'm in agreement about her not being dead 🙌🏾 normally in kids films they make it a bit clearer and share the emotions if somebody dies 🤔

@VP91x im watching petes dragon this morning, I've put some washing on and OH is doing me a chicken roast 👌🏾 I'll more than likely have a nap at some point aswell 😂 I hope you make it into FW for when my period starts, we may actually get closer in our cycles and get our well deserved BFPs together x

@Eli2020 ahh you are definitely not out, are the cheapies you used sensitive ones, think 9dpo is the average day for hcg to start to be produced so could definitely be too early. What symptoms are you having now? x

@elliew818 hope you are feeling better this morning and I'm not sure anyone has the same view on what happened in frozen 2 so no spoilers possible 😂

[Eli2020]

Thank you for the nice words @Northernsoul90 and @VP91x
I'm just so sad and don't understand why we all have to go through this pain 🙁

@SmileyT nothing major symptoms wise, my boobs started to hurt more yesterday (but this could be af). Acquired a pimple yesterday 😅 and been having nightmares for the past 3 nights but don't think this qualifies as "having vivid dreams" 🤪 clutching at straws basically 🙄 and what about you, how are you feeling? X

[VP91x]

@SmileyT are you watching the original version? I used to love it soo much when I was little. Sounds like a fab sunday and it's sunny here now 😊 I know would be so good wouldn't it! Xx

[mrsssk]

@dipsy77 @girlmum83 congrats to you both!
Couldn't believe it reading your story, so happy for you x

[Northernsoul90]

@Eli2020 I felt the same a few days ago, just really down about everything and like it was never going to happen. After trying to keep my mind busy on other things and venting on here a little I felt a lot better the next day. It’s so hard what we have all been through, it’s easy to forget we are allowed off days sometimes. Allow yourself to feel sad when you do I think that getting over a mc can take a lot longer than we allow ourselves and may never fully happen. Maybe go out for a walk (if the weather allows), watch a movie or do something to try and occupy your mind for a while? I hope you feel a bit better about things soon ❤️ Just know you aren’t alone in your feelings and everyone is here to listen xx

[Eli2020]

@Northernsoul90 aww you are soo sweet ☺️ thanks a lot-have some things to return so may take myself for a walk later 🤔 OH saw a was very sad and made me cinnamon rolls 🤤

[MichT4]

@VP91x I’m ok, I had fresh blood this morning when I wiped 😢😢
I’ve put a pad on to see if and how it progresses.

I’m trying really hard to stay calm, especially as OH broke down a bit last night (after many beers!) about how worried he is and he can’t go through it again, so I’ve told him, but am trying to be a bit positive that it might still be ok.

I can’t believe it though. Just shitty.

How are you?

@Eli2020 don’t feel deflated, an IC probably wouldn’t show yet, you’ve still got time. Fingers crossed for you xx

[MichT4]

Just read the commandments 🤞🏼🤞🏼🌈🌈

[Mommybear05]

Hello girls I’m back... remember me?

Sorry I’ve been away for a while. This whole ttc thing is really getting me upset and with everything else going on in the world it’s just been a rough time!
@Hayleylou89 you are pregnant? I literally cried when I read this. I am so u believably over the moon for you! And I was thinking of you on June 7th. I hope that you are feeling good now and have your rainbow baby. You deserve it so much!

A big congratulations to all the other ladies who have fallen pregnant too 😍

@SmileyT I wonder if we are still cycle buddies these days? Every single month since my mc I keep spotting on cd 24/25 and then my period usually comes full cd 28/30. For the first few months I kept thinking ooohh implantation bleeding! But the period always followed and I was left disappointed. I’m cd 27 now. The spotting started a few days ago and I have been basically having a mini meltdown and crying all the time because it’s my 30th this month and I was hoping to get my bfp. Just feel like spotting at cd 24 is giving me no chance! Like I have a short luteal phase or something! I haven’t been using ovulation sticks but I’ve been tracking my body and I reckon I ovulate at cd 12. I said to hubby I want ovulation sticks this month. I don’t think the outcome will be too different because we dtd all the way through anyway but at least I’ll know if luteal phase is short. How have you been getting on?

Anyone else sick of comments from people all the time? I was at work the other day and a colleague literally said to me ‘we were talking about you the other day and saying we reckon you will come back to school in September pregnant!’ And then I have been teaching from home and uploading videos on the internet (cringe!) and a relative of my husband (children attend the school) sent a screen shot of the video to my hubby and said ‘has she got another one cooking in there yet?’ And I’m like no maybe I just put on a few pounds because I’ve been eating my feelings lately!

But I see some bfps on here in the time I have been away and this has so lifted my spirits. Sorry again for being away. I just needed to stop obsessing and it seems I was still obsessing anyway and still no luck yet. Sometimes the road just feels so long xxxxx

[Northernsoul90]

@MichT4 definitely keep reading the commandments ✨ I really hope you are okay and the fresh blood stops. Try not to panic 💖 keep us updated with how you are, a lot of ladies have some degree of bleeeing in early pregnancy and go on to have completley healthy babies 🙏🏼🤞🏼 xx

@Mommybear05 wishing you luck on your ttc journey! 🤞🏼

The comments drive me insane, I also teach and when I was ttc last time I had a parent ask if I was pregnant, speculation constantly in the staff room about if I was pregnant (was told by another colleague) and just generally ignorant comments from people. One colleague informed me - we have decided we think you are pregnant because we’ve noticed you aren’t drinking tea as much (I wasn’t pregnant at the time but longing to be). It’s just so insensitive and adds to pressure and upset xxx

[Wishingfornumber2]

I’m ok thanks @VP91x always feel down when AF first starts but then dust myself off and carry on. I hadn’t heard the theory about Elsa dying, have seen frozen 2 a few times but didn’t get that lol! X

@HopeForRainbowbaby no don’t know when I ovulated. I was using cb opk and run out of sticks before I got my static peak. So was just guessing when I ovulated if I even did. How are you? Have you been tracking this cycle? I’ve decided to not track this next cycle, just want to go right back to basics! X

@Eli2020 as the other ladies have said it’s still early, hold off testing and try again next week. Fingers crossed for you. X

Just seen a school friend has announced her pregnancy on fb. I want to feel happy for her but just feel so jealous! X

[Northernsoul90]

I hadn’t told people I was ttc either - everyone just presumed and started making comments as I had got married that summer 😠