TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

[VP91x]

@Girlmum83 oh my goodness! That is incredible, wow. I'm having a hard time processing it for you!! I really think your OH will be okay soon, you both must not even be past grieving for your lost twins and now here it is happening again it must be so scary. But, I hope that everything keeps going positively and healthily for your two babies. Please, have lots and lots of rest look after yourself, keep us updated. What a gorgeous scan picture ❤️❤️❤️

[Girlmum83]

@MichT4 Thank you and yes I most definitely do feel like I’m dreaming ☺️ the kids keeping asking what’s wrong with me as I keep crying and sitting in a daze . I won’t be telling them anytime soon till I know how this is going so just keep saying I don’t feel very well and have a sore tummy 🙈 not sure how long I can pull that off for but will do my best . Hopefully will have pulled myself together by tomorrow . I think your right about my oh being in shock too . Tomorrow’s a new day have promised myself I won’t bring it up till he is ready . I’m sure he will get there in his own time and like you say take it all in x

[MichT4]

I agree @Girlmum83, make sure your priority is lots of rest and relaxation. Wishing you a healthy and wonderful 9 months xxx

[VP91x]

@sunflower1988 welcome to the thread 🥰 sorry you've had a loss recently. Hope you find support here, exciting that you are testing so soon🤞🤞

@SmileyT yeah there's a whole debate 🤣 I don't think she does die, but there is a theory that she does when she gets frozen. Either way, shes fab but Anna is sooo my kind of girl!

Haha I'll give it a go, I'm taking one date and one date only 😂😂 AF has gone, tomorrow is my last dose of soy. Ovulation, hurry up please!!

@Northernsoul90 yeah it's so interesting, hopefully it works. Don't have the patience to wait another week.

[VP91x]

@Northernsoul90 another two or so weeks that was meant to say 😂

[Girlmum83]

@VP91x Thankyou and yes Of course I will update as things ( hopefully 🙏) progress . Just realised I’ve not eaten all day so off to order a late night take away and try and relax For a bit before I hopefully get a good nights sleep . Don’t think it’s really sunk in yet but trying my best to stay away from google and thoughts of the past and to have a positive mindset that things could be so very different this time 🙏🙏 your totally right tho . I’ve only just realised today that I haven’t really grieved Athens boys at all . I kept myself busy and just got in with life , focusing on the future and what I already had without really allowing myself to take time to think about what we had lost other than to think it just wasn’t meant to be . In a strange way I feel like that’s what I’ve done today . Grieve . Tomorrow I have to try and refocus on the future otherwise I will drive myself crazy or well that’s tonight’s plans anyway 💕

[VP91x]

* Ladies - this might get lost so when you next post if you tag me and let me know what date AF is due or you'll be testing I will put it on the list and post for us all xx *

[2020wish]

Omg @Girlmum83!! Wow I think I cried reading that! I’m wishing you all the best!! Did ur pregnancy tests come up negative before that??

@VP91x I’m gonna test around the 17th

[Lollol86]

@SmileyT @VP91x this is my first time tracking so I will go with the norm and af due 18th of July for now x

[elliew818]

@Girlmum83 that's such wonderful news, I can understand it must be a big shock for you both though. I'm sure you're DH will be fine, sometimes people need longer than others to properly get their head round things. Congratulations to you both x
Just popping it to mark my place. Thanks for the new thread @VP91x
So I had a random unstoppable urge to POAS today at 7DPO...what was I expecting other than a BFN! I think I needed to see it because I've totally convinced myself I'm pregnant and it gave me a bit of a reality check. 🙄
Hope everyone is enjoying their Saturday night. Also no spoilers for frozen 2, I haven't seen it yet! Lol

[elliew818]

I'll be testing (again 😳) probably 11th 🤞

[SmileyT]

@Girlmum83 wow that really is amazing and an absolute miracle, as the other ladies have said I'm sure OH is still processing without being in the room I guess he feels slightly more detached. But sending you and the twins so many positive thoughts, please keep us updated x

@VP91x I watched brave earlier and just put frozen 2 back on 🤣 I needed to watch it with fresh eyes. And yes definitely get one date and keep it there, also a fan of only putting a date on after ovulation otherwise it's a bit of a guess 🤔 hoping your ovulation comes up soon x

[Northernsoul90]

@VP91x I hope it works for you!! 🤞🏼 I won’t be testing this time still just waiting for my first proper cycle xx

@Girlmum83 ahh right thank you for explaining! I hope you get the outcome that you want for the inner sacs and that all stays well and healthy 💖 I can imagine you are feeling so many different emotions right now, as the other ladies said take some time to rest and get your head around things. Keep us updated with how you get on! xx

@elliew818 fingers crossed for you for next time you test 🤞🏼

[ManchNic]

Hey, I know I don't post much at all by keeping up with everyone's news and just marking my place 😊

@Girlmum83 omg!!! What a story and what amazing news, congratulations

[Emsnewmum]

Hi all, been trying to keep up with the chat but I kept getting behind! Love what a friendly chatty group this is its lovely.

So happy to see all those lovely bfp and wishing you all the best in your pregnancies!

To all those still trying wishing you all a lucky month!

Does anyone know if its safe to ttc when I still have what looks like old blood in my discharge or would I be safer waiting?

X

[ManchNic]

*but, not by 🙈

[Wishingfornumber2]

Thanks for new thread @VP91x. So after getting another negative test yesterday I felt quite low. However AF has arrived today CD42! I’m relieved in a way as at least I now know for certain. So weird though as I have been so regular recently, 31/32 day cycles but last cycle was 28 days and now this 42 day one. Just don’t know what is going on. Can only put it down to stress of TTC.

Congrats @MichT4 & @Dipsy77 nice news to catch up on.

Also amazing news @Girlmum83! Must’ve been such a shock. Does sound like your OH is in shock himself. I’m sure he will want to talk about it soon.

[fafi]

@girlmum83 what an incredible story! I told my husband and we are in total disbelief - so amazing! I have everything crossed for you that things work out this time around. I think the advice from everyone here is great - it's been a super emotional time for you both xx

[Emsnewmum]

@girlmum83

Wow huge congratulations what a time you have been through it must be such a rollacoaster of emotions. Wishing you all the best with the twins and hopefully you get the news you want at your scan.

Xx

[chloedancer897]

Welcome @Girlmum83 and congratulations! What an amazing story and one for their memory books! Look after yourself and rest as much as you need xo

[Girlmum83]

Thanks ladies 💕 I really do appreciate all the well wishes And will keep yous posted 💕😘
@2020wish I only ever tested the once after the d&c to ensure that there were no more pregnancy hormones or retained products floating around . Even then I would never have tested if it wasn’t for one of the lovely ladies on mumsnet mentioning doing so herself as was never advised by any medical professionals at the time that I should do so . I’ve never been an early tester only ever poas after I was confident that af was late and getting a clear bfp Straight away so I never felt the urge to test after that negative as was so convinced that I had a lighter period at the end of May Which they said would likely happen after the d&c and then another heavier flow at the end of June spot on when my period would arrived in any typical cycle for me 😬 of course I now know that it must have been some kind of implantation bleed and then later the hematoma rather than a period so they’ve had to date me from when I most likely conceived this time rather than my last period as seems I’ve never had one post mc ( which thankfully matched up with what they are Currently measuring ) but I honestly had no clue 🙈 I used to read stories of ladies who Said they only found out they were pregnant weeks Or months in as they’d had “ periods “ during their pregnancy Or not noticed they had missed one and think really ? how is that really even possible to be pregnant and not know ?! how silly I feel to have ever thought that now 🙈 however I’ve also never experienced a loss before or had to physically recover from one so any little symptoms that I have had this time like headaches and sore boobs I just assumed were due to my body settling down again and Cycles getting back into a rythm as they Also mirror my usual period symptoms and the bleeding end of June was quite a heavy flow So in my mind I hadn’t “ missed “ a period so gave it no more thought . Morning or all day Sickness for me has only ever really kicked in around 9/10 weeks in the past so I still ( hopefully 🙏) have that joy to come . The First and likey the only time in my life I am ever going to say that I’m looking forward to that 😁 I mean I’m suddenly feeling very sick all day today And currently can’t sleep for thinking I’m going to throw up but that could Very well be a mixture of nerves and a late night take away ! I’m usually such a positive thinking , good things come to those who wait , glass half full and every cloud has a silver lining kind of girl so I’m going to try really hard to suppress the fear , enjoy in the current moment and celebrate every successful Blessed day of carrying these baby’s . As with every one of you wonderfully strong ladies the fear is of course naturally there that things could go so wrong again In the future and history could repeat itself but I’ve Also been repeating to myself all day In between the crying and panicking that the odds are forever in our favour for a successful pregnancy 🙏 I’ve done this before and if the worst happens I also know I will be strong enough to survive the heartache .we may not know when and it may not be straight away but we will all get to hold our precious rainbow baby/ baby’s One day Soon of that I am sure 💕😊

[Rainbowhope11]

@VP91x we're on part 5 already?! I thought I'd be pregnant again by now 😫 Thanks for the new thread love Xx

[Rainbowhope11]

@Girlmum83 wow!!! That is absolutely incredible! You've been through so much, wishing you all the best lovely ❤️ I am so thrilled for you. I'm sure OH will come around, he's probably just needs some time to process the shock. Hope you are feeling a bit better today Xx

[Dipsy77]

@Girlmum83 that is amazing hope everything. Goes well for you congratulations xx

[Dipsy77]

Morning ladies, had the urge to POAS but used an internet cheapy thinking nothing would show as it's not a sensitive one it's 20mg and you can see a very faint line and it came up straight away so fingers crossed for the FRER tomorrow