TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@VP91x @SmileyT thank you! I was curious about it and it’s also helpful to know obviously. Our bodies are so interesting but frustrating at the same time! The day 21 progesterone tests are something I haven’t heard of... don’t get me started haha 🤪 xx

@SmileyT I can't find the thread, can you tag me in or copy the link here?

@VP91x thanks. In spite of myself I always have a little bit of hope until I see AF, but this feels so like my usual symptoms, just earlier than expected x

Having a time of it. Dh ex finally agreed to speak with him on the phone regarding letting him see his kids (she stopped contact last Halloween for no other reason than she’s still not over him)

But she kept bringing up our pregnancy and how dare he impregnate another woman. Then when he told her to be nice and explained we have had 3 loses she bloody laughed and shouted well that sucks infront of his eldest daughter. I feel so broken... I didn’t think anyone could react and be that cruel. Don’t think dh fully understands why I’ve taken it so bad. Just feel like crying

Firstly Thank you ladies 💕 there’s so many of you and this thread moves so fast that I’ve struggled to keep up to thank you all personally but really do appreciate all the well wishes 💕

@Emsnewmum - I’m also in scotland
( edinburgh ) 😊

@HopeForRainbowbaby - yes the obstetric team that I had a brief chat with on Saturday have advised me to rest as much as I can ( complete bed rest would be ideal but pretty impossible ) until I hear from my consultant this week hopefully . I think they are just being very cautious as I had another slight bleed straight after the scan and still experiencing some pain which is hopefully uti related 🙏

@Eli2020 - hmmm yes I have had some symptoms that I’ve had in previous pregnancy’s now that I think about it like feeling extremely tired , as though I’ve had a never ending hangover for weeks only without the drink , really run down , a bit dizzy and lacking in energy like someone had zapped it all out of me , bad skin and horrendous cramps . I’ve also been very emotional and my boobs have been very sore on and off . However I have also been extremely busy , not getting much sleep as one of my daughters have been poorly, not had much of an appetite or been taking any of the vitamins that I usually do , was grieving a loss and had what I thought were periods as the bleeding was always when I would normally have expected af so I just assumed it was my body recovering from the mc and delivery of my previous twins and getting back into a cycle 😬 The thought had crossed my mind a few times leading up to my last “ period / bleed “ last week that I could be expecting again but like many ladies who are ttc I had become so obsessed with symptom spotting that I truly just thought I was beginning to imagine things that weren’t there just because I wanted it so bad and was trying so hard to be pregnant again if that makes sense. Then I had what I thought was a full flown period start a day before I was expecting af so thought nothing more of it as they are also period symptoms for me and had no urge to test . I’m now kicking myself for not looking after myself properly the last few months or testing just incase but what is done is done I know I can’t change the past only wait it out rest and focus on the future so no point in beating myself up ☺️

I spent yesterday just relaxing and trying to de stress after a pretty sleepless night . Haven’t brought it up again with my other half yet he’s been chatting away as tho as nothing’s happened all day although he did ask my oldest daughter to help out with the housework for the next few weeks , told her I had a bad back and wasn’t to lift anything heavier than a cup and had to rest . Il take that for now and know we will chat when he is ready . I hope everyone else had a lovely relaxing Sunday x

@MichT4 Im sorry that you’ve been experiencing some bleeding and completely understand your worry but very much hope you can get some reassurance from epu today and that everything settles down again for you and you can begin to relax and enjoy a happy successful pregnancy . I’ve everything crossed for you for a healthy progression 🤞🏼🙏 sending you lots of positive thoughts 💕

@2020wish I’m so sorry that your husbands spiteful ex has been so cruel and darn right nasty 😢. I completely understand why you would feel so broken after her uncalled for horrible comments / laughter 💔 it’s such a tough journey that you’ve travelled and fully appreciate that you could really do without that added trauma at anytime . Sending you lots of love 💕

@VP91x shame, dh always likes to be involved and I think he tries to take the pressure off me. Last month he kept asking me if I tested, which actually got very annoying 😂 so I asked him to chill a bit.

So I was checking my cm earlier and noticed that there was a tiny speck of blood in my ewcm. Last time I had that, I definitely ovulated so hoping it's a good sign!

@Rainbowhope11 ah brilliant, sounds like a great sign. Yeah, I cam imagine if there's alot of questioning it doesn't help when you're trying to be relaxed.

@2020wish god, she sounds horrific. Honestly, she's just probably projecting her own issues onto you and being hateful. Hope you are okay xxx

@Northernsoul90 well its not like I was still googling them last night, haha 👀👀

@ManchNic totally have to keep the faith until AF says otherwise! Everything crossed for you x

Morning ladies
Used my FRER this morning and it's a definite positive
I'm so happy, shocked, scared don't know what to think. I ovulated late and managed to dtd once in fertile week either on day of ovulation or 2 days before. I ran out of OPKs after I got my peak but thought sod it it won't happen this month anyway.
I used the fertility cup and have been taking all the vits including calc Fluor and vitamin e,d,omega 3, evening primrose oil and pregnacare. I've also been eating brazills, pineapple, pomegranates, pineapples and grapefruit oh and drinking rose.
My temp and heart rate are high and increasing and I have been getting period cramps but not so much today, no sore boobs but feel tired, moody, emotional and so forgetful and ditsy I made a morning coffee (decaf) from the machine without putting a cup under it that made me think I could be as I get baby brain really bad. Let's bring on more BFPs good look everyone xx

Here's the pic xx

@VP91x @Northernsoul90 I just had a look at these day 21 prog tests and OH was like you know you're ovulating because your temp goes up why are you going to pay £40 to check this every month 🙄 I'm a bit late in this cycle but if I have another month where my temp is erratic might try it out just to check x

@ManchNic oh sorry I didn't mean a seperate thread just a few of us all due the same day x

@2020wish that is awful what she said I hope a good nights sleep and lots of cuddles from OH has you feeling slightly better this morning x

Hope everyone is doing well this morning xx

@SmileyT yeah, if I have another mental no ovu month then I'll get one just to see my level.

How are you feeling this morning? How are your temps doing?

@Dipsy77 massive congratulations knew you'd great a strong line today! ❤️❤️ Wishing you a happy & healthy pregnancy xxx

@Dipsy77 oh, and it was definitely the rose!😂Xx

@VP91x thanks lol yes I think so too xx

@Dipsy77 yesssss!!!! Congratulations lovely! What a strong line😊 so happy for you! Xx

@Rainbowhope11 thank you 😊 xx

@Dipsy77 huge congratulations lovely! I knew that line would get darker. Wishing you a healthy, happy 9 months!

@Girlmum83 thank you! I’ll give them a call later and just see what they would usually suggest. Not sure there’s much they’ll say given how early on it is, but I’m sure they’ll give guidance - even if it’s what I already have said which is to test in a week. They might be nice and offer blood tests but I doubt it.

@2020wish I can’t believe this woman! She’s definitely got her own issues, one of which is real jealousy! Don’t know how people can be so spiteful.

@MichT4 thank you you too xx

@Dipsy77 huge congrats!! ❤ Wishing u a healthy and happy 9 months and beyond!! Where were you in your cycle??

Huge congratulations @Dipsy77 🌈❤️

@SmileyT thank goodness, I don't think I could keep up with another thread 😂 x

@Dipsy77 congratulations!!

@2020wish sorry the ex is being so awful, like others have said though, when someone behaves like that it's almost always nothing to do with you, and just them being jealous and spiteful. What a horrible person to do that though x

Thanks everyone I'm buzzing at the minute although still very nervous
@Rebecca1992 I'm 10dpo I think I implanted early (6dpo) I usually do xx

@Dipsy77 Wow that's such a strong line for so early! Congrats 👏❤ x

@Dipsy77 🌈 congratulations! X

@MichT4 how are you this morning xx