TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies ❤️


BFPs 🥰
@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@ManchNic
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Niisa
@Bellabubble
@Ejb86
@Wishingfornumber2
@DontStandSoClose
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@NightDreaming
@Saim86
@bxiiboo
@IWM20
@busby85
@Northernsoul90

I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

[MichT4]

I don’t know why it tagged @calimommy twice, the first one is for @2020wish

[VP91x]

@MichT4 I know, all that sex, CB sticks, cheapie sticks, grapefruit juice for nothing 😭

[SmileyT]

@VP91x yeah I was bloody boiling last night even with the fan so think you're right and yeah my body is bloody regular just wish it guaranteed pregnancy 😂 ahh so annoying your temp was down this morning I really thought it would've risen again. I know it's not what you want to hear now but you are not out yet, I've seen so many pregnancy temp charts that don't show a clear rise after ovulation x

Congrats again @Ejb86 bet you are over the moon 🙌🏾 amazing when we get BFPs on this thread definitely gives us all hope xx

@MichT4 how are you today? x

Welcome @calimommy sorry you find yourself here after such a recent loss but I've got everything crossed you get that 4th DC to complete your family soon. Will you wait for AF to test? xx

And I've taken guidance from you lovely ladies and didn't even wake OH up with my CB stick - I don't know how people keep BFPs from their partners I feel like I'm going to burst and it's just a bloody peak 😂

[MichT4]

@VP91x nooo not for nothing. You learnt you love grapefruit juice, and now know you get a lot of ewcm from it!
I’m still hoping this is just a weird old month and you did ovulate, but your temps are being arseholes.

[MichT4]

@SmileyT I’m fine thank you. Keep banging on, but really struggling with hayfever. Had another nosebleed last night. It’s just annoying I can’t take a tablet. I bought the nasal spray which is safe for TTC but it’s not keeping it away all day.
Other than that I’m fine, this first week of the TWW is going at a nice pace because I’ve had some time off. I think next week will be a very different story 😂
How are you? Excited to DTD? 🍆

[VP91x]

@SmileyT yeah last month it was really hot when I was in my TWW too and I would take it, take my cover off if I had it on for 5 mins then re-take because I knew I was boiling 😂

Isn't it hard not to say anything!? But yay, I really hope you get your positive this month 🥰

I know, but my temps are sooo low like they are pre-ov between 35.95-36.2 so, that's why I've lost hope.

@MichT4 I do love GF juice 😂 ahhh, what a bummer. How are you today x

[MichT4]

@VP91x yeah I’m fine thanks. Just thinking about whether my LP is as long as I think and how long my cycle will actually be. Allowing myself to worry that what if it’s really short and that’s the issue 🤔. Or this actually could just be a really long month for some reason
Guess I’ll find out 🤷🏻‍♀️
But having a lovely week, and hoping it’ll make the TWW more bearable. Not that I can take time off every TWW, not sure that’s feasible 😂
And as I said to @SmileyT, hayfever 🤬

How are you? What movie/strip/activity combo are we on today?

[MichT4]

@VP91x NOT strip! Strop 🙄

[VP91x]

@MichT4 apparently LPs don't really change it is your follicular phase that is most likely to change, so try not to worry 🥰

Ahh so annoying that you get such bad hayfever!! Hope you don't keep suffering too badly.

Frozen this morning because her auntie sent her some dolls from there so, its the obsession of the day. We replaced her padding pool yesterday for a massive one so will be spending the day in the garden again. But this mornings strop was because she didnt like her shorts 🤷 xx

[HopeForRainbowbaby]

Hi ladies, AF has shown her face so I'm CD 1. Ready for AF to be over and hopefully I ovulate earlier than last month which I would take as sign that my cycle is regulating after MC. Let July be the month for all of us who didn't have bfp or do not need to still test this month. In the meantime I will treat myself to champagne and lot of good things these days before starting with ttc.

[SmileyT]

@MichT4 hayfever is a bitch, I still take tablets for it, I read they were safe and honestly don't think I'd be able to go into the office without them 😬yeah I always find the first week of TWW okay and then between days 8-12 get super anxious about it. Well as I haven't told OH I've got my peak and he is working all day and I'm out tonight I don't know whether we'll DTD 😩 but when I get into bed I will try and initiate something but if it doesn't happen I've promised myself I won't get upset (don't judge me if I'm on here at midnight crying about it, I can only try 😂)

@VP91x are you still doing cheapie tests? Any chance your body could've tried to ovulate and will try again? So wish I was spending the day in the garden, I've been awake for 2hours and I'm still lying in bed trying to psyche myself up to shower and get ready for work 😴 x

[Wishingfornumber2]

@Ejb86 yay lovely BFP congrats!

@VP91x as the others have said you are not out until AF arrives which hopefully she doesn’t 🤞.

@SmileyT ha ha well done on not telling your OH, nice little secret to have 😉.

[SmileyT]

@HopeForRainbowbaby sorry AF arrived but yes to the champagne and lots of treats and cheers to a more positive July 🥂 x

[MichT4]

@VP91x but I don’t know for sure when I ovulated in previous months, so I’m taking LP from app predictions. I’ll just see how this month pans out, no point worrying about it yet.

😂😂 your little lady sounds like a right little sass! A day in the garden sounds lovely! Hope you get some good shade 🥵

@HopeForRainbowbaby sorry AF has arrived, though champagne sounds delightful. Do you have a champers of choice? I love your positive attitude, a new month and a new opportunity. Fingers crossed this is the one 🤞🏼

[Wishingfornumber2]

@HopeForRainbowbaby ahh sorry to hear about AF but yes gives your body a reset. I’m sure I will be joining you soon. Enjoy your champagne and yes treat yourself loads! X

[MichT4]

@SmileyT good plan to not get stressed about it, we are all behind you, but will also be here if you do end up here later (sure you won’t! You’ll be busy DTD!)
Interesting about the tablets, maybe I’ll take one. I’m just worried as they say not in pregnancy. Not sure about TTC but just covering bases.
Same as you for the TWW, it’ll be next week that I’ll be staring at walls and symptom spotting galore no doubt, even though I plan not to. Like you say, we can only try 😂

[VP91x]

@SmileyT I done a couple yesterday and they were still low but I'm on CD26 now, AF due in 5/6 days if it's going to be the same length as the last couple of cycles so I'll do a couple a day just in case but doubtful.

Ooh where are you going tonight? Definitely no judging if you're crying at midnight, will you cross paths before you go out?

@HopeForRainbowbaby sorry AF came, sounds like you've got all the best treats lined up xx

@Wishingfornumber2 thank you lovely xx

[Rainbowhope11]

Hi ladies! I'm 30 and ttc #1 after a MMC in March. I'm currently on CD 1 billion 🤣🙃 it's taken 9 weeks for my Hcg levels to drop to negative, so I'm still waiting for my cycles to regulate.

@VP91x thanks for starting this thread! Sorry that this cycle has been a shitty one for you. I feel your pain 😫

@Ejb86 yay hun!!! Congratulations! I knew I saw that line yesterday!

@busby85 and @Quail15 I am so sorry for your losses ☹️ I hope that physically, you recover as fast as possible😘 I know that the emotional wounds are a bit harder to recover from, but I hope that you can find comfort in us❤️ @Quail15 I'm so sorry that you've had to return to our group, sending you so much love xx

[Girlmum83]

@Ejb86 that is a lovely big line , congratulations 🥳 I truly am delighted for you 💕 best wishes for a happy healthy 9 months x

[1990EM]

@Ejb86 WHAT a beautiful sight ❤❤❤ you deserve it. Have you got any symptoms?

[Jazper]

Congratulations @Ejb86 🥰

@Wishingfornumber2 thank you. Did you get a peak on cheapies but not cb?
I've read so many reports of ladies not getting a static and falling pregnant that month 🙏🏼

Woo hoo for your static @SmileyT 🙌🏼
It's so reassuring when it happens when it's supposed to 😆

@VP91x I'm really sad for you that your temps aren't playing ball. I can't offer any advice as I don't temp and so don't understand the whole process, but I hope you can relax in readiness for a more settled cycle next month xx

@Dipsy77 that was very sneaky of you 😆 well done! Pleased you managed to dtd on peak day. Well done to the oh too. His poor back. Hopefully a fertilised egg this month will have made it worth the pain for him 🙏🏼❤️

[VP91x]

@Ejb86 I didn't see this earlier!! Omg massive massive congratulations ❤️❤️❤️ so so happy for you xxxx

[mrsssk]

Comgratulations @ejb86 that is amazing news, I hope everything goes well for you :)

Congrats as well to those who got their static smileys / peaks! Hope the next 2 weeks goes well and fx for BFPs x

[HopeForRainbowbaby]

@Ejb86 congratulations 🎊🎈 wishing you healthy pregnancy 😘 which dpo are you? How do you feel?

@SmileyT @Wishingfornumber2 @VP91x ThAnk you ladies. im not sure what champagne we have got in fridge but I shall drink it haha 😅

@Rainbowhope11 I see that you are also on CD1. Will you treat yourself to sth nice ?

[Ejb86]

Thank you ladies. I'm 11dpo today, no symptoms really other than getting tired really early on a night. Struggling to stay awake putting my little boy to bed at night. Also losing patience more easily. X