TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies ❤️


BFPs 🥰
@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@ManchNic
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Niisa
@Bellabubble
@Ejb86
@Wishingfornumber2
@DontStandSoClose
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@NightDreaming
@Saim86
@bxiiboo
@IWM20
@busby85
@Northernsoul90

I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

[mrsssk]

@HopeForRainbowbaby also on 14DPO, CD28. I Had some strange cramping in what felt like a lower region than normal AF cramps today but genuinely it could be anything. I've not had AF since MC so I'm not actually sure if it will show up bang on 4 weeks as the EPU did say to me 4-6 weeks when I was there.
I've not done a test yet, discussed with DH and decided to do a test on Saturday if AF not shown up by then. Will you be retesting soon if no AF? X

[MichT4]

@1990EM thanks for sending your chart. Really interesting. I guess I have to wait a few more days and see what happens, and it may not be a sign for me at all, but will keep my fingers crossed 🤞🏼

[VP91x]

@mrsssk that's okay! Even I lose track so I don't blame you

@1990EM so interesting! I think there was a thread somewhere about people tracking with fitbits so I think it's a thing!

@MichT4 ooh that sounds so positive fingers crossed for you 🤞🤞

@Dipsy77 that's so clever 😂😂 got his arse in action. I hope that's all you needed x

@SmileyT oh who knows anymore with this silly body of mine. It seems to have stopped 🤷 but will check again later on. How did you get on today? Xx

[MichT4]

@VP91x haha as if I’d follow a trend like that. You know my data likes to mess with me. Watch it all drop tonight 🙄🤣

[VP91x]

@MichT4 haha I'm rooting for you!!

[Renna]

Thanks hun @VP91x for new thread x x
So sorry @Quail15 sending you hugs xxxxx hope you get the surgery asap so you can move on babe xx

[HopeForRainbowbaby]

@mrsssk same thing here with Mc. But I would think that the cycle should be shorter if ovulation was 14 days ago. I'm thinking of testing tomorrow at 31 CD if AF doesn't show her face this night. When did you test last?


Whose cat was at vet ?? I hope all is good 😘

[HopeForRainbowbaby]

@Wishingfornumber2 where are you in your cycle ? Have you tested ? How do you feel?

[ManchNic]

Hey, thanks for the add. I don't comment too much but I try to read all the posts, it's definitely a chatty group!

@busby85 and @Quail15 I'm so sorry for your recent losses. I've also been referred to the recurrent miscarriage clinic but I think it's going to be a long wait. I'm in Manchester, where are you?

I'm 39, ttc #no 3 after losing my 18 month old son last year, then tfmr at 10 weeks in Nov and miscarriage at 8 weeks in April. Currently CD 12 with flashing smileys!

[Wishingfornumber2]

@HopeForRainbowbaby I’m CD32 today and going to test Friday CD34 if still no AF. I keep going between being hopeful and then thinking no don’t get your hopes up! I didn’t get a static smiley on the CB digital and don’t temp so I don’t know if I even ovulated. I am still getting the odd cramp and feel a bit sick tonight but could just be from the heat. Good luck with your testing tomorrow, fingers crossed for you! How many days PO will you be? X

[Bellabubble]

I’m late to the party with my intro (for some reason I have stopped getting email updates when there are posts on the thread!)

I’m 36, TTC #1 after a mmc at the end of Feb. I was really lucky first time falling pregnant - it happened first try. My body is now making me work for it as I am now cd5 of cycle 5!

@Quail15 I’m so sorry to hear about your twins - definitely take care of yourself and be kind to yourself too xx

I had a bit of a weird thought today! Although the success rate is lower - weirdly - oh and I managed to conceive only DTD once, the morning after my natural cycles app said I ovulated. All other cycles we have dtd before ovulation, every other day, a bit like smep, but we didn’t do one last go post ovulation (no door on the bedroom and were living with parents!)

I’m wondering whether maybe oh’s swimmers aren’t keen on my body - maybe they had an argument or something! (Trying to be light hearted so I don’t over think lol!) so this month, I might try just dtd everyday from cd13-16, as I usually ovulate cd15!

@VP91x I have got myself some 100% pomegranate juice - mine is a bit bitter though! Oh got a bulk lot on amazon (brand biona or something like that!) but I cannot find grapefruit juice for love nor money!! How is your kitty this eve? xx

[Quail15]

@Renna @bellabubble thank you. I'm allowing myself to feel very sorry for myself this evening but will try and look to the future tomorrow.

@ManchNic thank you. Yes I was told it would be a long wait. I'm in Kent. You have been through so much, you are amazingly strong.

I'm 35 TTC for no 2. My daughter was the result of 3x rounds of Ivf after being told I couldn't get pregnant naturally. Since having her I have had 3 natural bfp but sadly lost all 4 babys before 10 weeks.

[ManchNic]

@Quail15 you too. I wonder what is wrong that we keep losing babies 😔. I'm so scared of it happening again, but keep on trying because while we wait for tests what else can we do. It's so hard x

[mrsssk]

@HopeForRainbowbaby I've not tested yet - I'm too scared to see a BFN! Initially thought I'd just wait for AF to show up at least tomorrow then I'll just know my body has reset itself properly. But no idea what's happening now...

Is anyone else due to test over the weekend?

X

[HopeForRainbowbaby]

@Wishingfornumber2 it will be 15 dpo tomorrow. And which dpo are you?

[Wishingfornumber2]

@HopeForRainbowbaby I am sort of guessing as didn’t get a peak but think on Friday I will be around 13 DPO. X

[2020wish]

Thanks for the new thread. 31 ttc#2. Three losses this year. Now on CD2

@busby85 @Quail15 so sorry about your losses :(

@Quail15 we’re you on the Facebook group for dec due dates?

@1990EM thank you. We have had a down day but getting there. Going out on a late night walk now to clear the head as a family. I’ll catch up on everyone later xx

[VP91x]

@Bellabubble ahh, that's interesting I wonder if they just like to go in and get the job done and not hang around!?

Next cycle I will definitely just dtd when I get my peak, don't want to have another month of disappointment or tension.

My cat needs to have an xray tomorrow as she is not any better unfortunately. So let's see what they say really hope its not a fracture.

@HopeForRainbowbaby fingers crossed for your test tomorrow 🤞

[calimommy]

Hi hope you don't mind me joining,

I had a Miscarriage in May at 10 weeks. My
Cycle has hopefully settled based on how I've been so far, tracking etc, I'm 10 DPO and AF due Saturday so I'm thinking about that mostly now. Feeing a bit tired of it all as well tbh. I have 3DC and had always wanted a 4th but this was my 3 miscarriage so I'm wary of the same thing happening again. It's draining.

[SmileyT]

CD13 and static smily face so guessing I'll ovulate tomorrow but annoyingly my temp was up this morning so it will likely not be that clear if I've had any kind of temp rise for at least a few days and all my apps have gone crazy because of my temps this cycle and are putting ovulation all over the place 🤷🏾‍♀️

[VP91x]

@SmileyT you're sooo regular, I'm jealous 😭 its the weather I'm sure, you might be just feeling warm if you've slept with a cover or something maybe? But yay for static!! Xx

[VP91x]

Hey @calimommy 😊 so sorry you have had 3 MCs - did your doctor do any investigating as to why it may be happening? Fingers crossed your get a BFP this month. When will you test? X

[VP91x]

Little update from me - my body is broken this month and temp went even lower this month so deffo no ovulation, but the spotting from yesterday has completely stopped and now just have that creamy CM you get in the TWW. Will just wait (im)patiently for AF xx

[Ejb86]

I tested again.

9 months after losing my twin girls at 16 weeks. We waited a while, so this was cycle 7 of trying. Don't lose hope ladies. It has literally taken this long for my body to settle into a more normal rhythm.

[MichT4]

@calimommy@2020wish sorry to hear you had a bad day yesterday, hope you’re feeling better today

@calimommy sorry to hear about your losses, I hope this month is your month

@SmileyT you are regular and I am also jealous!

@VP91x that’s so strange, I really can’t believe it, after all that this month!

@ejb86 aww congratulations, a lovely developing line there. So happy for you

@HopeForRainbowbaby have you tested?

It’s really bloody hot 🥵