TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

[VP91x]

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I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

Aww congratulations @Hayleylou89. That’s amazing you can find out so early! X

@Wishingfornumber2 would you consider calling your GP and asking for a referal for some testing as it's been over a year since you've been trying? Definitely worth the call! Fingers frossed for you on friday though ❤️ I watch all those shows too.

@Hayleylou89 aw amazing!! Your instinct was right, gorgeous! How are you xx

@Wishingfornumber2 excited for your test tomorrow! Maybe it’s holding out for your birthday.
I agree with @VP91x, maybe give your GP a call. It’s worth trying to get some tests done xx

@MichT4 how are you this morning? Chart looking good still? Xx

Look what I have this morning 😁😆

I hope you've dragged him back to bed @Lollol86 😂

@VP91x I am fine thank you, feel a bit queasy but I had that before AF so another unknown.
Temp went up by 0.01 degree - flying 😂. It's been 3 days now pretty much around the same place so I guess that's fairly inconclusive. I was half tempted to test this morning but I was so desperate for a wee I completely forgot!
It was weird as I had a sweaty night so I thought the temp would be higher, but then I was watching Dr Hils this morning and he happened to say if you're sweating your skin temp comes down. Not taking anything from it because on the 30 degree night my temp was up, so basically I am waffling 😂

How are you? Bella excited for another day at nursery? xx

@Jazper 😂😂 unfortunately not as he’s just left for work but we DTD last night and will go again tonight and tomorrow 🤞🏻

@VP91x oh yeah I forgot about your random high, I really do follow your pattern 😂 temp was higher at 36.55 today so still none the wiser as to what's happened but as always it's just a waiting game. How are you feeling this morning? AF on her way out? x

@MichT4 I'm glad you had a nice distraction last night, I'm feeling strangely calm about everything... this morning I had some twinges/ pulling but from the center of my belly so no idea what that is, maybe just too much pizza last night 🐷 not long now for you and I'm excited. What did your temps do this morning, Ooh just seen it was up slightly that's good you haven't seen a drop and AF is due today or tomorrow so 🤞 it stays high tonight x

@Hayleylou89 that's amazing, I'd love my first to be a boy, I have 3 nephews so definitely understand them more 🥰 is DH excited? xx

@Lollol86 yay to a static and sounds like you have a good BD plan in place 👌🏾

@VP91x @MichT4 I think I will if no luck again this cycle.

@VP91x have you got anything nice planned for today while DD is in nursery?

Oohh @Lollol86 nice to see a static. Have fun 😄

@MichT4 that's good that it hasn't dropped though! Are you 10/11 dpo now? Haha, honestly temps are just so confusing sometimes.

All good here! Yeah just dropped her off. She was happy to be there again, maybe she prefers it over me 🤔😂

@SmileyT ooh that's good that your temp is staying high!! It probably was a random abnormal temp. Haha sorry I'm sending you my crappy cycle your way 🙈🙈
AF normally lasts 5/6 days for me so almost there. I'm so interested to see how many days earlier I'll ovulate this month. Xx

@Wishingfornumber2 I'm going to finish off some decorating in the front room. What are you up to today?

@Lollol86 fab news on the static, looks like you'll be more than covered! Xx

Snap! @Lollol86

@Mich2020 my first baby i lost at 23 weeks was a little girl 💖 so this one is a boy 💙 xx

@VP91 I know how crazy u can find out, I just needed to know although i just felt different so thought it was a boy!

@SmileyT First thing he said was funny, he said ahh i havnt got the energy to play fight with a boy, girls just wanna colour in haha 😂 tough luck ... mummys boy incoming 💙 haha

Hes already got 2 girls and 1 boy to previous so he knows what to expect haha, everyone who has boys says there all for their mum ☺️ x

Thanks @SmileyT. I really hope they stay high too! I think in some ways I feel quite relaxed, I've stopped trying to think about what it means that my temp is doing something, but at the same time, I am thinking how gutted I'll be if it drops and AF comes, or when I don't think I feel symptoms 😂. So basically, not so relaxed, but you've got to love a trier!
Pizza sounds good! Back to London today?

@VP91x 12 or 13 depending which app I use. I still agree ovu date with Glow which is 13DPO, but FF seems to have more intelligence, so I'm not dismissing the 12DPO option.
They are confusing, and some charts show no rhyme or reason, so I'm hoping I'm an odd one given it's static and not rising. Something I read yesterday said your temps don't rise til later on though - who knows. If and when I get my BFP, I'm definitely not wearing it any more. Can't be doing with the stress of every variation.

Aww I'm sure she misses you, it's just different and exciting. I've no doubt you'll be due a tough drop off soon. xx

@Hayleylou89 I meant what is different between the pregnancies to make you feel like this one was a boy - do you have different symptoms? xx

I'm so frustrated. I came home from night shift, got my static smiley, woke my husband up who was less than impressed. I tried DTD, could tell he wasn't even slightly interested but kept trying to get him there but he ended up losing the plot and going off on one about how I'm stressing him out with having to DTD on certain days and coming home from work and demanding sex when he just isn't in the mood. He actually completely went off on one. I'm on nights again tonight so now is literally the only time we can DTD before the kids wake up and I have to sleep before work. I can't believe he's getting on like this. I do literally everything, all the tracking, the POAS, vitamins, all sorts. He has one job and he's throwing it in my face

@chloedancer897 sorry to hear about your morning, it must be like a kick in the teeth.
I think it can and does get really stressful though, and I don’t think men deal with it too well. You still have a couple of days to catch it, so try not to worry. Just have a chat with him maybe? I think DTD should still be enjoyable and because you want to, even though of course there’s another purpose too.
You’re not out yet lovely, have a nice sleep and hopefully he’ll be less of a tired grump next time xx

@chloedancer897 could you maybe set the mood before getting home, send him some texts? I can’t offer much advice in that area I’m afraid as my husband would quite happily be woken up it’s me thats like no not tonight. This was our first smiley face since the miscarriage and when I showed him it this morning he was so excited lol. Not sure how long that will last for though. Good luck xx

@VP91x strangely seeing other people not have the google perfect cycle every month keeps me sane as I know that it doesn't mean the world is over it's just normal ☺️ will you start BD on day 8 again? OH won't get in from work today until about 8pm so I'll have time after work to chill and watch one of your recommendations before he gets home 👌🏾

@Hayleylou89 oh really, my nephews are all definitely daddy's boys, but think yours will be a mummy's boy... how exciting x

@MichT4 yep some BD on the sofa and DP finished his homemade pizza for me afterwards, can't complain 🥰 yeah I've definitely not heard that temps need to rise between ovulation and BFP think most stay stable, as long as they stay over coverline for more than 16 days it's a good sign as progesterone is not dropping. And yeah just on the empty tube into Baker Street 😴

@chloedancer897 i posted such a similar post a couple weeks ago, obviously some men are up for it all the time but most get exhausted/ pressured and it's even harder when one of you are working shifts because you have such limited time. You've got the next couple days to get back to the action so try and stay calm and be nice to him, no point waiting until fertile window is over to make up. I'm sure it will seem better after some sleep. This TTC lark takes its toll on all of us xx

@chloedancer897 sorry to hear that you must feel so frustrated! Maybe he's worried he won't be able to perform? Performance anxiety has definitely been a concern for mt DH and no matter what I do the little mr aint playing! (Not normally an issue) - but we've realised after snuggling and chatting the little mr then seems to get his own ideas and we manage to DTD!

Ask him how he's feeling, I know it feels like we're doing all the work sometimes and it's so hard not to take a no as rejection. Such an emotional rollercoaster is TTC!!

Oh balls....slightly tinged CM guys! AF may well be on her merry way 😭😭
After all that hope @VP91x @SmileyT 🙄

@VP91x hope you manage to get all your decorating done 😄 x

@chloedancer897 sorry to hear that. As the other ladies have said maybe try talking to him and so he can see your point of view. I think sometimes men don’t realise all the extra stuff we do when TTC. X

@MichT4 I was literally about to write a message saying how have you not POAS yet 😩 it is like fresh or just a slight pink tinge?

@chloedancer897 I'm so sorry, I had exactly the same issue with my partner last month too. I was beyond angry with him, I think definitely talk to him and see what is causing him to feel stressed and hopefully you can make up. I felt so hurt too so I can empathise with how you must be feeling xx

@SmileyT yeah I agree actually, does help to see all the real life variations of what can/does happen. Mm no, don't think I'll follow SMEP this month after OH's meltdown last month. I was thinking maybe CD10/12? Or even just when we get a peak on OPK.. Not sure 🤔. What do you think? Xx

@VP91x haha as I said I was tempted this morning but in my sleepiness I peed too quickly!
It's slightly slightly tinged - maybe very light pink/brown. I just checked again, because now this is what I'll be doing all day, and it's not there this time. I was also about to say I had a little cramp, but it's next to my belly button - wtf!?
Who knows - waiting game!