TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

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I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@VP91x oh no hopefully once she is there and sees her wee friends she will be fine fingers crossed.

@SmileyT I know I think it's the thought of it all it's making me panic but I'm sure in reality it will be fine. I'm going to stop worrying about it as it's not going to help with my relaxed approach this cycle ha ha. Xx

@Hayleylou89 you're so sweet to check in on all of us! I'm doing okay, I had my Hcg drop to negative a few weeks ago (took 9 weeks post MC). I thought I ovulated around the 10th of June, but I haven't had AF since then. I called the doctors office yesterday and they said I need to come in for a blood test to rule out a new pregnancy. If I'm not pregnant (which I highly doubt I am), then they will give me something to induce AF and kickstart my cycle.

I've been getting a lot of ewcm these past few days. I did a CB opk today and now it's flashing again 😫 I have no idea what's going on so I'm just feeling really annoyed this month. Seems like quite a few of us are having a weird cycle this month.

@Hayleylou89 how are you doing? My DH couldn't get over the scan of your cute little bean yesterday! He said, "oh wow! So that's what it's supposed to look like!" Super cute!!

Thank you @SmileyT , that was a totally well needed pep talk 💪🏼 seriously, it was really appreciated. I know you're right. I've been so much more relaxed this Month too but now I'm so close to knowing, yet still so far, it's starting to niggle a bit. I'll chill.

@HE88 , I really sympathise with you on the sister in law thing. I haven't been in the same situation but you've had some Stirling advice there from others that have. What ever you decide, just keep in mind, it will be your turn soon. And for the record, I think it was a bit shitty of her to announce it the way she did, but, in her defence, she may have not known how to. Plus, I often find, if people have never suffered a loss before, they have no idea just how traumatic it is, and how sad it leaves us feeling.

And well done to you @MichT4 for making it to 10dpo and not testing. Sorry your temps haven't played ball. Fingers tightly crossed they pick up for you tonight. This tww is like a Boris Johnson speech... test! But DONT test! If you don't, don't obsess, but DO think about it all the time. Don't test! But perhaps you should test... 😂🤯

In other news ladies, I am now the proud owner of a Disney+ account 🙌🏼
It looks amazing! I think homeschooling is written off tomorrow 😂

@Jazper thanks I appreciate it. Thing is she has experienced a loss, 2 in fact so she should have known what I was going through. Anyway what's happened has happened I'll see how I'm feeling the next few days so will take it from there. Xx

@Re6ecc4 fingers crossed for tomorrow! X

@VP91x ahh I’m sure after the first day back she will be fine. My DS has enjoyed being back at preschool and has actually become so much more confident there in the smaller group. It then makes the time you have together even more special. Hope tomorrow goes ok. X

@Jazper your Boris speech is hilarious 🤣🤣x

@jazper I'm in stitches 🤣

@Jazper 😂😂😂😂
Being guided through the TWW in such a familiar fashion xx

@HE88 well whatever you decide we are here for you to talk to ☺️

@Jazper yes we are all relaxed until we're not and it's so hard living cycle to cycle but honestly Disney + will make your like 100 times better 🙌🏾 my sister gave me her subscription and has my pic on there as mufasa and hers as simba and honestly makes me smile and relax every time I log on 😂 homeschooling? Is it not the bloody summer holidays yet 🙈 that Boris speech I'm dying 🤣🤣

@SmileyT it's been the summer holidays since 23rd March hasn't it 🤷🏽‍♀️🤔🙈😂 but no, I think we've got another couple of weeks to push. Having said that, I'm sharing them with school from Monday onwards, they're in mornings mon-fri. Just to make the transition a little easier for them in September. But this is excellent as will give me plenty of time to enjoy Disney+ before they get home 🤫
And all the heart eye emojis for you and your sister sharing accounts 😍 I don't have a sister but I do have two daughters and I pray they continue to be as close as they are now in to adulthood 🙏🏼

@Hayleylou89 you scan pic is amazing - so clear!! I’m currently on cd 11 - but have not done any opks, only temping (but my new house is loads hotter then my parents so the temps are a bit ip the spout!) OH and I decided that, as I ovulate cd14 or 15 - we’ll start drd from cd12 and just do every day (i think his swimmers and my iterus are not as attracted to each other as hubby and I am - as all our pre-ovu dtd seems to have been less successful!) When I fell pregnant this Jan - we only dtd once and it was the morning after my natural cycles all said I ovulated! Since then we have never done the day after - so that’s the secret weapon for this month!! Along with grapefruit and pomegranate juice, calc fluor, coQ10 and the seven seas vitamins 😂 We shall see lol! xx

Hi everyone. I completely lost this thread but have just had a read back and caught up with everyone!

@Hayleylou89 beautiful scan pictures! So glad all is going well for you.

@lollol86 this is the most recent thread hope that helps x

Morning ladies, not even 7 am yet and I'm already upset 😕 it's my best friends wedding anniversary today and I messaged her to wish her happy anniversary and she straight away asked me "when are we going to a wedding". I said my priority is ttc at the moment and can't imagine to put it on hold for a year or two to organise a wedding (she got pregnant straight away so not sure she feels for my journey with ttc and miscarriage). I know getting married is beautiful but having a baby is my priority and don't want to stop ttc (and especially who knows how long it could take). Then she said if you stress like this it will definitely take longer. I said that's not stressing that's purposefully putting it on hold after already having spent 7 cycles on it. And I'll be 33 this year so this would take me to 35 when we would start again and I don't want that. But she is like life is never the same after you have a baby and the wedding will never be the same. But it's just not my priority. And yes I know would be good to be married before baba arrives. Arghh but I just mentally think it will break me if we stop ttc. What do you think ladies?

@Eli2020 I think it’s no one else’s business what you do and in what order! Gosh, what an unwelcome response to you being nice and wishing her a happy anniversary!
We aren’t married either, and when I got PG first time, I had a wobble wondering if it was the right order but ultimately it didn’t matter. Then I MC and we were devastated and that said it all!
I think you can have a beautiful wedding whether you have a baby or not. Lots of people I’ve known have got married after babies.
The decision is yours, no one else’s. The way I see it, is if the baby doesn’t happen soon and OH pulls his finger out and proposes 😂 then we would make a decision, but I still think we would wait to get wed now. I think it’s a very strange way for your friend to think, it’s your choice (and would be regardless if you’d suffered a loss or not). And it is a totally ignorant way to think from someone who hasn’t experienced a MC.
I’m infuriated she’s made you feel like that. Do what feels right for you and OH, no one else. Whether you continue TTC or decide to pause for a wedding, both are fine and completely up to you xx

@VP91x good luck with the nursery drop off today xx

@Rainbowhope11 aw uv had a long time for the hcg to dissapear havnt u! Hopefully it is a new pregnancy 🤞🏻 how cute is ur OH saying that, it was so cute u could see it like a space baby in a bubble 😂 little arm and leg buds - can u believe its like 23mm or something at 9 weeks! Next scan ill actually be 13.2 weeks but might try and bring it forward cos im too impatient and want it closer to 12 weeks really. Xx

@SmileyT Brave is another good one! I'll be watching Disney+ this morning and crying into my cereal whilst missing Bella 😩. I took 3000mg yesterday will keep to that so my tabs last me for the next 10 days. How are you this morning, any change to temps?

@Rainbowhope11 hope you're okay lovely. When wikl you have your blood tests? That's so good that your doctor is actively trying to get your cycle to start again xx

@Jazper 😂😂😂 your speech!! Spot. On. Boris could inspire our testing decisions. Woop! Welcome to the Disney+ crew 🙌 you won't get anything done for ages haha.

@peonyrose87 how have you been xx

@Eli2020 oh my god, that's so awful that she responded like that as @MichT4 said it absolutely none of her business when or if you decide to get married/have a baby. I'm not engaged to my partner and really it doesn't matter. Maybe one day we will get married and our babies will be there with us which I think will be so so lovely. I think you need to be quite clear with her that it has nothing to do with her and you're doing what is right for you. I'm angry at her on your behalf! So unreasonable to say what she did.

@MichT4 @HE88 thank you ladies, she was absolutely elated when she got to nursery and went skipping, promptly shutting the gate behind her saying 'bye mummy!' which of course has made me cry even more. House feels empty!! Going to lounge on the sofa for a bit and then busy myself with something.

CD3 starting my soy today! Xx

Aww @VP91x what a little lady you have there. Put your feet up with a cuppa and enjoy the sound of silence! 🤣 will be strange I’m sure but will be great for Bella and will give you time to relax, and most likely still watch Disney xx

@VP91x that’s good she went into nursery ok. Hope you can enjoy some time to yourself!

So did a test and again it was negative 🤷‍♀️. CD39. Wish AF would just arrive so I can know for certain rather than be in limbo!

@wishingfornumber2 sorry it was a negative and you still don’t have any answers. Do you have any AF symptoms?

@MichT4 haha, she is a tiny force of nature. I have my tea and watching Piers rant away on GMB. How are you feeling today?

@Wishingfornumber2 thank you - definitely going to try 🥰🥰

Ah no that's so frustrating. Are you getting any AF symptoms at all? Xx

@VP91x I’m watching that too. He makes me want to punch the tv, I don’t know why I watch it 😂
Yeah I’m ok, temp stayed the same last night. I was thinking this morning that maybe those higher temps are affected by how roasting hot it was, so the drop might be less than it looks. Still half expecting it to come down again but no point worrying yet. I hoped it would go up but staying level is better than another drop. I think.
I have a meeting at 9.30 🙄 can’t be arsed with that

@VP91x I'm good, I'm 5+3 weeks now and it's dragging in. But all well so far 🤞🏻 is this your little girl's first day back? I'm watching piers rant away too-he annoys me so much though!

@peonyrose87 glad to hear all is going well. Do you have many/any symptoms yet?