TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

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I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@SmileyT thank you lovely 🥰 definitely won't go anywhere just yet. In celebration of my decision Ive ordered some more cheapies 😂Ooh, get the Disney+ I recommend Inside Out! That is a fab film too.

Glad you are feeling good today. Xx

@MichT4 oh no, no more feeling down there's every reason to stay positive. When I feel like having a giggle I watch an episode of 'Naked Attraction' have you seen it? X

@Northernsoul90 thank you for being so supportive 🥰 x

@MichT4 just saw you also recommended Inside Out! Haha x

@Hayleylou89 amazing pictures hun xxx so happy for you ? Do you get go see a heart bear at this point? Xxx hope you get a good night's sleep xxxxx

@VP91x I have 🤣🤣 I can’t believe people go on that show, then casually walk into work the next day 🍆🍑
I’ve also started watching New Girl again which I love. I missed the last couple of series so decided to start from 1 as it’s on Netflix now. Luckily OH likes it too, so that brings me laughs of an evening.
I’ll be positive until I have reason not to be. Just prepping damage limitation now

@MichT4 @VP91x I already put on a film before your suggestions came in, it's Bellas suggestion 🥰but there are many more nights in to fill so I'll do inside out tomorrow. I now know that none of you will judge the fact that I have a Disney + subscription x

@MichT4 I know!! Omg it's so awkward sometimes too. There was one where they all started to swing their willies about 🤔🤔

New Girl was so good. I also missed the last couple of series I'll have to re watch! Xx

@SmileyT ooh yay, Frozen. I hope you like it! Anna and Elsa are also fierce 👊. Definitely not, Disney is so dreamy xx

@MichT4 @SmileyT @VP91x
I also have a Disney+ subscription ladies and I love it 😂🙈. It’s good for taking your mind off things... I love Disney! Naked attraction is hilarious and so cringey! I cannot believe people go on it. I haven’t seen New Girl will give it a try xx

@renna thank u :) yes seen the heartbeat and everything was lovely x how r u doing hows ur ava? X

Thank you @VP91x and @SmileyT , I'll wait and see what this cycle brings and get on with the Femometer if I enter in to another month.
So, if little one was to wake me up enough to temp, would I? Or just go back to sleep and temp at the normal time?

Btw, you've all made me want Disney+ now! Going to have to look at that along with the thermometer 🙈

@Northernsoul90 , I do use OPK's. I'm a cheat though, I only use cb so I don't have to interpret lines 🤣 I've been tempted to use cheapies alongside to see the progression but last two cycles have been regular to the day so never bothered. The temping sounds like really hard work and the graphs look so confusing 😫 I'm sure I'll get the hang of it though. I was a bit bamboozled by OPK's at first and that comes second nature now. I guess, the apps just do it for us really, all we need to do is input a number... x

@vp91x and @MichT4 - I love New Girl too!! Oh and I are watching from the beginning as we missed the last few series! I have also got into Brooklyn 99 - I have literally cried with laughter at some of those!!

@SmileyT glad you enjoyed Moana - i love it soooo much!!

Oohh good choice @SmileyT! Love frozen and frozen 2!
@Bellabubble I also like Brooklyn 99. I’m up to date with it though annoyingly so have to wait now for new series!

@Jazper me too I think the graphs look confusing! I use cb... well I did last time I got pregnant I just used cb and the flo app although I’m not sure if I was using it wrong but I couldn’t input my own ovulation day. I knew when I ovulated but the flo app was always out of whack. I just used it more for tracking when I had af.

I haven’t actually started ttc yet after mc. I’ve stocked up though on cb and also some cheap opk sticks. I then just bought the femometer on a whim. I might start just using opks initially and then if I’m having no luck start temping alongside I’m not sure. I don’t want to overwhelm myself with lots of different things. I would like an app also 🙈😂. Whoever thought getting pregnant was as simple as having unprotected sex 🤔

@wishingfornumber2 oo me too!! Oh and I binged watched them starting a few months back - and now I’m being a geek and watching them all again lol! I love the halloween heist episode with the cumberband so much!

Ladies, had anyone experienced early ovulation after a MC? I've been tracking using OPK's the last few days, flo says I'm at peak ovulation tomorrow but my tests seem to be getting lighter since starting on CD8

Oooh, I started with the flo app @Northernsoul90 , and have since deleted it. I jumped on to Ovia after that, and then on to Femometer. I find Femometer the easiest to use. I assume you already have that as you bought their thermometer?
I have found the cb OPK's the easiest things to use ever. I know they are expensive but anything to reduce the need for me to interpret lines. I have enough on at the end of every cycle squinting at my FRER's and holding them up to the sunlight willing myself to see something that isn't there 😩
I totally get what you are saying about not overloading yourself. I think it can easily become all consuming and add so much stress. I've tried to do the same but as I'm getting peaks now and haven't caught yet, I just want to see I am actually ovulating.
I remember reading that you were waiting on getting a negative test before you were going to start ttc. Sorry if you have already said, it's so hard to keep track of everyone on here, have you got a negative yet?

@Rebecca1992 was your mc recent? Could the OPK's have detected HCG and confused with LH giving you slightly darker strips which is why they are getting lighter?

@Jazper I normally temp at same time everyday even if I wake up in the night, just makes it easier I find and yes all you have to do is put the temp into an app and they do all the rest for you x

@Rebecca1992 I'd say keep testing as none look close to positive yet so i would assume you haven't got your peak yet and they don't do a gradual line progression normally. The way your strips look are kinda what mine look like throughout the whole cycle - I've attached mine for this month for you to have a nosey at x

@Jazper my MC was only 2 weeks ago so still trying to get to terms with how my cycle will look now.

@SmileyT great thank you! It's my first time using OPK's so I'm still so new to how they work and should be for a positive.

@SmileyT @VP91x hahaha I like the dpn 😂😂🤣 that's exactly what I am right now!

AF still hasn't got me and there's no sign of her. I have weird ewcm and watery cm, temps are low. I've called my doctor's office and the nurse said that maybe we should move ahead and take some Provera to induce a period and see if that helps jumpstart things. They said that I should test again to see if I'm not pregnant🙄 I'm pretty sure I'm not😫

Has anyone had any experience with Provera?

@Hayleylou89 oh my goodness!! Love the scan of your cute little bean❤️ how precious! I'm glad everything went well😊

@Bellabubble I love the Halloween heist ones! Can never guess who is going to win and how. X

@Jazper I have the Femometer app, although not started using it yet. Yes I’m still waiting for a negative, it’s been 3 weeks today since I had mva done at the hospital. The tests are getting lighter though and were a lot lighter today than yesterday even so I’m hopeful it’s just the hormones taking a little longer to leave my system. I have an app at the EPU on Wednesday so hopefully I’ll get some answers then. Once I do get a negative result I think I’ll start using the cheap opks and maybe temping to see if I ovulate before my next af. I don’t want to waste my cb ones until I’m on my first proper cycle after the mc as they are so expensive and I could be doing them for weeks before a peak.

@Rebecca1992 I miscarried 3 weeks ago so fairly recently too and I have yet to ovulate as I still have hcg in my system. I think that you could have had some leftover hcg which has darkened the opk and then as the hcg has completely gone the tests have got lighter. The tests that you have shown don’t show a surge yet so I would continue testing 😊. I did an opk last week and it showed that I had a surge but I hadn’t as I was still getting strong positives on pregnancy tests. As the pregnancy tests have got lighter so have the opk tests for me. Once I’ve had my negative pregnancy test I will start doing opks again and then hopefully see an accurate peak. I think I remember reading on an earlier post that you have already had a negative pregnancy test so hopefully now as you continue to test for ovulation you see a proper surge on the opks. Sorry for the ramble 😂 quite hard to explain what I meant. It is confusing as opks can confuse hcg for luteinising hormone xx

Just wanted to say thanks to everyone for being so warm and welcoming

@mrsssk I didn’t actually take a pregnancy test afterwards. The EPU wanted to rule out it being an ectopic so they did a blood test and then let me come back a week later for another one and my levels were back down to almost nothing so not much point. However I did take a cheap test on Saturday at 8dop which was of course a BFN, I’m not sure why I even tested that early. Felt some weird compulsion to test even though I knew it would be a BFN...

@HopeForRainbowbaby I’m going to try my best to hold out on testing until Friday which would be 14dpo, but I may cave! (Will I can feel a migraine starting which usually means my period is going to start soon so not feeling optimistic.

@DBTJ I’m sorry to hear about your mum too, keeping fingers crossed for you this month.