TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies ❤️

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@Northernsoul90

I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@Hayleylou89 so cute 🥰

@MichT4 @Northernsoul90 @VP91x thank you ladies 😘

@Dbop100 I'm sorry about your loss ! And I keep my fingers for you this week ! When will you be testing ? 😘

@Hayleylou89 your scan pics made my day! I hope you feel better after seeing your little bean on screen ❤️

I'm CD 9 now so into fertile week and back to peeing on sticks all day! Does anyone else use CB digital? Do you only use it once a day? I was just thinking if I get my flashing smiley should I use it again in the evening to see if it's static or only once a day?

@chloedancer897 I do use cheapies and CB( just normal static smiley). when I see some darkening on cheapies, I would use two cbs a day until there is no smiley.

@Hayleylou89 lovely scan photos! So pleased for you xx

@MichT4 I’m due AF Friday as well I think so I will join you in counting down the days!

@Hayleylou89 aww so happy everything went well. Those pictures made my day-super cute.

@chloedancer897 I only use Internet cheapies-Ive tried 4 different brands over the last few months and Ive found that the easy at home ones are the best 👌

@elliew818 yeah I definitely injured myself bd-ing this month 😂 let's hope it was all worth it 🙏

@Hayleylou89 glad the scan went ok, lovely pics!

Re the Disney chat a while ago, my DS used to want to watch moana everyday! But I didn’t mind as I really like it too!

Update on where I am. So still no AF and CD37. I have had cramps on and off for a couple of weeks now. I last tested fri and that was negative. I am going to test thurs if still no AF. It’s my birthday fri so would be an amazing present to myself to get a positive but I’m trying to be realistic now and know it’s unlikely to be. X

@Wishingfornumber2 are you not tempted to test sooner? Have you felt anything symptom wise?
What a lovely pressie that would be 🤞🏼

@Hayleylou89 so pleased for you! The scan pictures are lovely and very clear ❤️

@Eli2020 the cheaper ones have never worked for me. I never get a dark line on them. I need something idiot proof lol

@Wishingfornumber2 fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼It’s so hard waiting to test. Hoping this is your month. I love Moana too and I’m 28 with no children 😂 xx

@VP91x thank you, yes I am glad they are seeing me. I did another test this morning and in the space of a day I can see much more clearly that the tests are getting fainter so I’m hoping that means there isn’t retained products as I would expect the test to say the same. Once I get my negative I think I’m going to start doing cheapy opks as it will be nice to focus on something positive xxx

I notice my cm was slightly watery and creamy so did opk. I think I need to get doing dtd what do you think

Yep @DBJT...get to it!!

@DBTJ get cracking!!!

@DBTJ definitely get to it! X

@MichT4 I did 3 tests last week and all negative so thought would do one more attempt this thurs. I was due on last tues! I have been reading online (in hope as you do!) that some women implant late and so also get a late result on a pregnancy test. If negative again on thurs I will resign to the fact that it’s true. Only symptoms really have been sore nipples, cramps and feeling a little bit sick but I had that last month too and AF came. X
Thanks @Northernsoul90. Before I had my DS I went to the cinema with a friend to see Frozen and we were pretty much the only ones in there without kids 🤣. X
@DBTJ yes def a peak there 😄x

@chloedancer897 what I've done is done them once a day and when I've thought my cheapies are quite dark do another CB. Xx

@Wishingfornumber2 I really hope it does positive for you or then AF turns up quickly so you can reset for a new cycle 🤞🤞

@Northernsoul90 oh that's good, I'm hopeful that you won't have any retained tissue xx

Well ladies, AF is here I think. Seems like more of a heavier flow than the spotting I've been getting the last 5 days. Xx

@VP91x sorry that af has arrived 😔 at least you know what’s going on now though and can focus on your next cycle. Our bodies are so complex and confusing at times nothing ever seems simple xxx

@VP91x thanks. Sorry to hear AF has arrived. Is that a normal time for you? I know you have had the spotting previously. X

@VP91x commute was actually alright much quieter than I even imagined it would be and everyone with their masks on, very bizarre 😯 what will you do with yourself when she is back at nursery? Although it's shit AF has arrived at least that will put you in perfect timing to get all of your tests on Thursday xx

@MichT4 yeah train was quiet but fine actually, had McDs for lunch and not one person in there and it's normally packed 😂 I've actually had a surprisingly quiet Monday, which means something is going to go tits up at 5pm when I want to leave!! At least you'll be distracted today x

Welcome @Dbop100 and so sorry for your loss, there have been a few ladies who have caught without a period in between so it definitely can happen, I've got everything crossed x

@elliew818 @Wishingfornumber2 @Northernsoul90 obviously just me that was missing out on the Moana action before last night, glad I've rectified this ☺️

@Hayleylou89 glad everything is progressing nicely, so so happy for you and your little family xx

@chloedancer897 I use CB digital and yeah just Poas first thing in the morning every day. You can use it twice a day once you have flashing but it will still pick it up in the morning and saves sticks x

@DBTJ definitely get doing that BD 🙌🏾

@SmileyT my son actually said he couldn’t get to sleep last night because Hey hey (the chicken from moana) was waking him up 🤣. We haven’t watched it for a while so funny that he mentioned him last night. X

@SmileyT I can imagine it's odd. Normally. You're rammed into a a corner 😂 thank you. Just had a chat with my GP as I had a routine appt to follow up on my hair etc. Told her about the spotting and still irregular cycles and she said that she could refer me to have the ultrasound as it had been 6 months since the MC. She was lovely. So now I'm in a dilemma do I wait -(she said it could take up to 3-4 weeks) or still go on Thursday and get the ball rolling with the private 🤔 xx

@Wishingfornumber2 I'm on CD30 so just about right xx

Hope you are feeling ok about af arriving @VP91x while disappointing, I am sure it is a relief after so many days of unaccountable spotting. Really looking forward to see how you get on with your tests at the clinic. Everything crossed for you. Xx

@VP91x if money isn’t an issue I would personally still go for the private option as I have friends who have waited for NHS referrals for it to be a very long winded process, appointment cancellations etc. If covid peaks again then that puts a spanner in the works as well.Your GP sounds very supportive though and if you would rather go with the NHS scan 3 - 4 weeks isn’t the longest wait time I don’t suppose xxxx

@Dbop100 wow coincidence both name start with DB. welcome 2 group lovely advice given in the group. In terms of falling pregnant I manage to fall pregnant without period so it can happen sadly was MC twice. Similar to you if I fall pregnant this month it would be the month mum passed so hopefully I can turn it into a positive month.