TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

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I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@Sallyjo27 I’m so sorry for you losses . I hope that you are getting lots of support at home and have some time to rest and recover. I think I have replied to your comment on another thread earlier today. I don’t have any experience of aspirin myself but I’m sure some of the lovely ladies on the thread will have, I have found it a very supportive place to be during such a hard time. You should get referred for testing now I think which will hopefully give you some answers and advice. xxx

@northernsoul90 yes you have thank you very much for your reply too ♥️ Such a shit situation to be in again xx

@Sallyjo27 I took aspirin for my fourth pregnancy. I had one baby and two losses at that point. I had a healthy second baby that time. My 5th pregnancy (third child) I didn't take it -different consultant. I've just had my third miscarriage at 10 weeks so I'm thinking about asking about taking it again. It's a low dose px.

@VP91x I've never seen Frozen is it worth watching once as a grown women?

@MichT4 yeah some get really disheartened by a BFN but I find it a nice to know before period comes, but I never hold out hope after 12dpo I just take that as the answer and move onto the next cycle. As with everything it's so personal what makes this ttc thing a bit easier x

@Sallyjo27 I'm so sorry to see you back here again 😔 I don't have any experience with aspirin but have heard people being given that after 3 losses, I hope that you get a referral for more tests and that when you conceive again it's a sticky one for you. Sending you lots of love ❤️

@Sallyjo27 I'm so sorry to read about your losses, are you trying for your first?x

@SmileyT as a grown woman myself - I can definitely say frozen is worth the watch if you like films that burst in to song!! That and Moana 😂 I use the excuse that I’m a teacher so watch the films for “research” haha! I already feel calmer this month by deciding to not track as much! Although my new house is really warm compared to my parents, and it’s messes with my temps 🤦🏼‍♀️ I used to hover around 35.80 pre fertile/ovulation, then low 36’s post ovulation..but I haven’t dropped below 36 since the new house! I’ll be greatful in the winter for sure - but as much as I feel the cold - the best thing in the world for me and sleep is a cold bedroom and warming up in bed lol! xx

@VP91x I fell at the first gardening hurdle today - it’s blowing a gale!! So I gave up digging my border out - most of the soil was ending up in my eyes haha! I think I’ll try and go privately for tests - I have a feeling that my GP would say that because I fell pregnant in Jan this year, there isn’t an issue..but I think it would give me peace of mind knowing any info! I also worry as I started my periods at about 10 - so I think I must be getting near the end of my eggs, as my Mum started menopause at about 45..eek! I swear oh half and mines baby making essentials don’t like each other lol - it’s a 10% chance of conceiving after you ovulate, and being older that’s probably even less - yet we fell pregnant! And when I look back - we haven’t dtd anytime after ovulation - I’m hoping that’s our secret weapon this month, along with the grapefruit juice, pomegranate juice, calc fluor, coQ10, seven seas vitamins....one of them’s got to come good soon 😂 xx

@MichT4 🤞🏻 the next bit of tww sails by for you! I find 11/12dpo the worst - I get all antsy round then, so close to knowing and teying hsrd not to cave with a test etc!! xx

@Sallyjo27 I’m so sorry to hear about your loss - I hope the epu get back to you soon and things get moving quickly for you! xx

@Sallyjo27 I’m sorry for your losses. I started a thread in both Pregnancy and Conception boards about low dose aspirin recently - a few useful answers there xx

@calimommy I was thinking about taking it this time but was worried as it hadn’t been prescribed. Will definitely be taking it next time if we are lucky enough though.
@SmileyT thank you I’m hoping they can fit me in quickly too
@fafi yes we are trying for our first x
@Bellabubble thank you xx
@diorissimo1985 thank you I’ll have a look at them now x

@Sallyjo27 I'm so so sorry that you have had another miscarriage 😩 I really hope that you can get some tests done to give you some more advice. I hope you are being looked after ❤️❤️

@SmileyT Yes its soo good!! Moana is the best though, have you seen it? Frozen 2 has just come out on Disney+ so will watch that tomorrow. We watched all the Toy Story series again recently too and that was so good.

@Bellabubble ahh, no way!! Hopefully the weather gets a bit better and you can continue the work. This week I'm going to tackle painting all my kitchen cupboards I think, give it a facelift. 😂😂 One of them definitely have to make a baby soon.

@Diorissimo1985 how have you been? Xx

@Bellabubble love a film that bursts into song and I have Disney + which I never use so might aswell 🙌🏾 ooh that's interesting about your temps but at least you have a reason for it. I might change my name to @ChilledT we'll see how long it lasts before I have a meltdown x

@VP91x love that you both suggested Moana, will add these to my watch lists. I watched all of the toy story's recently aswell, that and lion king were my fave films growing up. Oh and I watched Aladdin... another great film. Have you had anymore spotting? xx

@SmileyT Disney+ is so good its been a lifesaver during lockdown. Ooh we saw lion King too. You'll love Moana, I cried the first time I saw it 😂

Yeah still spotting today I had a fair amount of blood but its not like normal AF flow if that makes sense so odd.

Well Bella done a poo on the bed as I was getting her changed 😩😩. So wine and chippy tea tonight. Will get back on the diet tomorrow. Any nice evening plans? Xx

Hi ladies how are we all? Been quiet recently just popping in now and again to catch up on everything. I'm quite enjoying this relaxed approach to ttc defo don't feel as uptight as I have been.
@Sallyjo27 I'm so sorry to hear you have had another Mc please be kind to yourself and I hope you get the tests, sending you hugs and love xx

@VP91x hey lovely I’m alright thanks, currently about 10dpo and trying to hold off testing. Found myself hoping to get pregnant again despite my gut feeling it will be a third miscarriage - very mixed feelings!
Am on a super healthy diet and have really been enjoying my reflexology, would definitely recommend.

How have you been? How many dpo are you do you think? Xx

I was horribly disappointed with the new version of lion king though, was not enough songs in it for me so had to switch to the old version 😂 OH has just got back from work let's see if he is keen for moana 🤷🏾‍♀️ @VP91x what a nightmare with the 💩 situation definitely deserve a chippy tea and your cycle has been a bit bizarre this month but so glad you're booked in for tests next week. You're near to your due date aren't you? How are you feeling about it? xx

@elliew818 puppy doing gooood thank you hun xx hope you're okay xx

@Hayleylou89 good luck with scan tomorrow everything is going to be absolutely fine I'm sure of it xxxx keep us posted xxx

@Sallyjo27 so sorry to hear of your loss xx hope you're able to get some tests and some answers hun xxx

Hi all, I hope everyone has had a nice relaxing Sunday . I’m feeling very frustrated tonight, it will be 3 weeks tomorrow since my mva was done and I’ve just done a pregnancy test - still a very obvious positive 😫. The tests are sensitive ones (10miu/ml) but even so I’m going to ring the EPU tomorrow. Really hoping there’s no retained products... I think the line is lighter than the last test I did about 5 days ago but not massively. I’m presuming they will test my blood and maybe give me a scan I’m not sure. It’s hard not to get angry at your own body. May watch some Disney with a glass of wine you’ve all made me want to see the remakes now xx

@HE88 hey 👋 glad you are feeling better this month. How is it all going? X

@SmileyT haha just put it on and he will be convinced 👀 let me know what you think when you've seen it. New lion king definitely didn't have the same magic as the original.

Yeah, July 10th. I'm dreading the day because I know I'm just going to be desperately sad. I think that was the main reason I wanted to get the tests done so quickly, I can't believe the day is going to be here and I'm not pregnant. It is such a shit situation. I'll just have to ride the wave that day, and just let myself grieve. Xx

@Northernsoul90 are you still getting any bleeding or cramping? I think you should definitely push for more bloods/scan if you're concerned. I hope they see you quickly. Definitely get onto Disney+! Xx

Hey @VP91x it's going good only dtd 2 times so far but I'm still early in my cycle. Plus when dtd it's felt great because we are doing it because we want to not because we have to if that makes sense!
I'm sorry to hear that your cycle has been a bit all over the place this month and that your due date is very soon. Also, good luck with your upcoming tests I hope you get some positive answers. Xx

Another big Disney and Moana fan here 🙋🏻‍♀️

@Sallyjo27 sorry to hear about another loss. Like the ladies say, I hope you can find some comfort here. I hope you’re being well looked after.

@Diorissimo1985 have you had any symptoms or anything?

@SmileyT did you win on Moana? I’m watching About a Boy. Love this film.

How are you all? I saw a stunning rainbow earlier, hope it’s a lucky one 🤞🏼 I was with my nieces and the littlest one said ‘I’m so excited, I love rainbows, I’m so happy’. made me want to weep 😂

@Sallyjo27 I'm sorry you are back and I'm sorry about your losses:( I can completely understand that you want to try asap! I wish you exactly that ! That miscarriage is over soon and you can go ahead with ttc 😘

@VP91x no the bleeding stopped last weekend and no cramping since a few days post procedure. I will definitely give them a ring tomorrow! Yes I have Disney+ (even though we have no children in the house 🙈) I’ve seen a couple of the remakes but not all. I loved the Cinderella remake the best, that ones a few years old now though xx

@MichT4 no symptoms really (loads of imagines ones in my head 🤣) ... feel very moody and emotional but I've been like that all year so far!!!

@Diorissimo1985 😂😂😂
I was in such a bad mood with OH this morning, he asked what was wrong with me because I just kept having a go at him. Damn hormones!

@Northernsoul90 I love the Cinderella one too. Don’t mind beauty and the beast either. I’m a sucker for anything Disney. Little mermaid is my childhood fave 💕

@MichT4 the hormones have a lot to answer for!! 🤣

@HE88 that's good I'm glad you are both enjoying things again, so easy to lose that isnt it. Thank you 🥰🥰 xx

@MichT4 aw that's so cute!! About a Boy is a great film too, good choice. I have an obsession with the two Mamma Mia films - love them so much.

@Northernsoul90 that's all positive - yes definitely ring them. Haha I've always loved Disney so no shame there! Cinderella is fab xx