More Afternoon Delight (Bus 9)

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Here we go again you wonderful ladies - entry requirements are a suggestion for 'sex position of the day' 😉

20 BFPs so far in June how many more will we get!?

@egg2020 - June 24th
@marshmallow123 - June 26th
@stabal - June 26th
@madz27 - June 27th
@skip86 - June 28th
@missgoldilocks - June 28th
@newbie0818 - June 30th
@vp91x - June 30th
@lucyrp - July 1st
@sweetdreams92 - July 1st
@sausage1990 - July 1st
@busybee143 - July 1st
@lucie91 - July 2nd
@minster2012 - July 3rd
@dipsy77 -July 3rd
@dkdk123 - July 4th
@katao - July 4th
@amy00 - July 5th
@ltay2 - July 5th
@notyetamumbuttrying - July 5th
@vil10 - July 6th
@franklydear - July 6th
@justmouse - July 7th
@blodyn91 - July 7th
@cocoblue22 - July 7th
@watermelonwizard - July 7th
@smileyT - July 8th
@jazper - July 8th
@littleRa - July 10th
@clairey844 - July 10th
@2020mission - July 15th
@DB20 - July 17th
@mococo1 - July 20th
@sarahttc2020 - July 21st
@lv1987 - July 24th

Anyone missing just let me know your next testing date xx

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Beep beep all aboard bus 9 🎉

Sorry I've been awol for a bit-my aim to be more relaxed this month has failed in all but my coming on here 😂
I'm still logging when we dtd on both my apps, did ovulation tests yesterday and today just for the hell of peeing in a pot and my OH has been the least up for it I've ever known in our 15 years together ☹️
Cd14 for me here.

Congratulations @Stabal, what a great start to the bus 🎉

I fee like I could have written your posts @Bertyb7 @smileyT and everyone else who has said similar (sorry I'm trying to catch up from mid bus 8 😂😂) I'm suddenly convinced he has stopped finding me attractive, but I know in reality it's probably because I'm now like a dog on heat because I'm sure ovulation is imminent. Think we also peaked too soon dtd daily from cd5. As a result we missed the whole weekend (cd 11&12) because he was knackered and drank too much and although we had a bit of morning delight yesterday at cd13 I'm now convinced I've missed the boat this month. Ewcm last night before bed but not today so 🤷‍♀️

@lucyrp so frustrated for you. Well expected to see either a bfp or that AF had arrived when I came back on-at least you're having amazing sex at the moment and encouraging us all to keep doing it like Lucy 😂😂

@Vil10 good that your doctors are on the ball-🤞🏻all the tests come back clear.

Hi to everyone else, will be back to chat more now I've admitted that I am clearly mot going to just relax this cycle 😂😂

@Minster2012 poor man i definitely put him through his paces! 😈

@Clairey844 nope neither have happened here yet! its a joke isn't it 😂 can't wait to pounce on OH when he gets home!😏 i'm getting slight spotting when i wipe every now and again but that literally means nothing! i'm hoping this doesn't go on for much longer as i really will get fed up! my friend came round today and said i could hold her 4 week old baby if i wore a mask and i cried 😭he was so small and just lovely. my womb aches 😂🙈

@vil10 that's good they've done ALL the tests! Least you'll have answers and soon too xx

@Clairey844 yeah they've been so good I can't fault them!! I hope so! Thankyou!!

@Minster2012 I thought that, literally a test for everything so if there is something that will affect my fertility at least I'll know, I'm so worried though, I just have this gut feeling!x

June 27th for me! This TWW is driving me crazy but i have nausea so i think I might be on the right track for once! Fingers crossed for all of us!

i predict AF/ bleed will arrive for me 6 days from now 🧐🧐

@SmileyT could he also be upset about the MC and worried about it happening again? I really don't think it's anything to do with him not finding you attractive ♥️
Thanks for setting up the new thread, feels depressing being so far down the list even though AF was 2 weeks ago 😭 really hate long cycles

Just marking my place 😊

Oh dear @lucyrp I feel for you, I imagine I would go mad in that situation, luckily DH is there to distract you.
Pains and cramps gone now, so when is it the 5th already?
Dh feels the pressure to perform, so I just don't tell him the dates, just need to find what works for you, I am sure no dhs have fallen out of love in the process.

@Vil10 sounds like your doctor is being very proactive which is reassuring. Fingers crossed it's nothing major, but even if it is anything it's better to know sooner rather than later. X

It's Tuesday and I've just poured myself a glass of wine, that says just how well my week is going 😅 I've decided to just see how things go with OH tonight and not put anymore pressure on. If we catch this month we'll be incredibly lucky, but stranger things have happened 🥰 x

@Vil10 ooh I'm glad that you got all the tests and most of them will be back on Thursday hopefully it puts your mind at rest over a few things. I'm glad it's not just me that feels like I need some help to look my fabulous self, but these men are lucky to have us we must remember this xx

@KateColx yeah you're just swaying like @Katao now totally intentional 💁‍♀️ erm I've had to send OH to the shop for wine now, can't believe it's only bloody Tuesday FFS x

@Sydgal22 so glad everything came back good on the bloods, so glad you are hanging around I miss your messages in the morning with updates x

@Stabal totally understand being nervous after MC but please try and enjoy this moment whatever happens in the future this is something to celebrate xx

@Juno231 i seem to get EWCM (well the twice I've noticed it) about 2/3 days before ovulation then mine seems to get a bit more watery, which is the opposite way to what google says but is what has happened the last couple months for me x

@Dipsy77 enjoy your Bacardi, I'm having a G&T tonight 🥂 also pubs are opening on the 4th July so ready for beer gardens again 😎

@SarahTTC2020 we've had a really good talk tonight and he just said that him knowing he has to perform weeks in advance just makes it feel forced but he is so keen for a baby he is scared to let me down so I'm just going to chill a bit and let it happen (whilst also tracking everything 😂) How are you? X

I am having the worst night tonight 😫 driving home from work I had weird wavy peripheral vision from my left eye which I took as a sign of a migraine coming on and of course it did ☹️ pain has subsided slightly but forcing myself to survive on just paracetamol and not take any ibuprofen as I've read that can harm TTC chances? Anyway just left feeling sooooo sick. Now I feel guilty for hoping I don't get any nausea when pregnant as I hate feeling sick 😂 but really I'd suffer through all the nausea in the world if it meant I'd get my BFP 😜🤮

@KateColx yeah he was amazing and I'm so happy he saw me the same day I rang and that my results will be here in a few days! I'm just so nervous for them, I don't know what I'll do if I get bad news, I just know it's going to happen I have a feeling!x

@SmileyT I'll feel sooo much better if my tests are all fine! Suppose it's better off finding out now than TTC for a full year and not know why I can't get pregnant then finding out after that! Ohhh they're so lucky too right!!x

Light bleeding tonight when I wiped. Not sure what's happening. 😔

@SmileyT haha exactly if I tell myself that I'll feel mucchhhh better. And I would like a girl soo win win?! 🥳 eurgh tell me about it! A 4 hour work zoom meeting and a to do list as long as my arm waiting for me tomorrow morning, wine is defo needed! Enjoy yours 😋 x

@Vil10 try to stay positive, I know it's so much easier said than done but worrying about it now won't change the result so try to block it out for now and hope for the best! I always think the worst of everything but 9/10 it's fine. Keeping everything crossed for you! Have you had any other symptoms other than the pains? X

@Stabal when is af due?

@Newbie0818 anytime from Friday if I go by my cycles before my miscarriage. It could of course be messed up from it and coming early.. Dodgy packet of frer's? Is that a thing? Ugh.

Hi everyone.
I'm new to the chat but have read alot of your previous threads. I have all my fingers and toes crossed for all of us with TTC.
Just a history...I have PCOS and no periods. I have a daughter who's 3 on Friday. On 12th june I found out I was 3-4 weeks pregnant...then on the 16th I started bleeding heavily and had cramping. Hospital confirmed miscarriage with an internal scan and blood test on the 19th. It's now 7 days since my miscarriage and the bleeding has stopped and I finally got a negative pregnancy test this morning.

I'm trying to track my ovulation as we want to conceive again and the chances of me having AF back anytime this year is very slim! So I'm hoping to ovulate on 30th (from my app) .... I am using OPK's twice a day from tomorrow to see if I have a surge..but tonight's OPK was quite a strong result.

Any advice or tips? As I'm pretty new to the tracking etc.

@Minster2012 just back from shopping and found pom juice, mixed it with ass juice, and now I have yum juice 😋 thanks for the invention!

@hopeful This is my first cycle tracking so can't help you much yet, ive tested twice today, might do a third tonight as today is my first day of high readings. So sorry to hear about MC.

@Stabal do you have anymore tests to take in the morning? I know some people bleed and still go on to have healthy pregnancies.

Wine is always good! And I can not wait for the beer gardens to re open! There will be one weekend before I test this cycle #drinktillitspink

Went for a run tonight after googling 'does running interrupt ovulation' and found running acctually helps! Was meant to do another OPK but weed before I remembered 🙈 So might do one before bed. If its not a peak might wait till morning before DTD, as I know Ill be fast asleep when OH gets in 🙈 if he tries it on though I won't say no.
Also doing a jig saw to helo relax 💆🏼‍♀️ #oldladyoverhere

@KateColx you're right, I can't stress about something I don't know the answer to! And I'm now in the TWW so if everything is fine I don't want to be stressing myself out! Rarely I get the odd pain when we're having deep sex but it's not every time at all, but I just put that down to it being deep! But now I'm just like oh god what if it's something else😩x

@Hopeful110 welcome!! Can I ask other than no periods what were you symptoms of PCOS? I've been for tests today because I've been having pelvic pain and I think I could possibly have something similar! So sorry to hear about you miscarriage too it's shit!! I think you're doing the best thing by starting to track ovulation from now, what opks are you using? A lot of apps you can log your picture of your opk on and it tells you whether it's low high or peak, it's so helpful!x

@SmileyT I think @KateColx is actually doing a better job at swaying than I did 😂 about 3 days before ovulation is supposed to be the cut off but because my opks were confusing me we definitely got nearer than that in the end 🙈

@blodyn91 I don't but I will still test on Friday as planned just to see what's going on!

@Vil10 it was discovered when I was about 15 because I hadn't started my period, so I had scans and a laparoscopy to confirm it. I have it quite mildly compared to some others, It looks as though even with PCOS you can still ovulate and not have periods. The only symptom I have now is when I get an annual AF I get quite bad cramping and heavy flow but thats really it. I hope your tests come back ok though, it's horrible waiting for results
The opks I have are the 'one step' ones, i have the get baby app but do you think the one you suggested will be better? I hate having second lines and doubting the result so I might have a look into the one you suggested, is there a particular one?

@Vil10 I do completely get the worrying I'm a major worrier myself and my DH says the same to me as yours does. At least you're getting seen to straight away and not having to wait sounds like they've given you a full MOT! Let us know what the results say x

Speaking of random pains I've got that heavy achiness like last month again corresponding with the high oestrogen I really can't remember this last time. It's not pain as such just achey and if DH gets too enthusiastic it sort of throbs a bit anyone else get this? I'm thinking could just be my body readjusting to coming off the pill x