More Afternoon Delight (Bus 9)

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Here we go again you wonderful ladies - entry requirements are a suggestion for 'sex position of the day' 😉

20 BFPs so far in June how many more will we get!?

@egg2020 - June 24th
@marshmallow123 - June 26th
@stabal - June 26th
@madz27 - June 27th
@skip86 - June 28th
@missgoldilocks - June 28th
@newbie0818 - June 30th
@vp91x - June 30th
@lucyrp - July 1st
@sweetdreams92 - July 1st
@sausage1990 - July 1st
@busybee143 - July 1st
@lucie91 - July 2nd
@minster2012 - July 3rd
@dipsy77 -July 3rd
@dkdk123 - July 4th
@katao - July 4th
@amy00 - July 5th
@ltay2 - July 5th
@notyetamumbuttrying - July 5th
@vil10 - July 6th
@franklydear - July 6th
@justmouse - July 7th
@blodyn91 - July 7th
@cocoblue22 - July 7th
@watermelonwizard - July 7th
@smileyT - July 8th
@jazper - July 8th
@littleRa - July 10th
@clairey844 - July 10th
@2020mission - July 15th
@DB20 - July 17th
@mococo1 - July 20th
@sarahttc2020 - July 21st
@lv1987 - July 24th

Anyone missing just let me know your next testing date xx

@Minster2012 @2alreadywantanother yes i am the crown holder for most sex normally around my supposed ov date we had sex every day from CD5 to CD18 and probably 2-3 times every one of those days 😂😂 i am currently on CD48 so everyone's fuming because my ov was picked up on CD15 and i had a faint positive at around 18dpo but negatives since and no AF or anytning😂

@2020mission I know 😂 sometimes it's hard to know what's what! I suppose at least if you keep DTD that's all that counts 🤞🏼

Oh my god @lucyrp cd flippin 48?!? This is getting ridiculous. Any sign of anything to happen? Have you given up poas?

@Katao yep you're telling me! no signs of anything really! just the slight beige CM when i wipe and i woke up this morning i had some in my underwear (i never normally wear pants to bed but because it was so hot i just wore a thong 😂) i have given up POAS PG tests but i'm still doing some LH tests every now and again when i think about it. they're all still coming up as high🙄

@lucyrp and had the doctor anything to say about the continued spotting? I would have thought that would make them want to investigate.

@Katao no nothing really she just said i have to wait it out until my next AF for the 21 day bloods! which might not be for months ?!

That's crap, are your cycles normally like that. I've heard of some been pregnant and the tests dont pick up until well into pregnancy, So heres hoping for u.
13 days of DTD you poor DP lol
Wed night I said I'd give him a break 🙈 but woke him early before he went to work 😂😂 so gave him last night off. Hes actually wrecked. My supposed OVD was our anniversary. 14 yrs together. What are the chances we conceive on it lol. I can normally tell when I ov, but not this time. So I dont even know if I did. Next month I'll get opk and monitor. Just afraid I'll become obsessed 😇

@lucyrp that doesn't seem right. I mean no period is annoying but not necessarily worrying especially after a mc but I would be concerned about ongoing spotting. That could be a symptom of an infection or something. Has it been long since you last rang her? I'd be inclined to get in touch again on the basis that you are still spotting.

@2alreadywantanother nooo they used to be 28-30 days regular and then i went on the depo contraceptive injection for 3 years but came off it last june and my periods returned to normal by christmas 19 and then in my march cycle my period was 3 weeks late and i had 3 faint positives and then a bleed at 7 weeks so i believe i had a CP, i'd been to the midwifes and everutning. my bleed was on may 10 which i classed as my first cycle day of this cycle. i confirmed ovulation on CD15 with CB digital OPKs which would be in line with my normal regular cycles!
OH loves it i'm sure 😂😂 you're saying you're afraid you'll get obsessed don't be afraid we're all obsessed 😂

@Minster2012, yes, I'll bet on the chicken, my plan is wait for work and then put pressure on the letters and if he can't go, then neither can I, but work is looking good for July off... No family around, not a lot of alone time in this house, the friends that normally help us, they are also an asd family, so it's mutual help, are shielding properly as well, we are planning to make a bubble in a couple of weeks so the children can play together and us have a cuppa, as hopefully I won't be able to drink 😘

@Katao it was only the 18th june i spoke to her last so only last week! yeah it's not a huge amount its literallt when i wipe but it's light brown/ light pink

@blodyn91 @Minster2012 😂😂🤣 sadly no helicopter! But between my own house and this house is one very long highway, I go through a total of two sets of traffic lights before getting on it, and go through about 4 'towns' which are barely more than a petrol station. So travelling at 110kph it takes me only 4 or so hours in the car.
Why do I do this craziness you ask? Well the real estate here is cheap!! I buy dilapidated ex-government houses and give them a little facelift before selling on. No holiday house away from OH I'm afraid 😫 but it's a gorgeous spot. This pic was taken this arvo when I took my cup of tea over the dunes, about 400m from the house.

Sorry I'm going on about non ttc stuff 🙈 I just get excited by houses!

@lucyrp I know you probably feel like you are pestering ringing again with the same issue but sometimes you have to press these things. Maybe see how you go over the weekend and ring next week if the spotting continues. I'm only going by dr google but doesn't seem like something that should be ignored.

helloclue.com/articles/cycle-a-z/what-is-spotting

So last cycle was my first cycle tracking, I Ov on CD26 and had a 40 day cycle which was pretty normal for me.
DTD on Weds night but not sure if dh came (we were quite drunk haha) and I've had lots of ewcm today but wasn't sure if it was residue semen.
Just did an OPK on the off chance and it was positive! So now I'm like quick DTD again 🙈 only CD17 so a lot earlier than last cycle 🤞

@bluebird93 you're posting on the old bus - come join us here!

@skip86 that's gorgeous! V jealous as my house shenanigans are going to pot. Buyers backed out last week and then this week the valuation came through on the house we're buying - except it didn't! The bank is refusing to value it as there are cracks and they want us to get a building survey done first :( All a bit worrying.

Oh wow @Skip86 love the view!
@SarahTTC2020 go girl! Great to not have to wait so long this cycle!

@juno thats crap! We are also having a nightmare and not allowed to view houses, dad is fuming and going to get involved next time they tell us no.

@Minster2012 Friend got back to me, she has that V condition you mentioned, she used steroid and tacrolimus creams? and had UVB treatment on the patch on her face. She has dark skin, so the patches were all yellow/ whiteish. Tbf i bet you are just proud of your skin!

@Skip86 when my brother was out there he worked for a removal company moving furniture from one mansion to the other just to take photographs? Thought that was insane

No helicopter- maybe a private jet then 🤭😆

Hey all, back again today for more advice (sorry for taking over the message board today)!

You may have saw earlier today I posted a 13% level LH test at CD9, so not quite approached ovulation yet but period gone days ago.

I had sex this morning and around 3 hours later I was sitting and felt a single cramp where I usually get menstrual cramps. It eased quickly with no more pain and I continued as normal assuming I'm just in for a dodgy toilet visit later.

Just went for a pee and when wiping I had what I'd call quite heavy spotting. Quite a lot of blood but not on underwear, all on the wipes. I remember this happened in March but has ever happened before. I don't usually bleed between periods.

Anyone know what could cause this? I've been having sex with my husband for 8 years and nothing like this has happened until we started TTC this year 🤷‍♀️ also never been on hormonal contraceptives so can't be changes related to anything like that.

Just wondered if anyone knows what could cause that?

@Skip86 beautiful view! 😍

@2020mission sounds very much like cervical erosion caused by DTD. This can cause bleeding/pain but is nothing to worry about. It's not linked to cancer or anything like that and can just be due to hormonal changes. If it starts to really bother you there are treatments your GP could offer you such as cauterising the cells off of the cervix.

@blodyn91 not even letting you go on viewings?? still? do they not want your money lol. We went on a second viewing a few weeks back already so I thought you'd def be able to go on viewings by now!

@Juno231 thanks, I hope that's all it is. I had a clear cervical smear test in November last year and you're right that actually causes spotting which I guess is similar as the cervix has been prodded. I'll keep an eye on it though. Sucks being a woman sometimes with all these things to worry about 😅

@2020mission omg tell me about it. I used to have chronic utis for years (nurses can still spot it when I go in for pap smears as it apparently has left scarring??) and a couple of years back I had a dodgy pap smear so had to have cells burnt off on my cervix 🙄. There's always something wrong with our plumbing!