TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies,

New thread - currently CD17 (cycle #3) still waiting for peak OPK.

I hopefully have tagged everyone -

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4
WellHurrahAndHuzzah
@ManchNic
@Jazper
@Dizzy201
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@1990EM
@Chickoletta
@Tink20058
@sunflower96
@Meomeomeo
@chloedancer897
@Niisa
@Bellabubble
@Sallyjo27
@Ejb86
@Wishingfornumber2
@anaconda76
@AR52
@DontStandSoClose
@Donnat89
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@NightDreaming
@Saim86

If anyone else would like to join please do❤️

Ah @2020wish. Poor little lady. I hope shes not too upset.

So I caved... am I imagining it? 10dpo.

@Ejb86 I see something there!!

@Ejb86 I also see the line ! Wohoo

@2020wish I'm sorry that your daughter is hurting. sending you and your family lots of love 😘
@VP91x you might just not have symptoms but be pregnant. Where are you in your cycle?

So, working in a school. Gov guidelines say pregnant women should not be working with the children at the moment. At what point would you have the conversation with the head? Fee daft going in at 3 weeks pregnant with a faint line on a test and saying I can no longer be working with the kids.

@2020wish ahh bless her what an awful conversation to have to have. Hope you are both feeling a bit better this morning xx

@VP91x ooh yeah I love busaba 😋 how you feeling today?

@Ejb86 I definitely see something in that pic 🤗 do you have any guidance on when you should notify the school? I think it's a really personal decision, I would probably wait until I was certain but if you are concerned about the kids and want to go off now you have the right to do that xx

@Rainbowhope11 im sorry you are feeling low I think we all go through phases in this ttc journey. Why do you feel like your cycle won't go back to normal? How many dpo would you put yourself at now? Xx

@SmileyT ugh, so I definitely haven't ovulated temp went back down today from the slight temp rise I had yesterday. So I'm definitely out this month. Even if it does rise, we haven't had sex since Sunday - so no chance. 😩 How are you today?

@Ejb86 omg yes I see it! This is so exciting. I would maybe wait a few days have it definitely confirmed and then speak to your school. I can't wait to see it get darker ❤️

@Rainbowhope11 I'm sorry you're having a rough time at the moment 😔I have no advice on how to regulate cycles because mine are still being crazy and all over the place too. I've never heard of Pregnitude but hopefully they help! Most of those supplements are known for regulating your cycle in some way. Have you maybe spoken to your doctor to see if they can suggest anything?❤️

@Rainbowhope11 ohh my message to @VP91x was directed to you ;)

@VP91x how is your cat?

@HopeForRainbowbaby she's had some injections whilst they wait to see if any improvement before they xray to check for a fracture. Hopefully will be okay x

@Rainbowhope11 please don’t feel like it’ll never happen. My cycles still aren’t back to normal. And this month, ovulation was delayed further and I’m fair certain that could have been due to me stressing about my cycle. Try and relax and give yourself time and I’m sure it’ll level out

@Ejb86 I can see something too!! Exciting! Have you had symptoms? Sorry, I’m sure you’ve told us, I lose track.
I probably wouldn’t say anything at work until I was sure either. But it depends what you are comfy with. Don’t do something that increases your anxiety.

@2020wish that must have been a difficult conversation, sorry you had to have it. I hope you are feeling better this morning, and I hope it a actually allows you to relax more because it’s one less pressure. Talking always helps, and I bet she gave you the best hugs

@VP91x what on earth is this madness you speak of? How big was the drop? Are you sure it’s not just a random dip? I’ve looked at a LOT of charts this month and it can happen.

@MichT4 no not a chance, ignore what femometer thinks I ovulated that app is batshit. But yeah definitely no proper temp rise. This month has been a shitter. Sigh xx

@VP91x nooo don’t lose hope yet. Here’s the link to the different charts.
I know you’re not feeling hopeful, but don’t make conclusions yet. Plus, if you haven’t ovulated yet, DTD again today

www.fertilityfriend.com/courses/lessons/1/Chart-Variations-_-Illustrations.html

What’s your little lady making you watch this morning? xx

@MichT4 bleurgh, I really do think that is it for this month. So frustrating, just have to ride it out now. Partner wants to have a bit of R&R for a few days before having sex again, so no option there anyway.

We are watching Finding Dory (9000th time I've seen it) how are you today xx

Morning ladies, have been a bit quiet as have been busy with work - it’s my day off with DD today though. In my 2ww now and the weird pelvic pain is back that I got with both miscarriages. I guess this stacks up with the inflammation diagnosis but I’m worried implantation has happened and my body is already fighting it. Not sure what to do... I started a couple of threads asking about when to start taking low dose aspirin and the general consensus was after bfp. I’m only about 5/6 dpo so I’m think I’m just freaking out a bit. Probably need to brace myself for loss number 3 if this one does catch

@VP91x that one does seem like a firm favourite! Any plans today? Going to be scorching!

I’m fine thanks, I feel tired today, but I think it’s linked with the heavy pollen eyes. I ate like an absolute animal yesterday so back to training and eating well today (another day 1 😂). I feel more positive again after a day with my Mum, but I’m sure the rollercoaster will take a turn at some point today

@diorissimo1985 don’t you be worrying yourself. It’s still potentially early for implantation so it could be something else, or it could be implantation but that doesn’t mean the same will happen.
Have a lovely day with DD in the sunshine and try and relax. What do you have planned?

Thanks @MichT4 - what will be will be I guess.
We are only a few minutes away from the beach so we are going for a play and a paddle what are you up to today? X

CD17, flashing smilie can go be smug somewhere else 🙄 when are my cycles going to regulate already 🤷🏽‍♀️😭 come on little egg 🙏🏼🙏🏼😔

@diorissimo1985 that sounds bloody lovely! I’m very jealous.
I am working this morning, and then later maybe a walk or will go and sit in my sisters garden. Have to take advantage of this weather ☀️☀️

Boo to no temp rise @VP91x could you DTD over today or tomorrow? Sometimes it can take a couple days after peak to see a temp rise I think 🤔 I'm all good apart from wishing the week away as work is so mental but I guess at least it means the days to quick x

@Diorissimo1985 stay positive lovely if you do catch it is a positive and here's hoping you have a sticky bean 🤞

@Jazper 😭 that damn smug bastard again! This month is turning into a real pain in the arse cycle wise it seems. Maybe the egg just needs another day to be perfect

I really really really really hope so @MichT4 🤞🏼🤞🏼 thank you ❤️

@Jazper it could definitely just be a day out from last month don't lose hope 👌🏾

Hallo ladies, I think with all stress around ttc we all deserve some good time to relax and be ready for this beautiful sticky bean ( or to enjoy early pregnancy for those who had thei BFPs;)). The weather is great this week, treat yourself well. The happy mother to be, the happy sticky bean;) as the say 😘

@HopeForRainbowbaby well said, and totally agree 💕💕 have a lovely week xx

So true @HopeForRainbowbaby ☺️ x

Thank you @SmileyT, reassuring to know as it's only my second cycle of OPK's so I naively just hoped it would be the same as last month. I'm sure I used to ov earlier than this though 🙄

@VP91x I'm so sorry you didn't get the temp shift you expected. As @SmileyT said, could you dtd today to cover yourself in case of a delayed shift? I get your OH needing r&r though, (as frustrating as it is for you). People say ttc is the most magical time ever and I'm finding it so stressful 😭