TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies,

New thread - currently CD17 (cycle #3) still waiting for peak OPK.

I hopefully have tagged everyone -

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4
WellHurrahAndHuzzah
@ManchNic
@Jazper
@Dizzy201
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@1990EM
@Chickoletta
@Tink20058
@sunflower96
@Meomeomeo
@chloedancer897
@Niisa
@Bellabubble
@Sallyjo27
@Ejb86
@Wishingfornumber2
@anaconda76
@AR52
@DontStandSoClose
@Donnat89
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@NightDreaming
@Saim86

If anyone else would like to join please do❤️

@Renna I'm not bad thanks had some spotting yesterday and some again today which is always a sign that af is on her way!
Good on you for not caving and testing, keeping everything crossed for you.
Aw I can imaging a few friends have dogs and they said the same about it being like having a baby 😂. Xx

Thank you for moving the post over x

Thanks for the new thread @VP91x

I have my first reflexology appointment tomorrow - no idea if it will help me hang on to these pregnancies I keep losing but I will try anything!! Will report back x

So I caved and did a CB test and it was BFN even though I’m only D9PO, I don’t know why I did a test! I was determined not to test before now! Why do we do this to ourselves?!

Thanks for new thread @VP91x day 10 of flashy smiley 🙄! Have come to peace with the fact I’m not going to get a static. X

@Bellabubble I did the same, I thought maybe if the hormones were strong enough, I'd get a BFP anyway with dilute urine at D9PO....lol I'm really not a patient person so this TWW has been killing me.

I'm having lots of lower abdo stabbing pains on my right side, sore boobs, constant nausea, tiredness and peeing a lot so I'm still holding out hope

@Bellabubble hope all is ok! When do you get your Internet sorted?
Ahh, don't worry too much, super early and not fmu. When will you test next? 12 or 14dpo?xx

@chloedancer897 honestly, no idea why we test early but, it always happens haha. Curiosity is too much to ignore. But, yeah definitely ignore that result!

@Diorissimo1985 I really hope it helps!!

@Wishingfornumber2 don't stress I'm on day 9 of flashy smiley!! I'm with you 🥰

Well 10DPO and did another early CB test with FMU and it's negative. Should I call it a day now? Anyone else get a neg at 10DPO and go on go get a positive?

@chloedancer897 no don't rule yourself out yet! Will you continue to use CB early result or switch to FRER? I've seen that 9dpo is the most common day to implant so then HCG would show 11/12dpo. So I would test on Friday with either CB early again or FRER. 🥰

@VP91x I'm trying not to lose hope and I wish I didn't test so early but it's almost impossible to wait sometimes esp as I'm getting so many symptoms!

Going to buy FRER and use those. Also have some hospital tests from my miscarriage left and a digital test but they never work early so I'll have to wait until Sunday to use that

@chloedancer897 yeah get some FRERs ordered and see if you can wait until Friday so you're 12dpo. It is difficult to wait, but try not to stress too much xx

@chloedancer897 @vp91x i think I’m going to wait until 14dpo now - as I only have 2 cb digitals and they aren’t as sensitive. Natural Cycles says to test on Monday as my Luteal phase can be up to 16days - so we shall see lol! I’m cycle day 26 now - and apart from my mc cycle I’m between 27 to 29 days in length so 🤞🏻

So annoyed that I wasted my early one though -lol! I didn’t realise cb had a when to test calculator on their website! It sayI should test tomorrow at the earliest with their early detection - doh! I’m really hoping this is my month, another friend told me she was pregnant yesterday too, she’s only 7weeks, but really struggling as she has anxiety and has been told she has to take antenatal depression medication.

@chloedancer897 I have done my first test with first pregnancy at 11dpo and it was the faintest line ( I had to move the test around to see it )so I doubt I would have seen anything on 9dpo. So you are not out 👍

Ahhh fingers crossed @Bellabubble that AF stays away. Are you getting any symptoms? Xx

Thanks for the new thread @vp91x x

@chloedancer897 @Bellabubble sounds like they are both early tests. Definitely wait a couple of days before testing again. Looking forward to maybe seeing some BFPs over the next few days

@2020wish have you tested again?

@VP91x flasher is pushing its luck. Final countdown now before it’s disposed of in some way 😂. What time is your first OPK today?

@MichT4 I literally muttered to myself, 'it's got until tomorrow night' this morning when it flashed at me again.

About 11ish. I've come to drop my mum off some shopping so will have to hold until I'm home.

How are you today? X

😂😂 I’m not surprised. Hope it’s spending the day thinking about what it’s done and pulling it’s socks up

I’m fine thank you. Temperature was the same as the night before and CM isn’t so abundant today. Also did an OPK with FMU and that was higher again. Just going to try and see this month out and not make too many conclusions. Definitely not expecting anything, but hoping to see some temperature increases to support any ovu theory. But not going to worry (or try) and will just start trying to get into a better mindset for the whole of next month. Might book some acupuncture for next month, just because.

You? Aside from flashing smiley? xx

@MichT4 haha, honestly CB must be raking it in with all these tests.

Oh that's good that opk was higher, yeah try not to worry too much if you can. You'll end up with some sort of pattern soon. I think the first month of temping is the most frustrating.

I'm doing alright, although my daughter is having tantrums constantly at the moment which is not ideal. She will be back at nursery soon, so that will be good for her. Xx

Tested this morning with a frer and bfn lol I compared it to the test I can see a faint line forming on from yesterday and there is def a difference. Dunno what to think. Only 9dpo. My last pregnancy I got my BFP at 10dpo but the pregnancy before that I got it at 14dpo after a bfn at 12dpo.

@VP91x a good distraction though? Or one which might end up in the bin with your CB 😂

I sent my sister a message last night asking about the scan time and wishing her luck. I wanted to try and control the situation rather than put it off and then suddenly see a picture arrive. Looking forward to the moment passing to be honest 😢

@2020wish still time then. And @VP91x said this morning about 9dpo being a common implantation day. Any symptoms?

Girls, those of you who are getting the constant flashing smiley twats - what day did you get your first one?
I got a flashing smiley today on cd11 which is really early for me and I usually get the sad little circle right up until day 13, flashy smiley briefly then peak.

@Diorissimo1985 sad little circle 🤣🤣 I got mine really early on CD10 this cycle. So got my hopes up but here I am! Hopefully yours comes up quicker.

@MichT4 ah in the bin!! I'm hoping my partner takes her out later for a bit to the park or something so I can nap, haha. That's a really good idea, will give you some warning xx

@2020wish ahh do you have a pic? It's still so so early!!

@2020wish there is definitely still time I got positive cb at 8dpo and then 3 days of negatives I convinced myself that it was a faulty test but then started getting positives again xxx