TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies,

New thread - currently CD17 (cycle #3) still waiting for peak OPK.

I hopefully have tagged everyone -

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4
WellHurrahAndHuzzah
@ManchNic
@Jazper
@Dizzy201
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@1990EM
@Chickoletta
@Tink20058
@sunflower96
@Meomeomeo
@chloedancer897
@Niisa
@Bellabubble
@Sallyjo27
@Ejb86
@Wishingfornumber2
@anaconda76
@AR52
@DontStandSoClose
@Donnat89
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@NightDreaming
@Saim86

If anyone else would like to join please do❤️

Hahah I wish I wasn’t desperate but unfortunately I am. And I would be testing every day if I didn’t make the Sunday pack lol I’ve one clear blue digital here and a clear blue early manual here. But 4 frer lol I just can’t understand why they never work for me

So I'm 6dpo today and my lb says I have a baby in my tummy. God how I hope he is right.

@Ejb86 lol funny comment. Fingers crossed, although what does IB mean?

LB, little boy xx

@SmileyT it’s so hard all the waiting isn’t it - I think I’m extra sensitive this week as my other friend is now pregnant too. Sadly she is suffering from antenatal depression and was saying to me if she could go back and change it she wouldn’t fall pregnant. I think when she is on the right medication she will probably feel more positive bless her. I guess as well, with every AF i get, it’s a chance for the lining to be better quality and give the little bean more chance to stick like you say :) Damn that 25% chance each time though lol! I think I got swayed by all the articles and talk you hear about people being more fertile after a mc etc, and the fact that last time I fell pregnant first try before the mc - I have discovered as a teacher I am so so patient. In this part of my life, patience seems to have gone out the window lol! Xx

@Ejb86 that's so cute I hope he is right. Bella said this morning "mummy I want baby sister" I was like I am working on it 😭😂😂

How have you been feeling?

@2020wish why dont you test with the CB early and FRER tomorrow to compare?

@MichT4 I'm sure that your temps will rise, they were really strong peak OPKs so it will happen probably tomorrow 😊 I have every confidence xx

@Ejb86 too cute!! Hoping his sixth sense is working!!

@VP91x yea going to do that and if it’s a bfn I’m sure I can talk myself into knowing I’ve have bfn before on that CD lol

@VP91x I've been ok thanks. Really busy at school, been back three weeks and I'm sharing a bubble of approximately 9 children starting next week. They are a year group that I'm not used to but I am going to be teaching most of them next year too, so it will be a good start to getting to know them. It could all change if I got BFP next week though.

@Bellabubble inifinte patience for other people's children. None for my own or my husband!

@ejb86 😂😂😂 that comment about your hubby and kids made me laugh.
I hope your little boy is right!

@VP91x thanks lovely. I’m sure they will, just impatient. It’s funny because I know if they do go up, then I’ll start counting down for something else. This journey is never ending impatience!
Any dramas this morning? Did you get the breakfast and cup right today?

@VP91x Yes I think we are record holders this month lol! I got up to 12 days of flashies and then run out. I did read after 10 days it says to stop as you probably won’t see a static face but I was determined to! Are you going to keep going with it too? I have that feeling in the pit of my stomach that AF is going to arrive though 😣. I am due anytime from tomorrow until middle of the week. X

@Wishingfornumber2 yeah I have like 6/7 sticks left so going to continue because I haven't seen anything near a peak on my cheapie OPKs either. Will only test in the mornings unless I have a strong OPK then I'll dip it to see if static comes up.

Ah no way, are you cramping or anything?

@MichT4 it is such a marathon of countdowns 😩 haha no, she seemed alright this morning. We are going to the wildlife park later which will be nice. They are opening from today for season pass holders so will distract me for a couple of hours at least.

@Ejb86 would you have to stop going in straight away if you got a BFP? That's nice that you are getting to know them earlier - hopefully not too stressful atm xx

@VP91x Yes had some cramps yesterday and still just have that feeling now but will just have to wait and see. Really hope you beat that smug face and get a static 🤞x

@mrsssk yes how amazing would it be if we all got our BFPs and could meet irl with our bumps and then babies ☺️

@DontStandSoClose I think at 12dpo there is a really good chance you'll get an accurate result so if you feel the need just do it and let us know how you get on 🤞

@VP91x she worked for a small firm under James Caans recruitment entrepeneur umbrella so her boss was basically a start up with 2 staff so guess he just wanted everyone to put in the hours, yeah working local at the moment is great for me, definitely feel like I won't be commuting forever. Holiday is booked for the 11th November, just after my due date would've been, if I'm not pregnant by then at least I'll have a nice trip to look forward to x

@MichT4 yes we should do a MN reunion in the Caribbean, everyone says we have to relax right 😎

@Ejb86 ahh really do hope your LB has a 6th sense 🤞 glad work is keeping you busy at the moment must be a nice distraction. Will you continue teaching if you get your BFP? xx

@Bellabubble yeah the hormones and other people can be a nightmare, my friend is due in 10 days and now officially on mat leave so wants to see me all the time I love here but I do find it hard sometimes. And I'm in agreement so hard to have patience, I've told myself it will happen by August before I panic but it's slowly approaching... even OH said to me the other day ' I thought it would've happened by now' very unlike him not to be completely positive. How are you today?? X

OMG just posted and forgot my news... I got my FIRST ever flashing smile on CB 🥳 🥳 🥳 3rd month and i finally have seen what it looks like, so sad but it's kinda made my day...

@SmileyT yay!! For flashing smiles!!

@VP91x wildlife park sounds fun! The weekends are always easier to be distracted for me. I’m going to go and have a coffee in my sisters garden while OH works this morning, then I have to train at some point. Not so fun as a wildlife park!

@SmileyT totally up for that reunion and also, yaaaaayyyy!!! Great news on the flashy. Don’t feel sad, I was excited seeing a peak on OPKs. Imagine what we’ll be like when we see the BFPs!

Just took me back to when I did see a BFP. It was so unexpected and I hadn’t tracked a thing, hadn’t rooted around for CM or disturbed my cervix 😂😂 ahh the days of innocence. I think I took a test every day for a week. Lucky I’ve got about 7 tests hidden upstairs for that day when it comes again 🤞🏼🤞🏼

I took one day off MN and look at all that's happened! Congrats to @peonyrose87 what lively news! So delighted for you.

Can't wait to see the tests tomorrow and hopefully some BFP. @2020wish pink dye tests can be a bit funny for me too with not always working. I think i just was more scared of the blue dye tests because of the increased chance of evap lines with them! So have stayed away after my first evap line heartbreak 🙈

@SmileyT yay for the start of the flashies hopefully not long till that happy little static appears!!

@Renna been thinking of you loads. So glad all was ok with your scan and as the other girls have been saying maybe just having that peace of mind will help you relax a bit more moving forward. Ah that elusive word "relax" ...

Hope all of you wonderful girls have a great weekend. Sun is shining here!

@MichT4 that day will be here soon.. .I know it. After all you got EWCM this cycle ;) I have never been one to do loads of tests after a BFP but this time I have done about 10 🙈🙈 MC has done that to me.

@SmileyT yay for the flashy!!

@SmileyT ahh I can imagine he would have wanted all their time! How frustrating! Is she still in recruitment now? Yes for your flashy!! Glad you got it 🎊 that's great timing. I'm sure you will be pregnant by then which will be wonderful.

@MichT4 where are you based? Anything to keep Bella entertained for a couple of hours. Hopefully it is not too restricted in there. I know there wont be any talks or the petting stuff obviously. But it's a nice one, not too big!

How have you been feeling @1990EM? 🥰

@VP91x thanks for asking, been feeling ok apart from the sickening feeling that something is going to happen to this pregnancy. I expect this is just how I'll feel every preganacy from now on but it's sad not to be able to fully enjoy it. Only about 5w4d and only symptoms are sore boobs. Very little nausea so far which is nice. I'm considering a private scan just to try to make this feel more real!! I'm worried that because of my fear of losing it that I'll not bond with this baby properly.

Thanks hun @1990EM x x hope you're okay and on you also try relax and enjoy this pg xxx

@SmileyT yay to flashing smiley xx maybe a sign this is your month xxxx

Hi everyone hope you are all well! I was just wondering when everyone started to get negative pregnancy tests after mc. I have tested today which is 12 days post mva and I’m still getting a strong positive which is worrying me slightly. I am really keen to start ttc again and wanted to start opks but I feel this is now pointless after having a positive pregnancy test. I was looking forward to having something to focus on and the idea of ttc again was giving me some positivity back, just feeling a frustrated that the line is so dark. Really hoping there’s no retained tissue I have attached pic of the test x

Forgot to add I know the line isn’t the darkest for a pregnancy test but I thought that by now it would be faint and getting to the point where it would be difficult to see...it’s still a very obvious positive at this point

@1990EM sending you the biggest hug. I can just imagine how worried you must be, but please try not to think something bad will happen. Odds are massively in your favour for all to be well. I think it will be good to get an early scan to settle you a bit? They do them from 6w so at least you have some reassurance. As the weeks go on you will definitely bond with your little baby. Don't let any guilt or anything consume you so early ❤️