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TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)

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VP91x · 16/06/2020 18:17

Hey lovelies,

New thread - currently CD17 (cycle #3) still waiting for peak OPK.

I hopefully have tagged everyone -

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4
WellHurrahAndHuzzah
@ManchNic
@Jazper
@Dizzy201
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@1990EM
@Chickoletta
@Tink20058
@sunflower96
@Meomeomeo
@chloedancer897
@Niisa
@Bellabubble
@Sallyjo27
@Ejb86
@Wishingfornumber2
@anaconda76
@AR52
@DontStandSoClose
@Donnat89
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@NightDreaming
@Saim86

If anyone else would like to join please do❤️

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VP91x · 18/06/2020 13:47

@MichT4 no luck with my lunchtime OPK yet and my daughter then decided to wee all over the sofa. So happy Thursday! 😂

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WellHurrahAndHuzzah · 18/06/2020 13:52

@IWM20 no we won't be going for an early scan....
Last time I was bleeding from 7 weeks, went for a scan at 8 and 10 weeks where everything looked fine, then at 12 weeks scan was told the pregnancy had ended at 11 weeks. So I don't think I'd find an early scan reassuring tbh... And I think the early ones almost got my hopes up too much last time. But it's different for every couple!

Are you thinking of having an early scan? Xx

littletandme · 18/06/2020 13:53

@HopeForRainbowbaby I was 7.5 weeks when I had an early scan so the heartbeat had stopped just a few days earlier, but didn’t miscarry naturally after 2 weeks so opted for MVA. The sac was continuing to grow so technically was 10 weeks by the time I had the surgery.

WellHurrahAndHuzzah · 18/06/2020 13:54

@1990EM due date twins!! Exciting!

MichT4 · 18/06/2020 13:55

@littletandme sorry to hear about your MC. Welcome to the group though. It’s a lovely place to be ☺️

@VP91x 😂😂😂 what a delightful afternoon you’re having. Another wee based activity. Did you not take an OPK yet or no darker?
I just did mine, looks darker than ever 🤷🏻‍♀️

WellHurrahAndHuzzah · 18/06/2020 13:55

@VP91x my booking appointment is in person, which I'm really glad about!

VP91x · 18/06/2020 13:55

@Renna when do you have the US booked in for? I hope it all goes okay xx

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VP91x · 18/06/2020 13:57

@MichT4 yeah I done it, it just wasn't any darker. Xx

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DBTJ · 18/06/2020 13:58

@littletandme Its good 2 c epu have been supportive. Have you decided if you want to start trying straight away.
I was also due in Dec then Jan however both MC and here iam.

Renna · 18/06/2020 14:09

@VP91x just realised I didnt say in my post when it's for! This is because my puppy was just sick !! She puked up a mini slug she must have just eaten on our lunch time walk !! Honestly this girl is sending me wild... I'm like a worried new mum and dont have a baby yet ! God knows what I'll be like when I finally have a bubba xx but US is tomorrow 1.40pm ... xx

SmileyT · 18/06/2020 14:15

@VP91x yeah I have the connected one, so just syncs from the holder and think it was cheaper per stick as you get 25 with each box 🙌🏾 only CD6 today but may start tomorrow if it doesn't give me any flashing smiles and ovulation is CD14/15 I won't bother using next month anyway as can just check with cheapies when it gets close. Think it's useful if cycle isn't regular but think it's a bit of a waste for me at the moment x

@MichT4 I totally get you about planning out your whole life I was exactly the same... id already planned the mat leave fun I was going to have with my friend who is due in a couple weeks and you do feel like your future has been swept away. But it will happen for us ☺️☺️

@Renna i always give up a bit pre-Af and then can't be arsed during my period but you've reminded me it does make me feel better so I'll get back on the meditation tonight. It does make me feel calm/ asleep 😂 good that they have you booked in and crazy that it's tomorrow, so soon, hope it goes well and AF stays away xx

Diorissimo1985 · 18/06/2020 14:18

@DBTJ I’m so sorry - I am the same as you, I was due 25 Dec and then 28 Jan. back to back miscarriage is so heart breaking.

I am just back from my acupuncture and @Renna you are right - the needles go in some crazy places! Tummy, forehead, ankles etc. Very relaxing but a bit strange feeling. Preferred the reflexology to be honest.
She said my yin and yang is unbalanced - I have no idea what that means but I totally agree 😂 xx

2020wish · 18/06/2020 14:22

Where are my testsssss ! Lol my amazon deliveries also come so early and all it’s saying is today before 9pm 😳

DBTJ · 18/06/2020 14:24

@Diorissimo1985 (Hugs all round) Have you had a period since then and do you have a feeling as to why your mc.

MichT4 · 18/06/2020 14:32

@2020wish maybe amazon is getting in on these chats and telling you not to test until Sunday 😂

@Diorissimo1985 I don’t need to go anywhere to be told my yin and yang are unbalanced 😂😂 might still have a look at these witchcrafts and see if I can get something booked.

mrsssk · 18/06/2020 14:46

I'll echo what @chloedancer897 has said.
Every time I feel rubbish I've come on this board for a pick me up. You're all honestly such amazing strong women, I pray we all get our BFPs soon.

Every time I have a good day I feel a bad one is lurking round the corner. Today started off well but just got a text off my cousin informing me she's due in October. So pleased for her but i had a massive wobble and a cry.
I'm the most impatient person at the best of times and TTC has really brought it out in full force!

Diorissimo1985 · 18/06/2020 14:49

@DBTJ no, no period either time. I think there might be an autoimmune issue linked to my rheumatoid arthritis but waiting on referral. How about you? X

DBTJ · 18/06/2020 14:51

Diorissimo1985 no formal test I've been told I have to have 3 MC then I will get a referral. I think I might have thin uterine lining but nothing official 😕

mrsssk · 18/06/2020 14:52

@Diorissimo1985 @MichT4 I don't think my yin and yang have ever met one another such is my imbalance 🤣

Was it relaxing? I might get myself booked in for some reflexology if it helps with chilling out a bit.
Or does anyone use any meditation apps they can recommend? X

MichT4 · 18/06/2020 14:54

Just to add to the love. This group is a real saviour! I’d love for us all to get our BFPs really soon, it would be so special to see this journey through with you all.
Thank you for keeping me sane, being my ears, your invaluable advice and making me laugh - every day. Wonderful group of ladies and I’m so happy I decided to stop lurking xxx 💕💕💕

Diorissimo1985 · 18/06/2020 15:14

@mrsssk yes super relaxing, I nearly fell asleep!

2020wish · 18/06/2020 15:15

@MichT4 hahah amazon just emailed to say delivery should be here before 4

I’ve just contacted two places for the acupuncture. Unfortunately they are closed at the min due to lockdown restrictions. Once they open it’s 45£ per session and it’s one session a week. Is that normal?

HopeForRainbowbaby · 18/06/2020 15:22

@MichT4 😘 lovely words
@2020wish I'm sure it will arrive soon! You do a sample of morning pee right?

HopeForRainbowbaby · 18/06/2020 15:28

@2020wish I made a typo, was missing "have". You do have a morning sample pee right ?

2020wish · 18/06/2020 15:28

@MichT4 so true ! I hope we all
Get our bfps and can continue this journey together!

@HopeForRainbowbaby yes I’ve saved a sample