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Any one else due AF 20/06?

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candycrush2298 · 10/06/2020 11:16

Trying to find others with a similar cycle to mine

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candycrush2298 · 13/06/2020 20:23

Oh yes only thing that has changed is now I am not only wet but I'm getting white streaks on my knickers. Thats it. Will check my CM when I go shower and check my cervix. But i haven't needed Dr Google at all for 2 days. I actually miss the torture 😆

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Sunnydays123456 · 13/06/2020 20:23

My last pregnancy (10 years ago !) I conceived on day 9 ( I know because it was a rare occurrence in those days!)

Kaybobx · 13/06/2020 20:33

Im currently sat with a hot water bottle on my lower back! No idea where this pain has came from but its not cool. I dont usually get it either.

My cervix has stayed high since ovulation. Id say it was pretty firm (not hard or soft) and feels a little bit open. I guess that means my AF is on her way!

candycrush2298 · 13/06/2020 21:25

@Sunnydays123456 wow how do you know for sure it was 9 days? What gave it away for you? Do you remember?

@Kaybobx agh backache is so annoying mine finally stopped its weird I dont know about you but for me I usually backache cramps all that jazz just a few days before AF. But my backache was like 4/5DPO which was just so damn weird. Oh well the body just likes to confuse us.

Hope you feel better soon though back ache is never fun.

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Sunnydays123456 · 13/06/2020 21:28

@candycrush2298 I do remember because it was the only time me and my exh dtd that month (we weren’t trying to conceive , just hadn’t sorted contraception after my second child !

Am hoping I get lucky with my new partner but worry am too old (tho regular cycles still , so who knows )

Kaybobx · 13/06/2020 21:32

How old is 'too old'? 😂

I never suffer with backache. I did go on a cycle ride 2 days ago so dont know if that is the reason but it not usually an AF symptom for me. Again probably imagining it

candycrush2298 · 13/06/2020 21:35

@Sunnydays123456 very interesting. Wishing you the best of luck how long have you and your partner been trying? These two weeks are killing me. Honestly. I am not sure how old you are but if you still having regular cycles I have my fingers crossed you will get your BFP and a healthy pregnancy!!

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Sunnydays123456 · 13/06/2020 21:51

@Kaybobx aham very old! 47 Grin

@candycrush2298
Had my coil out 9 months ago and had one positive test in that time
So weird to not get pregnant immediately as always conceived literally first time my other 4 pregnancies .. (my first accidentally using a condom..)

So yeah my cycles are still usually 24-26 days - actually dtd on day 9 this month so will see lol

Thanks for the good wishes ! Good luck to you all too x

Kaybobx · 13/06/2020 21:58

Ive been trying for probably 10-11 months now. I have a 2 year old little girl, probably took around 1 year to conceive her.

Im 35! No spring chicken either haha but i wouldn't say we are old. So you have 4 already? WoW!

I hope we all have some good luck this cycle....

Sunnydays123456 · 13/06/2020 22:02

@kay only 3 children though 4 pregnancies

I got pregnant at 36 with my last one ! God when I type that I think I must be mad thinking I can still do it 10 years later !

Good luck to you , lovely !

LittleBrownBaby · 14/06/2020 00:01

@MarmieP I am the same as you as I mc at 11 weeks in March and now somewhere in the TwW (who knows what is happening with my periods). Fingers crossed for us. I'm so sorry for what happened to you x

snapple21 · 14/06/2020 09:09

I'm feeling really negative this morning. Boobs have started to hurt a little and I feel really 'periody'- basically how I felt last month 5 days before AF.

candycrush2298 · 14/06/2020 09:47

I am so sorry for those of who miscarried I cannot imagine the heartache you must have felt.

@Sunnydays123456 @Kaybobx @snapple21 @LittleBrownBaby @MarmieP how's everyone doing today?

I just have low dull ache. Nothing else.

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Kaybobx · 14/06/2020 09:48

So so sorry for your losses ladies ☹

I'm with you @snapple21 feel like i do when she's on her way. My boobs are fine, just have period like cramps and backache

candycrush2298 · 14/06/2020 09:50

@snapple21 I know how you feel I had that total negative feeling 2/3 days ago but now (strangest thing) I am calm like I'm not stressing one way or the other. Are you still only going to test tomorrrow or do you think you will test today? Or not at all because of how you feeling?? Arrgh this TWW!! FX its not AF💜

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snapple21 · 14/06/2020 10:06

Just did an IC and it looks negative to me. I'm either 8 or 9 days po today.
I will mentally prepare myself for full cycle number two. I feel I know more after this cycle.

Sunnydays123456 · 14/06/2020 10:36

Hi all

I feel really period-y too - vague tummy ache , sore boobs , low mood

Hmmmmmmm how’s everyone else ? Just been for a run to lift my spirits !

Sunnydays123456 · 14/06/2020 10:37

@snapple21Flowers

Kaybobx · 14/06/2020 10:45

Im still going to test tomorrow 10DPO just as i have some cheap strips in the draw but not confident.

snapple21 · 14/06/2020 10:56

Sunny days hope it stays away for you too.

I hope we get some bfps in this group!

candycrush2298 · 14/06/2020 11:03

Seems like all of our confidence has dropped I know what all of you mean. Like I'm calm I just think I am not its almost like my mind has accepted it and we (body and mind) are just resigned to the fact that AF is coming and now we wait. Next month is a new month to try doesnt change the fact that I will still have the same disappointment or pity party tears when AF starts.

I am still hopeful that at least one of us will have a BFP. Not sure which one of us it is but as a minimum at least one of us to give the rest of us hope to keep going.

Its taking so long and sometimes its very difficult to keep positive.

I am with you @Kaybobx I will be testing tomorrow. Don't have any hope either but hey ho why not eh lets just do it for torture... erm I mean fun 😆

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snapple21 · 14/06/2020 11:11

Just attaching my chart for any thoughts. Do we think I ovulated on the 5th or 6th of june?

Any one else due AF 20/06?
Sunnydays123456 · 14/06/2020 11:51

Ooh @snapple21 I don’t know as I have never done one but do those peaks mean ovulation? X

MarmieP · 14/06/2020 11:52

@candycrush sorry for my delay in replying! I bought a clear blue early detection one and worked out that if I test no earlier than Thurs 18th I'll have a 99% chance of getting a true result whatever that may be. I don't know if I was imagining the pregnancy symptoms now as they seem to have gone. It's all I'm thinking about though and I can't help it!

@Littlebrownbaby

So sorry for your loss too, sending hugs to you. Life is rubbish sometimes but I'm staying hopeful that it WILL happen sooner or later

MarmieP · 14/06/2020 11:56

@candycrush I know what you mean, I'm thinking of it constantly but on the one hand it's like my brain is protecting me from the possibility of me not being pregnant by convincing myself that I'm not. Fingers cruised for all you lovely ladies, we're on the home stretch now, just a bit longer and we'll know for sure xx

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