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TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 2)

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VP91x · 09/06/2020 15:11

Hey lovelies ❤️

Just doing the new thread as the other is full will tag you all here - anyone else who wpuld like to join please do!

Little bit of background -
Cycle #3 TTC after MC in December
This month doing SMEP, tracking BBT and OV (CB advanced and Femometer strips), also drowning myself in grapefruit juice 😂 and will take Calc Fluor in TWW.

Sending everyone lots of luck 🤞

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4

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VP91x · 10/06/2020 18:41

@MichT4 yeah still flashy so day 2 now, that's not too bad. I'll still be here on day 10 😂.. Crying haha xx

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chloedancer897 · 10/06/2020 18:41

@MichT4 I don't think we've ever DTD this much 😂😂 I'm too old for this!

VP91x · 10/06/2020 18:44

@chloedancer897 ohhh there you go even better but you more likely ovulated on the Saturday so you would have been covered anyway. Stay positive for this month ❤️❤️

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SmileyT · 10/06/2020 18:44

@VP91x yeah was halfway between post ovulation temps and ovulation temp and I know it may seem negative but it's just better for me to focus on next month then hope the result was wrong... where did you get your fertilily cup from? Boots? What did your CB say today? x

@Ejb86 @Rainbowhope11 @Niisa @peonyrose87 @HopeForRainbowbaby @elliew818 @MichT4 @2020wish @HE88 thanks lovelies nice to be able to share with you guys when the whole process is so lonely. I think the cheapies would pick up something at 11/12dpo and will definitely be stocking up on some more goodies this month ☺️

@Hayleylou89 AF due on Friday and can feel it's not my month but I'm still positive it will happen for me... how are you feeling? X

@1990EM really hoping you get a different answer to me, everything crossed for you xx

@HopeForRainbowbaby I did have it in my head that 2 days before is the best time but can't remember where I read that so it's good to know 👌🏾

Congrats @WellHurrahAndHuzzah 🥳

chloedancer897 · 10/06/2020 18:51

@SmileyT are you tempted to test before Friday? Fingers crossed for you xo

WellHurrahAndHuzzah · 10/06/2020 18:57

@HopeForRainbowbaby we DTD every day that I got a flashing smiley (4 days in a row!) then again the day of the static smiley, then 2 days later. We were utterly exhausted at the end of all that Grin but seems to have done the trick!!!

As a bit of background, I got pregnant first time on cycle 9 or 10, then had a MMC. Waited a couple of months to start trying again, and this time it took maybe 5 cycles to conceive?

I have absolutely everything crossed for some more BFPs on this thread. Flowers

Rainbowhope11 · 10/06/2020 18:59

Hahaha @VP91x let's hope 😂😂🤣 I'm giving it two more days and then I think I'm calling it quits for this round 🤣 I feel like I may break into pieces at this rate🤣🤣

VP91x · 10/06/2020 19:00

@SmileyT I got it from here, because they had it on promo www.ardobreastpumps.co.uk/shop/ferti-lily-conception-cup/

No, it's not negative! It's actually probably the best way to just test at 12dpo and be at peace with that result and look forward. Have you been okay today?
CB flashed again which is okay! Testing alongside the cheapies now. DTD last night - thought to myself here I am again with a cup inside me and pillow under my bum 😂 xx

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VP91x · 10/06/2020 19:02

@Rainbowhope11 😂😂😂I'm not surprised!! What time is it for you at the moment over there? Xx

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elliew818 · 10/06/2020 19:03

@2020wish you are right, I'm just trying to talk myself down from symptom spotting. Although I do have all those things you mentioned but trying not to get my hopes up too much! Also I'd hold off aspirin until tomorrow to see what doc says but then I'd go ahead and take it after that because it is safe in pregnancy as far as I'm aware - someone correct me if I'm wrong though.
@MichT4 I know what you mean, I was really impatient getting my peak too, especially as this was first time using OPK so wasn't sure how well they'd work.
Welcome @bubblybon20 and sorry to you're finding yourself here after MC
@SmileyT yeah I did eat steak last night (cooked well done just in case which broke my heart a bit) so maybe that's the heartburn culprit!
@HopeForRainbowbaby I did have implantation bleed on my first MC which was unplanned - it was light but lasted about 4 days so thought I'd had a weird period because I'd not long been off the pill, so when I found out I was actually 10 weeks pregnant. Didn't have anything last 2 pregnancies though.

MichT4 · 10/06/2020 19:04

😂😂 @VP91x that made me laugh. What are your cheapies saying?

@chloedancer897 haha I’m surprised your OH didn’t say you’d better do a few more days to make sure 😜

MichT4 · 10/06/2020 19:07

@elliew818 it will just be nice to see the peak. Hopefully it will get my spirits up for a few days which will help with the start of the TWW too. It’s my first time with OPKs too, and as some of the girls have said they didn’t get their peak, in trying not to fret.

VP91x · 10/06/2020 19:08

@MichT4 haha, faint lines but mine went from nothing to massive peak with a few hours so, it will be the same I reckon this month.

@elliew818 ahh 😩 I love my steak rare-medium. Definitely heartbreaking to have it well done xx

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Rainbowhope11 · 10/06/2020 19:09

Congratulations @WellHurrahAndHuzzah 🎉🎉🎉💥 what beautiful news!

VP91x · 10/06/2020 19:12

Ladies, I have just had a wee, wiped and got EWCM so obviously checked inside and definitely more there!! Do you think I should DTD tonight? It's meant to be a non-SMEP day, but.... Xx

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chloedancer897 · 10/06/2020 19:18

@VP91x get practicing! 😊😊

peonyrose87 · 10/06/2020 19:20

@VP91x I'd definitely get on it!

Diorissimo1985 · 10/06/2020 19:41

Hello girls, I am finally rejoining from the May thread - had another miscarriage at 6+3 after last month’s BFP Sad wasn’t quite ready to come across but I’m feeling a bit brighter now. I’m still bleeding but hoping it settles soon and I can focus on June/July. Have a GP appointment on Friday to discuss things as I’ve had two successive miscarriages straight after one another - surely something must be up? So confused as I have a DD already so I know my body can carry to term Sad

So grateful to all you lovely lot back on the last thread for all the wonderful support and kind words - you are amazing warrior women and you have helped me more than you realise Smile xx

Right, off the RTFT from the beginning to catch up on everyone’s news... Grin xx

VP91x · 10/06/2020 19:43

@chloedancer897 @peonyrose87 going to have to grab him for a quickie before he starts his games night 👀

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2020wish · 10/06/2020 19:59

@Diorissimo1985 hi! Sorry to see you back with unpleasant news :( hope ur ok

Diorissimo1985 · 10/06/2020 20:09

Hi @2020wish - I’m better now thanks, have been so low the past few days but got to pick myself back up and start glugging the grapefruit juice again Grin
How are you doing? So sorry to see you here too (although it’s nice to see familiar names even though I wish you had your sticky bean already x)

HE88 · 10/06/2020 20:10

@Diorissimo1985 really sorry to see you back here. Xx

Wishingfornumber2 · 10/06/2020 20:14

Just catching up on today’s messages.
@WellHurrahAndHuzzah congratulations, that’s great news!
@HopeForRainbowbaby those stats are interesting, haven’t seen them before.
@SmileyT sorry it was a BFN. As the others have said hope you can treat yourself but not out until AF arrives.
@Diorissimo1985 So sorry to hear about your MC. Good to hear you have a GP appointment. Hopefully you can get some answers. Xx

2020wish · 10/06/2020 20:30

@Diorissimo1985 yea can’t believe I’m back here also myself. Had a tough month so I know how you feel. But yes it’s nice seeing familiar names. Fingers crossed this is out month x

MichT4 · 10/06/2020 20:31

Hey @Diorissimo1985. I’m so glad you’ve decided to join us and that you’re feeling a little brighter. Did you get your blood results today?

@VP91x we won’t expect to hear from you for a while 💦