June Bus Bitches Wine Puffy Afternoon Delight (Bus 6)

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9 BFPs so far;

@Runnergirl1
@slimshadycousin
@RiverRoo
@onnaturescourse
@picallilly19
@krk05
@little11
@whizzkids0812
@hogrider

And once you get your BFP you can join them on the grads bus - June Bus Graduates www.mumsnet.com/Talk/birth_clubs/3928965-June-Bus-Graduates

Still to test 🤞 ;

@bumdiggydiggybumdiggybum -
June 7th
@sarah1253 - June 7th (Tested 6th)
@catharinettc - June 8th (Tested 3rd/4th/5th)
@thegirlwholived - June 8th (Tested 29th)
@ttcmummy2021 - June 8th
@lucyrp - June 9th (Tested 5th)
@cocoblue22 - June 9th (Tested 31st/6th)
@watermelonwizard - June 9th
@firsttimetry - June 9th
@bic501 - June 9th
@SarahTTC2020 - June 9th
@katecolx - (Tested June 2nd/ June 6th)
@blodyn91 - (tested 6th)
@ttcgee - June 10th
@33carr - June 10th
@pandarific - June 10th
@smilyT - June 10th
@db20 - June 11th
@notyetamumbuttrying - June 11th
@clolo - June 11th
@pixielou16 - June 11th
@bear127 - June 11th
@unluckyducky - June 11th
@selina37 - June 12th
@juno231 - June 12th
@noble89 - June 12th
@clairey844 - June 12th
@Mococo1 - June 13th
@tinks123 - June 13th
@Franklydear - June 15th
@sjones2588 - June 15th
@ss123456 - June 15th
@newbie9 - June 17th
@LV1987 - June 18th
@peanutbutterbrownies - June 18th
@sweetshop2020 - June 20th
@sydgal22 - June 20th
@Jodi3 - June 20th
@dontgojasonwaterfalls - June 21st
@maybe333 - June 22nd
@skip86 - June 28th
@missgoldilocks - June 28th
@katao - June 30th
@vp91x - June 30th
@sausage1990 - July 1st
@lucie91 - July 2nd
@dkdk123 - July 4th
@amy00 - July 5th

@Mococo1 you can ring from 4 weeks I think but I was just asking when people were going to ring. I don't want to ring straight away as I feel stupid because its so early. I had my booking appointment at 6-7 weeks with my cp

@Cocoblue22 completely agree with you!! Although we'd all love to be getting our BFPs, it's so nice to know that we still have this group to go through the next cycle with 💕

@Mococo1 laughing at SMEP lecture 😂😂 honestly I can see the TTC info going in and out of my husbands ears 😂 he's so laid back it's insane, I might scare him with some SMEP info tonihht for my own entertainment.

@TTCgee congratulations what fab news 🥳

@Vil10 sending a big virtual hug that must have been so hard trying to keep a brave face on it. I'm sure your friend would have felt awful had she known you've been trying so hard to conceive.

It does suck that as a society we're not more open about TTC and MC so that we have a support system around us. Funny how we suck at sharing bad or hard news to those we know in real life but can pour our hearts out to complete strangers on here. I think I'd have gone crazy by now if it wasn't for here. Even if I dont get a chance to post much just catching up reading all your guys stories is comforting to know im not the only one struggling on this journey!

A question about CB digital ovulation strips. This is my first time using them and not just IC. I tried one when they arrived just to check how they worked. It was only CD4 so a circle as expected. Still at the tail end of my period today but on CD6 so decided to start from today as my cycle was off last month and I have a flashing smiley already. Is that normal? I was expecting a few days of the circle before my first flashing smiley. Now I'm gonna have to have messy period sex to make sure I'm not missing my window! How many days of flahsing do you guys typically have before a static?

My husband recently had his paternity changed and he gets a year full pay! And he's allowed to take it in up to 3 chunks over 2 years as well... I'm so jealous! Mine is decent too, 6 months full pay I believe so we are very fortunate if we can get pregnant

@watermelonwizard @Maybe333 such sad stories, I agree that sometimes it seems better to just tell people so at least they can sympathise if a MC happens

@lucyrp I thought I knew but it seems af has finished today so ovulation might be a bit earlier this cycle! I still have my 🤞🏼 for you for this cycle!

@Maybe333 aww that's lovely!! I hope that's the case with me and my friend!!

@Noble89 I love those names!! Love Harper too, that's on my list! I feel like my list will change though once I am actually preggers😂

@DKDK123 Thankyou❤️

@lucyrp you aren't being stupid at all if you ring at 4 weeks! Or even at 6/7weeks- Just do whatever you are comfortable with I would say..maybe just see how you feel? If u think you can wait then do that and if not just all earlier x

@DKDK123 I had a static smiley on CD5 after a blank on CD4 so I would ignore it but I did have sex just to cover it

@SarahTTC2020 omg wow! What do you and hubby do? I would lobe have a full year/even 6 months off full pay lol..I'm sure my body would agree n get me pregnant ASAP if that was the case hehe x

@lucyrp ring earlier than that as they're being quite slow with covid. My friend's first scan was a couple of weeks late and she got in touch with them week 4-5!

@Mococo1 he is at a pensions/investment company and I work for a bank. I was amazed at his as I thought he wouldnt be able to take it if I was also off - very inclusive policy! But also we can never leave until we've had kids 🤣

@watermelonwizard we are in the same position!

@Mococo1 yeah I just wondered if people were ringing straight away or leaving it I'm not really confident going for a booking appointment before 8 weeks as that's when I've been before. M

@Juno231 I was offered an emergency scan at 6 weeks last cycle so it should be okay

@DKDK123 I also had 4 days of blank from CD8 then 3 days of flashing and then my static on CD14

@sarahttc2020 of course never leave if you're happy and have your whole brood then think maybe think about it afterwards 🤣 how lovely working for a place that provides that! And also will be really amazing bonding time once you have your little one for all of you as a family ♥️♥️

Omg @TTCgee that's a stonker of a line there! Congrats lovely!!

@watermelonwizard and @Clairey844 sorry to hear about the BFNs and AF... Onwards and upwards for this cycle, you've got this!

Also LOVED the name chat last night. I didn't get to name my boys - my partner named the eldest and the mum named the youngest. He's a Kevin, which makes me chuckle as when she told us that's what she had named him we were like WHAT?! Now, I can't think of anything that suits him better 😂😂

@Juno231 I really like Hector - makes me think if the great great grandfather in Coco!

Soooooo I'm 4dpo today I believe... And I've got mega cramps in my lower back and bum. It's way to early for that to be a symptom, right?! 😂

@SarahTTC2020 my husband gets a year paid as well but only after having worked there two wears and he only started in April 😭. Should be good for DC2 though!

I'm not sure who said about resting heart rate but mine has been so low... like 50bmp (I started checking it the other day) so I'm not sure I'd say that's very important really?

Also my temp dipped a bit today too so I'm not sure that's major important if it dips a tiny bit?

@lucyrp I've already rang 😂😂 my apps are saying I'm 4+3 which seems madness as I thought I'd be like 1 week? I really don't understand much about it at all but the midwife said she'd ring next week to chat to me! Xx

Wow! I had an unintentional night off last night as we had friends round for a socially distanced BBQ. This thread was on page 6 when I last looked and now it’s at 31 😂

Congratulations to all the BFPs I’ve missed and sorry about all the AF arrivals. Hot baths and gins tonight 😘

I think I managed to remember baby names was spoken about, here are our first boy and girl names. Roman and Myla (some argument about the spelling)!

I’m currently 4dpo too @LV1987 but thought it was just bad posture and gas! Maybe it’s not 🤞🏼✨

@lv1987 oh I’m 4DPO too and I’ve zerooo symptoms, I’m actually DETERMINED not to symptom spot but I know I’ll be keeping an eye as to how you’re getting on too! I’ve never been more convinced that I’m not pregnant tho 😂

@TTCgee yeah I saw on the grad bus that you had that's why I asked 🙈🙈 I just couldn't do it so early. I left it until 6 weeks with my CP because I couldn't bear to ring them back and say oh sorry false alarm and that actually happened anyway 🙈 yeah they count the weeks from the date of the first day of your last period!

@SarahTTC2020 just saw your second bit about jobs and I work at an asset manager and my husband at an investment bank so we're kinda the opposite of you!

@lucyrp cool that's a quick turnaround! Very good though - I dread to think what the waiting periods are like here in east london!

@TTCgee thank you, @SmileyT @Juno231 and I have been tracking rhr... On the other thread there's loads of examples where it rises, then drops rapidly couple of days before AF so it's good to hear an example of where yours has stated low and you got a bfp

@J0DI3 and @Sydgal22 oooooh, cycle buddies! I came off the pill early December, had my withdrawal bleed a few days later, and then a mammoth 47 day cycle! This is cycle 5 for me, and the first one that I've seen a peak OPK... I've literally been going in blind since December as I was never getting a peak, which was sooooo frustrating! I'm looking forward to hearing how you both get on ❤️

Looks like we are out as wifey has started bleeding this morning. So down as it felt so hopeful with all the signs/symptoms 🥺 x

@TTCgee thank you for the RHR update!! That gives me hope :)

I broke and tested with a cheapie this morning despite only being 9 DPO lol. Obv a stark white BFN. Wasn't even gonna mention it as it was such a casual POAS check! I don't have high hopes for this cycle though :(

Aw some lovely BFP's from you ladies, biggest congratulations 🥰

Well af got me a day early last night 😞 so I'm gonna wait on a July bus popping up. Love reading all you comments (if I can keep up) hoping for some more BFP's on this thread for you ladies xx

@LV1987 @J0DI3 glad we’re all around the same time! I came off the pill in March and cycles have been pretty regular since. This is cycle 3 in that case! I tracked with OPKs this month too and got my peak but just not feeling hopeful :/

@TTCmummy2021 I’m so sorry to hear :( was really feeling positive for you, hope you’re ok x