June Bus Bitches Drink TIL it's Pink (Bus 4)

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Congrats again to our first two BFPs @RiverRoo and @slimshadycousin ❤️

And good luck to all those still to test 🤞🥂

@kate890 - May 30th?
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@Minster2012 I'm not blowing smoke up your arse when I say I think you are a fucking rockstar, with everything you've been through you are literally smashing life and it's amazing you manage to stay so positive most of the time. Don't beat yourself up for having a low day, after having a MC I would just lay on the floor and cry sometimes and I don't have a little person completely dependent on me. Take some time to yourself when LO is asleep and just let yourself feel how you feel, sending you so much love 💕

Welcome @MURU so sorry for your loss, I also had a MC from a surprise pregnancy this year (in March) and went from 0 to 100 with TTC, hope you get your rainbow soon xx

@Newbie0818 I'm such a geek and love finding out more about what our bodies do, I'm currently 2dpo and just waiting...

@Sarah1253 I think 4 days early is fine, probably 12dpo is where you get a nice line but we understand how long the 2nd week of the TWW is... with CB I just think that grey of an evap line looks so similar to blue which is why people love the FRERs if testing early, I've got CB in my drawer though ☺️ xx

Never too late to join @Mcbee26 ❤️

Thank you! Looking forward to all the banter 🤟🏻 Xx

@lucyrp I’m sure you’ll get them soon, but a lot of women don’t actually get symptoms, I was speaking to my friend today and she was saying she didn’t even test until the week after her missed af and she had no symptoms until 12/14 weeks and she felt a bit sick and that’s it!

@Cocoblue22 @unluckyducky I really hope it is a good sign and it is my month! Thankyou ladies!!

@Minster2012 don’t be so hard on yourself woman!! I know that’s so much more easier said than done but you seem like an absolute star and an amazing mummy, everyone has their down days but keep your head up and keep marching on, and don’t apologise for ranting in here, isn’t that what this group is for? Bitching about partners, problems and speaking of our raunchy sex lives!! Sending you a big hug and hope you’re feeling better tomorrow❤️

@Vil10 last cycle when I had my CP I tested the day before AF was due but I don't think I actually had any symptoms until the week after so would make me 5 weeks 🤷🏼‍♀️

@lucyrp my DS was ok in the house too exactly the same came home wet every day. Then at around age 5 wouldn’t poo on the toilet any more 🤷🏼‍♀️ And would hold it in for days then hide somewhere to do it. I was worried SICK he would never be out of nappies/pull ups and my mum said ‘listen, you don’t see many ten year olds in nappies do you?!’ Thinking about it though .... you don’t actually know that do you... well it made me feel better at the time!!!! Boys!!

@lucyrp exactly, don’t worry yourself, every woman is different!!xx

Needing someone to remind us why we shouldn’t test at 7DPO!!! The urge is strong 😬🤣

@watermelonwizard I feel like he's having so much fun in school with his friends or learning he doesn't want to miss anything so waits until the last possible moment and then ends up doing it on the way! He wears pull ups to bed still and I best myself up about it too but my mum said the same. And also he still has cows milk before bed so it's hard to get him to go to the loo after he's had that as thag normally sends him off to sleep. Need to wake him up really to go to the loo when we go to bed but who wants to wake up a sleeping child ?!

@TTCmummy2021 I got BFN 7dpo this morning! Don't do it 😂

I know @lucyrp!!!! Resist resist resist 🤣😳

Not ordering tests until Saturday, arrive Sunday afternoon = Monday morning.

Need strength not to this month as we really feel this is it!!!

@Minster2012 - you are amazing!! Sorry I didn’t reply. These threads move the speed of lightening but I found you eventually. Thank you so much for sharing and what a star you are xx

@Sarah1253 I’m 28, technically on cycle 2 (didn’t really know what we were doing last month) CD29, trying for our first 😊 I came off the pill after 11 years in January and I’ve had some long cycles (40-39 days), last cycle I ovulated on CD21 but my cycle was only 29 days 🤯. I’m currently 2DPO and ovulated on CD26. I have everything crossed for a long cycle again (obviously would prefer the BFP though 😂) What about you? Are you using any ovulation kits or just the apps? My apps are massively out with their predictions but that’s probably because my cycles haven’t regulated yet 🙈

@Minster2012 You are amazing. Your positive attitude towards life despite what you’ve been through is inspiring. You are also allowed a shit day to just feel like shit. You’re human! Potty training sounds so hard but you’ve got this! I teach reception currently and I haven’t had a single child start school still in nappies/pull ups, he’ll get there eventually as frustrating as it may seem at the moment 💕

Thank you ladies, thank you so much 😍💕I hope you are right. Today we didn’t have a dog eat his poo, so not all bad. HOWEVER, that was prob because he didn’t poo, sooooo that means a shit storm tomorrow & the comedy act of me chasing child, chasing one dog, whilst the other dog eats his 💩🤦🏼‍♀️You can all tune in for that one! 😂

muchos love I am having a wallow, well actually I’m having some galaxy chocolate actually mmmmmm & busy googling AF symptoms 🤔

@TTCmummy2021 DON’T ORDER THE TESTS (sets a reminder everyday to remind @TTCmummy2021 NOT to even ORDER the tests!) the signs are good for your Mrs, you’ve got more time obsessing first 🤣

Hello to the newbies! Sorry for the downhearted post first I’m usually all ass shaking & will be tomorrow if AF isn’t here...

Mind you, DH is busy telling me the latest TikTok antics of Christine mcguiness (he hates her) & how my boobs are better 😇

@Minster2012 you poor thing, sounds like you need a little me time.

@TTCmummy2021 you mustresist the urge 😂

Are you supposed to get wet after ovulation or dry up ?🤔

Hehehe thanks ladies!! We’ve been through this many times so we are distracting ourselves with as much as possible. Work today helped but it’s the evenings that are the killers!!

I think it’s worse this time because there’s SO many symptoms and we just wanna knoooooow 🤦‍♀️

Also worried as I just got OH to feel where my cervix was and if it was soft or hard and he said it was closed and soft which means a good thing but also he knows nothing about what he's looking for so means nothing 🤣🤣 now I'm worried he's poked me too much 😂

@Minster2012 I thought your AF wasn’t due until 14th? Surely can’t be two weeks early? How old is your DS? It’s normal to feel how you do after seeing the baby. And you’re not doing a bad job with your son you are doing your very best but toddlers are damn stubborn and also bat shit crazy! I read that once and it made me laugh! Maybe take a break from the potty training and just come back to it when you’re both a bit more ready? You have a lot on emotionally atm so maybe it’s not the best time to tackle the potty training? Hope you feel more positive TMZ xx

@Sarah1253 👍🏻 Be sure to update us hopefully a BFP coming your way soon 🤞🏻 X

I’m still in a proper cba mood did eventually get up and cook dinner but we’re meant to be DTD tonight but I really cba so going to postpone until TMZ we’re both exhausted!! Night night ladies I’ll catch up in the morning! X

@lucyrp I got my OH to feel for my cervix last month and honestly it was the funniest thing - I can't even tell if my own cervix is open or closed so not sure how I expected him to, hope Mr Fantastic Fucking washed his hands first 😛 Post ovulation your CM should start to dry out, so be stickier but should still feel moist as progesterone is released and that peaks about 7dpo and then will start to dry out completely a few days before your period or you should get moister than an oyster as my OH says if you are up the duff 😉 but obviously as with everything in this TTC headfuck our bodies do whatever the hell they want xx

I'm late to this bus, I didn't realise we had moved over! I'm sat talking to myself in the other one 😂 need some advice/suggestions on what to do... I got some IC (one step cassette ones) and got a super faint positive this morning with first pee so done another one as I didn't believe it and it was negative. The third one (because I like to literally piss away money) was a faint postive again but even fainter. Confused I looked at the reviews on amazon and apparently these tests are bad for evap lines so I took it as BFN. But because I like to torture myself I tested again tonight after holding pee for 4 hours or so, and it was another positive - even the Fermometer app picked it up although still faint. Done another one with the same pot and its bloody negative.

Before I go batshit crazy... Tell me, what would you do? March to the shop to buy a First Response, wait it out until AF due date, or test again in AM.

I'll be disappointed if its negative, but I'd rather know now than wait in hope until AF arrives on Friday.

@SmileyT I actually hate touching my cervix it feels so weird poking it 🤢creeps me right out so I asked him to have a go not sure why as it means nothing Whag he's said 😂 of course he washed his hands, don't want dirty hands up there 🤢😂 I had like two dry days after ovulation where I was like the Sahara desert but I've been feeling it getting wetter over the last couple of days 🤷🏼‍♀️ literally 😂xx

@lucyrp @SmileyT so in this stage of the TWW can the position and how the cervix feels determine whether you’re preggers or not??