50 shades darker #pumpanddump (June Bus 3)

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On to a new bus... hopefully loads of BFPs to come 🙌🏾

@TheGirlWhoLived - May 28th 🤞
@Skip86 - June 1st
@RiverRoo - June 1st
@Runnergirl1 - June 2nd
@slimshadycousin - June 2nd
@LittleRa - June 3rd
@Amy00 - June 3rd
@lucyrp - June 4th
@Ltay2 - June 4th
@KateColx - June 4th
@katao - June 4th
@OnNaturesCourse - June 5th
@blodyn91 - June 6th
@Vil10 - June 6th
@KRK05 - June 7th
@TTCgee - June 8th
@Cocoblue22 - June 9th
@watermelonwizard - June 9th
@Juno231 - June 9th
@Minster2012 - June 10th
@33Carr - June 10th
@notyetamumbuttrying - June 11th
@Pixielou16 - June 11th
@smileyT - June 11th
@Bear127 - June 11th
@unluckyducky - June 11th
@sarahttc2020 - June 11th
@notyetanumbuttrying - June 12th
@Noble89 - June 12th
@Mococo1 - June 13th
@Franklydear - June 15th
@J0DI3 - June 15th
@DontgoJasonWaterfalls - June 21st
@LV1987 - June 21st
@firsttimetry
@Sausage1990

So my nose is extra sensitive this morning, gave the toilet a quick clean with the loo brush no bleach or anything and my nose is burning from the smell of urine 🤢

@Cocoblue22 yay for joining the al fresco sex bus!! You go girl!!

Sounds like lots of us had a great night last night!

@Sydgal22 @watermelonwizard @TheGirlWhoLived my hangover cure is lucozade lite & my migraine tablets & they work a treat 👌🏻 But I also always drink a lot of water throughout the drinking sesh anyway, I had a fair amount last night & am A OK, not wanting to boast (but will!) 😋

@Watermelonlizard into the next step the TWW exciting!! 🙌🏻

@Kate890 that sounds ultra frustrating for you on the BFNs & yet spotting, are you going to wait for AF then now?

@cocoblue22 I was like that similar to @bear127 I had 12 days of flashing smiles but I stopped testing & carried on with the ICs & ive never seen a high /peak on either so I’ve given up testing either now. I’m on CD28 & ive just been making sure we’ve been DTD every other day at least & will wait for AF but seeing as I know my fertility isn’t great it’s likely I’m not actually ovulating so I would prob continue to test for a few more days same as bear xxx

Or maybe test in the evening @Cocoblue22?

@watermelonwizard I was thinking the 11th too if AF doesn’t get me first! We’d be 12DPO by then wouldn’t we? Happy to hear there are the two of you to ride out the TWW with! ( @SmileyT ) 😊 I didn’t have any ov pains. I haven’t been tracking CM but I did have EWCM around ovulation day so 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Kate890 don’t worry you might not be out yet! Wait and see if af turns up!

So I had a lovely surprise this morning, bent down the pluck the hoover charger in and OH came home behind me with the whole boob grab, neck kisses, ended up being bent over the breakfast bar, again, not complaining though!!

@Cocoblue22 @Minster2012 I was testing every time I peed (roughly every 4-5 hours) and I could see my ICs creeping up in the evening before. The following morning I got my static and carried on testing using ICs throughout the day and each time the line got stronger until I peaked around 6pm. By 1am just before I went to bed they were already on the decline and by ovulation day morning my ICs were back to low/v.faint line.

@Minster2012 I’m still keeping an eye on your posts just in case! But like you’ve said you’ve been DTD enough to be covered so 🤞🏻

@Cocoblue22 preparation is key!!! Love it!

@Minster2012 boring thing to mention but also a sufferer of migraines, are you on meds for them? I’m on propranolol daily and have sumatriptan and they are life savers and I am dreading not being allowed to take them if pregnant!

@Bear127 yeah 11 or 12 seeing as I don’t know exactly what day! I just have a frer to use but would rather a definitive line I think 🤷🏼‍♀️ Depending if AF comes first obviously . I also have a normal test for later if need be. 🤞🏼

@lucyrp sounds promising !!! 👃

@watermelonwizard I see you mentioning your ov pains previously, do you usually get them? I’m very interested to use opks this month to see does ovulation line up with pains etc, from reading online it’s hard to get a definitive answer as to whether the pains happen before, during or after ov. Mine are worse than period pain but only for 24 hours

@notyetamumbuttrying @Bear127 @Cocoblue22 @Minster2012 @Vil10
Thanks so much for the advice, if af doesn’t come fully today or tomorrow I’ll test again! It just don’t feel like it’s my af but that could just be me not wanting it to be 🙄 xx

Can I just say that this is the best TTC bus ever, yes it's stressful but fuck me it makes it go quicker and with so many more laughs hearing about al fresco banging, sex toys, throwing up in Uber eats bags and generally just being normal women rather than only talking about our desire to be baby hotels - @Skip86 how posh are you with 2 homes and I'm glad I made you chuckle today tbh I am fucking hilarious 💁🏾‍♀️💁🏾‍♀️

@Bear127 @watermelonwizard we are the 1dpo squad (I think mine was Friday night/ early sat morning), all testing on the 11th along with 4. Other ladies✌🏾

@Kate890 all sounding positive if you don't normally get spotting could be a good thing, just keep testing - remember that ovulation date is never confirmed exactly so you may be a day off and some people have a slower hcg rise, keep us updated with how you get on xx

@@Sydgal22 hope you get a good nights sleep and you and OH are ready to smash this fertile window ☺️

@MrsDh2019 it definitely sounds like a Chemical Pregnancy to me and the 111 team have actually confused things with their comments as you have already had negative tests so you know that the pregnancy didnt continue. Sending you so much love, please look after yourself, hope the bleeding has stopped now so that you can focus on another cycle, are you using opks to check when you ovulate again? ❤️

I reckon we'll need a new bus by Tomorrow night (4th bus on the 1st June 😛)... anyone have any name ideas?

@SmileyT I'm sure someone suggested "afternoon delight" as the new bus name as their OH had called sex that one day this week can't remember who tho ?!😂

@Minster2012 I think I’ll just carry on in the Mornings for now and tbf I’m using and old box of sticks that I didn’t use three years ago so they are well out of date so maybe just haven't worked right and I possibly have ovulated! Too many variables this month to know! I’m just gonna do as you say and make sure we continue to DTD at least every other day and hope for the best!! X

Based on my cycle from last time (3years ago) I could potentially be 3 days po but who knows 🤷🏼‍♀️ I was getting twinges yesterday tho on my left side so it could of even happened earlier I could be anywhere from 0-7 days PO! So confusing!

@Bear127 does sound like I could of potentially missed it this cycle and not realised! X

@SmileyT 100% agree I’ve really enjoyed chatting to all you lovely ladies on here! X

Aww what a lovely message to come on to this morning, congratulations @RiverRoo 🥰💛 Lets hope it's the start of many BFPs on here x

Thank you @smileyt for the info re the heart rate. It's normally at about 64, when I woke up this morning it was beating at 95 bpm as soon as opened my eyes! I also tried hubby's watch just to make sure it's not the watch an it's doing the same thing.

Another BFN this morning for me, this time on a FRER so feels more real. Was hoping I might see something on there. So I'm currently 10dpo and due AF on Friday. Hoping it's still a little too early Cos heart rate is keeping my hopes up !

@SmileyT #junebusbitches or al fresco DTD crew?

I love this bus!!

Everything crossed @KateColx!!
Couldn't agree more @SmileyT such a funny bus I love it! It's authentic isn't it. Goes super quick tho, if I'm not having a 'phone day' I'm screwed with keeping up lol 😂

@Sydgal22 I’d say I get them maybe half the time, maybe a bit less, I never usually pay attention to them!! This time I had my peak on CB then BANG the pain hit! It was worse than normal this month, I was bent over double all day (and night but for a diff reason 😉🤣) I’m assuming they happen during for me! It was interesting to see cos sometimes I’d be like ooh I’ve got a stitch and wonder if it was ov pains, now I KNOW!

Woo to the 1dpo crew! Roll on the 11th 🤞🏼

Sunday mornings done right 🤩

@notyetamumbuttrying I know what you mean I'm going to meet a friend in the park and i wonder how many messages I'll come back to 😂

Yes @lucyrp @Minster2012 both great names, we'll have several more busses I'm sure so we'll just pick one and use another for the next one 👍

@kirsty0028 yeah I wouldn't worry too much about the HR when you wake up that won't be a true resting heart rate it's taken when you're in your deepest sleep I think, but if you check it everyday and it's higher than normal that's a good sign. Mine always creeps up towards AF but the month I was pregnant it just kept going up and I noticed I would get breathless really easy but that was probably about 6weeks (28dpo) xx

I don’t know if I have AF cramps now this is the super weird thing for me now! Cos I haven’t had a period in like a MILLION years I’ve got no idea what is ‘normal’ for me!! So here’s me listening to all your twinges & cramps & symptoms thinking hmmmm 🤔I wonder if that pain I had was OV or cramp or wind of Cos I’d actually done some exercise?? 😂 or was that creamy CM or DH’s deposit from yesterday?? Or that weird ick feeling is that Cos that fish was off?? (It was off!)

I’m loving hearing your symptoms & thoughts! & how you could ALL be either 10dpo or 5 by the sounds of it!!

@Skip86 so pleased you are feeling more optimistic, you still gonna wait till 1st to POAS??

@SmileyT ya defo it's still at 95 now which is so weird Cos it's at 67 normally is my rhr. Does anyone know the statistics of getting a positive if you tested negative at 10dpo. Feeling a bit disheartened, I'm not used to this so not sure if it basically means I'm out at this point or weather it's still up in the air x

Oooo quite like June afternoon delight for a title!
Or drink til pink?? @SmileyT

@RiverRoo congratulations!! Hoping the June bus is lucky for us all!

@MrsDh2019 so sorry for what you're going through right now.. I know its a pretty shit time. Almost the same thing happened me and both my SiL on both sides announced pregnancies as well as my best friend all within the same month of our MC. I found that very tough, and also be prepared for feelings sad when their little bundles came along - I was actually pregnant (again) with my 1st thankfully by the stage they were having their DC but could help feeling like it was unfair that they all had theirs and I still had to wait a few more months even though I would have been first without the MC. Sounds petty now but at the time I couldn't help my emotions and still feel guilty about it now. On a positive note though, I fell pregnant the month from my MC (approx 6 weeks) bleed, I couldn't it as AF and continued as normal. Drs said to wait a month in between so that I could be sure about dates etc but a lovely wee lady at the EPU clinic told me that's only to make it easy for the Drs and for me to do what's right for me. Well it seems you may actually be more fertile the month after MC and although it wasn't a pleasant experience I am so thankful for my DD now, she wouldn't be here had I not had that before. Sorry for rambling on! Just brought back a lot x

@TTCmumny2021 I'm so intrigued by your story.. Care to share more? Are you doing insem yourselves? I'm fascinated by that.
My friend and her wife were able to have donor sperm on the NHS and they had their first little boy (her wife carried him this time) and when they're ready they are hoping to have my friend carry their next if they are able.

Fingers crossed for everyone this month! I'm not testing until 22nd June so a long way to go yet! 🤣

AF cramps started today which means it's on the way for me (obviously wasn't expecting anything else 🤣). Enjoying the sunshine in the garden with my fizzy vimto... I know living the dream 🙄 ordered my supplements ready for next cycle so ready to go!