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50 shades darker #pumpanddump (June Bus 3)

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SmileyT · 27/05/2020 22:23

On to a new bus... hopefully loads of BFPs to come 🙌🏾

@TheGirlWhoLived - May 28th 🤞
@Skip86 - June 1st
@RiverRoo - June 1st
@Runnergirl1 - June 2nd
@slimshadycousin - June 2nd
@LittleRa - June 3rd
@Amy00 - June 3rd
@lucyrp - June 4th
@Ltay2 - June 4th
@KateColx - June 4th
@katao - June 4th
@OnNaturesCourse - June 5th
@blodyn91 - June 6th
@Vil10 - June 6th
@KRK05 - June 7th
@TTCgee - June 8th
@Cocoblue22 - June 9th
@watermelonwizard - June 9th
@Juno231 - June 9th
@Minster2012 - June 10th
@33Carr - June 10th
@notyetamumbuttrying - June 11th
@Pixielou16 - June 11th
@smileyT - June 11th
@Bear127 - June 11th
@unluckyducky - June 11th
@sarahttc2020 - June 11th
@notyetanumbuttrying - June 12th
@Noble89 - June 12th
@Mococo1 - June 13th
@Franklydear - June 15th
@J0DI3 - June 15th
@DontgoJasonWaterfalls - June 21st
@LV1987 - June 21st
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lucyrp · 31/05/2020 07:22

@Skip86 sounds like you're paying for your evening of fun last night 😂🙈 that bullet looks great doesn't it! And it charges through usb so looks even less like a bullet🤷🏼‍♀️😂

lucyrp · 31/05/2020 07:23

CD22 for me today, could be 11dpo or 6dpo or somewhere in between 😂 trying to be relaxed about testing but it is now starting to burn a hole in my cupboard and I have already weed this morning so can't test today😭😂

MrsDh2019 · 31/05/2020 07:24

Morning @Minster2012 and @SmileyT sorry easier to reply to you both together I get lost in this thread sometimes and your questions were both similar. Well the doctor on the phone at 111 said it sounds like a miscarriage and just to wait it out, but a very small number of cases can go on to be a healthy pregnancy. I haven’t re taken a test because I know they can show positive even with a miscarriage but for now the bleeding has stopped.
I only had a positive test a few weeks ago when I was 10dpo... they were all coming out really light and messing with my head. Then 2/3 days later I was testing again and all of them were negative so at that point I was just thinking I’m having a missed miscarriage and awaited my period and AF came very heavy that month so I assumed yep that’s it! Then it stopped after 7 days, went back to regular discharge just coming up to my fertile window now and I’ve started bleeding again just randomly yesterday. I highly doubt I’m still pregnant I have accepted that it’s a miscarriage and I’ll just go from there really. The early pregnancy unit isn’t seeing many patients at the moment and 111 just advised that if I wanted to I could go to my gp and have blood tests done a few days apart to check my levels but my gp are so awkward about allowing you to have blood tests I’m wasting my time there 😫Xx

TheGirlWhoLived · 31/05/2020 07:26

Fab news @RiverRoo! Hopefully the start of a very positive bus!

Amy00 · 31/05/2020 07:34

@RiverRoo Ahhh congratulations lovely!!! 🥰

@Skip86 😂😂 hope you feel better soon! Sounds positive re cramps etc!

@MrsDh2019 so sorry to hear about your MC. 😞 is totally shit. When I had my CP a year ago the advise was to wait until I got a negative hpt test before trying again as that's the way to confirm it is all out of your system. But it is soul destroying if you see a positive in that situation.

Minster2012 · 31/05/2020 07:41

@Skip86 OMG I just laughed so much whilst in bed I woke up DH!! At the vom in your Uber ears bag!! So glad you had a great time celebrating!!

@TTCmummy2021 That makes sense! 🤞🏻It def sounds very positive for you guys let’s hope it’s great news! We needed a surrogate as I was on chemo for skin cancer for about 9 years but totally stable with no tumours for over 3 but if I stopped my life saving treatment I would have lost it on the NHS & my best mate had said at my hen party “I’m good at carrying babies, I’ll carry your babies if you need it!” And then after many many more conversations in secret a year later we were at the IVF centre in secret impregnating her with our embryo. Bizarre but amazing! I’ve now stopped my treatment, I had IVF in Feb with another our embryos which resulted in MMC & before we can do that again we might as well stay busy shagging!! But we know my egg reserves are vv low from all my chemo so there’s v little hope of TTC naturally so I’m here for the shits & giggles mainly & support each time AF comes!

@MrsDh2019 yes that does sound like a MMC then I’d ride it out but keep trying xx

lucyrp · 31/05/2020 07:41

@Cocoblue22 did you manage any alfresco sex after last night or not ??😉

@SmileyT I'm glad someone could manage 3 times in such a short space too 😂

Cocoblue22 · 31/05/2020 07:54

@Skip86 I feel that a bit too much wine for me last night and DS woke up at 4.50 🤮 x

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TheGirlWhoLived · 31/05/2020 08:11

Sorry to those feeling rough- I will join the club though- drank until 2/3 am. Dd2 woke me up with a nosebleed before 7 🥴

MrsDh2019 · 31/05/2020 08:14

@Amy00 @Minster2012 @Cocoblue22 I have taken a test this morning just to make sure and everything and it was completely negative! Like you’ve said I’m just going to ride it out - not a lot else I can do! ❤️
@RiverRoo congratulations that’s wonderful news btw ❤️😊 x

watermelonwizard · 31/05/2020 08:26

Congratulations @RiverRoo !!!

To all those with hangovers. Berocca or orange juice are your friends xx

I am officially entering my TWW .... must not google symptoms ..... !

Looking forward to everyone’s tests!

Vil10 · 31/05/2020 08:27

@MrsDh2019 so sorry to hear about what you’re going through, life can be so shit and cruel at times!x

MrsDh2019 · 31/05/2020 08:34

Thanks @vil10 I know 😫 I just hope it’s all over soon and I can just move on from it all x

Sydgal22 · 31/05/2020 08:40

@watermelonwizard usually orange juice is good but couldn’t keep it down this morning :(

So tomorrow according to flo app is the 1st day of my FW, it’s the 1st of June, 1st day of a new week and the 1st day of winter here! Does anyone else look for signs or things that nicely line up as a positive?! Here’s to a great positive June bus!!

notyetamumbuttrying · 31/05/2020 08:48

Morning my lovelies, just catching up on all the going on's 😌

Congrats @RiverRoo that's amazing news! All the best for the weeks ahead 😘

Hope you gave them a good show @Mococo1😉

Glad to hear you celebrated in style @Skip86! 😏 good luck for tomorrow!!

Glad you got to the bottom of that headache @Franklydear and you've got tablets to help with things.

So sorry to hear @MrsDh2019! Can you change your GP so that you can get bloods done? That's shit they're not very helpful!

Kate890 · 31/05/2020 08:49

Sorry haven’t been on lately as last Thursday I though af arrived and was struggling with the whole ttc and was feeling so shit in myself!
So 5dpo, I start pink spotting, turned brown and stopped. At 9dpo i got bfn and later that day, I saw red blood once on wiping (hence I though af), Friday then nothing, Saturday some tiny brown spotting with tiny bit of red, today I’m 12dpo and nothing! Done another frer this morning and bfn! Have been feeling sick on/off, boobs still very sore (happens before af always anyway but goes away when it comes). Am I driving myself mad thinking I still could be?? I just want to either know, or af to come fully! I done random ic hpts throughout this time too and all neg! I’m cd31 today, normally between 29-31 days. So much spotting that I never get!! 🙈🤯 driving me mad!

notyetamumbuttrying · 31/05/2020 08:49

Yes I do @Sydgal22 that all sounds amazing!! I hope it means something. Enjoy all the sexing this week then!

Kate890 · 31/05/2020 08:50

@RiverRoo Huge congrats 🥰 xx

notyetamumbuttrying · 31/05/2020 08:52

Ooh @Kate890 that sounds like IB and I don't think you're out at all! Hcg takes 48 hours to build up so if you can, hold off for two days and test with FMU. Remember that you might not get a bfp until after Af date is gone. Good luck!!

Bear127 · 31/05/2020 08:54

@Cocoblue22 I’m loving the alfresco experience! 😂 I mentioned it to my OH and he’s really not keen on any outdoor banging! I’ll keep working on him 😉 Also I had 2 weeks of high oestrogen before getting a static and peak on my ICs so don’t give up just yet if you’re a long cycler like me! I got my static on CD26 and I’m now CD28 1DPO x

@Skip86 By the sounds of that hangover you’ve had a great day 😂 Keep necking that water, you’ll ride it out in no time!

@watermelonwizard did you ovulate yesterday too? I’m 1DPO

watermelonwizard · 31/05/2020 09:01

I had my static smile on CB Friday morning, and badddd ov pains Friday, so either Friday or yesterday! I am planning on testing on the 11th! When are you planning to?! I know @SmileyT is at the same stage too!

watermelonwizard · 31/05/2020 09:02

@Bear127 sorry forgot to @ you in the previous message ⬆️⬆️⬆️

Bear127 · 31/05/2020 09:03

@Kate890 You could have had late implantation and don’t have enough HCG in your system yet? Maybe test again in another 48hrs if your period doesn’t arrive x

Cocoblue22 · 31/05/2020 09:04

@TheGirlWhoLived welcome to the hungover club haha!! X

@MrsDh2019 it is awful you had to go through that but I feel that good things are round the corner for you 🤞🏻 You get your BFP quickly x

@watermelonwizard luckily we had a bottle of Fanta in the fridge for such an occasion! I think I feel more sleep deprived than anything!! X

@Kate890 that sounds so confusing!! I think you're still in with a Chance maybe test again TMZ and see what happens? It’s so frustrating the waiting and thinking am I aren’t I x

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