Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3

983 replies

Annny27 · 17/05/2020 22:55

Setting up this new thread for all the lovely ladies who have been on the ttc after miscarriage journey. And also all the ladies who have had their bfps but still want to stay in touch:)

Will post this in the existing chat :D

OP posts:
Thread gallery
72
Nuggetlover27 · 06/07/2020 08:01

@Annny27 😂 that is too funny ! Sounds like it may be a long WW for you this month. Sounds like you covered it as well as you could 🤞🏻
I'm in the south east too and I couldn't believe the photos from London 😕 so glad I stayed away

SunnySideUp2020 · 06/07/2020 09:36

Hello ladies!! 🌞

@Annny27 you made me laugh!
Tbh i cringe myself too when i start googling during tww.
I ask questions that literally no one could answer like "does bloating at 4 dpo mean i am pregnant"
😅😅😅
At least i dont post it on mumsnet!!!

How is everyone doing?

@Fizzl has AF made an appearance?

I will enter fertile week in two days but the holiday here is making us a little too enthusiastic and we are exhausting ourselves before we should start dtd 😅😅
Feels so good to be alone and nice weather and everything... massive difference!

Really hoping july is happening for us ☺

Fizzl · 06/07/2020 19:35

Ah @Annny27 we've all been there! My husband laughed at me the other day because I told him to check a webpage I had open on my phone for some info he needed. Only when he checked the page I'd left open was 'are paint fumes bad for fertility' and not the info he needed🤦🏼‍♀️ he saw the funny side!

@SunnySideUp2020 no sign of her yet - tomorrow will make my lp 10days so we will see what happens! Knowing my luck I'll have a text book 14day lp and will be kicking myself for not ttc 😂

Glad you've been feeling more chilled and relaxed this month! It's good to get away and I'm very jealous you're enjoying the sunshine! Make the most of your time alone and fingers crossed this will be the month for you both 😄🤞

Fizzl · 06/07/2020 19:35

Ah @Annny27 we've all been there! My husband laughed at me the other day because I told him to check a webpage I had open on my phone for some info he needed. Only when he checked the page I'd left open was 'are paint fumes bad for fertility' and not the info he needed🤦🏼‍♀️ he saw the funny side!

@SunnySideUp2020 no sign of her yet - tomorrow will make my lp 10days so we will see what happens! Knowing my luck I'll have a text book 14day lp and will be kicking myself for not ttc 😂

Glad you've been feeling more chilled and relaxed this month! It's good to get away and I'm very jealous you're enjoying the sunshine! Make the most of your time alone and fingers crossed this will be the month for you both 😄🤞

Fizzl · 06/07/2020 19:35

No idea why that's posted twice 🙄

ELM7 · 06/07/2020 20:38

Hi Ladies sorry been quiet for a bit just taking a break.

@Annny27 I’m sure if we all shared our google history we could write a book with the crazy things we’ve googled TTC.

@SunnySideUp2020 glad you are feeling relax hopefully that will mean this is your month.

@Fizzl hope AF makes her appearance soon so you can start a fresh

I’m down in Dorset and in no rush to head to the pub or out for dinner. Haven’t seen anything too bad down here on the pubs opening but we had all the idiots descend to the beach when it was hot - it was absolutely ridiculous.

Leok83 · 06/07/2020 20:52

@Annny27 that's so funny! I think we're all definitely guilty of the same! Every cycle I google is it possible to get a BFP at 7 DPO like the answer will miraculously change😂!

Annny27 · 07/07/2020 09:28

morning ladies :) glad that all of us are guilty of the ridiculous Google searches 🙈🙈😂

@Leok83 this thing is that some women do get their bfps super early!! But I reckon they probably didn't calculate ovulation properly and they are maybe 10dpo instead

@ELM7 Beach photos were crazy from bank holiday! I have some time off next week and would like to do a beach trip but worried about how many othe rpeople will have the same idea haha

@fizzl worst thing is that when I was pregnant my Google searches were more ridiculous. Literally before I ate anything I would Google it "strawberries and pregnancy" "ham and pregnancy".......🙈
There is a photo of my mum 7 months pregnant wirh me smoking a cigarette......I am pretty sure I will be okay if i eat an unwashed apple

@SunnySideUp2020 thats nice to want to DTD again though and it not be a chore :D let's hope you can keep up the energy haha!

@Nuggetlover27 have you started the opks yet or not time?

OP posts:
SunnySideUp2020 · 08/07/2020 11:21

So since @Leok83 suggested i might miss the peak by only testing at cd 15 i did one today at cd12 and it's super negative!!

@Nuggetlover27 are you doing opks?

Nuggetlover27 · 08/07/2020 11:36

@SunnySideUp2020 @Annny27 Yepp started OPKs Monday. So far very negative as expected but I wanna make sure I catch it so will keep doing them.
The 1st 2 weeks after AF seem to be the longest. Waiting for ov ! Haha

Been having smoothies every morning for breakfast for the last week and a half. So hoping that will help! Had one with grapefruit in this morning and it was soo bitter! Don't think I'll be having that one again.

Anyone else doing anything different this cycle in hopes to get their BFP?

Fizzl · 08/07/2020 12:54

AF has officially arrived 🥳🥳 CD76!!!!

Let's hope that doesn't happen again 😅

SunnySideUp2020 · 08/07/2020 13:20

Yayyyyyyy @Fizzl 🥳🥳🥳🥳

Annny27 · 08/07/2020 14:15

Afternoon ladies :) 5dpo and feeling calm so far haha!

@SunnySideUp2020 a few days away then hopefully not too far off :)

@fizzl yayyy! Now we all have fingers crossed for a standard ovulation this month 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

@Nuggetlover27 you definitely won't miss it now:) nothing different this month apart from dtd the day after ovulation as well as before which we never usually do. Its much lower chance but another go didn't hurt!

OP posts:
ELM7 · 08/07/2020 16:42

Yay @Fizzl feels a bit wrong to be so excited for AF arrival but in this case let’s hope for a very normal cycle this time.

scrumdiddly123 · 08/07/2020 20:51

Yes @Fizzl! 🥳🥳 great news!

Leok83 · 08/07/2020 21:01

Yay for AF @Fizzl 🎉!! What a nightmare cycle that was thank god it’s all over!!

Leok83 · 09/07/2020 07:37

Morning ladies!

How's everyone doing?

9DPO here and the urge to POAS is strong! Trying to hold off testing until tomorrow. No big hopes as 0 symptoms. Don't even have sore boobs this month. Want to know before the weekend though so I can at least enjoy a drink!

SunnySideUp2020 · 09/07/2020 12:17

@Leok83 arghh i know the feeling when the boobs aren't even fuller than normal...
Not great.
But that being said some ladies said theirs didn't get any bigger and didn't have any symptoms... so i wouldn't think all is lost. Also it's quite early!
Fingers crossed x

@Annny27 anything yet on your side?

Leok83 · 09/07/2020 17:01

Oh my god,

There are actually lines!!!!
I came home from work and tested and I did not expect this!!!

Did the one step to quell the urge to POAS and line came up straight away, same for FRER and that's still within the 10 mins!

I'm literally shaking, why do I do this when DH is at work!! The lines already stronger at 9DPO than it was at 14dpo with the CP in March.

This must actually be happening!!

Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3
Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3
MilsCookie · 09/07/2020 17:21

Oh em geeeeeee congratulations @Leok83!!!!! 🥳 I'm so so happy for you!!!! Amazing line for only 9dpo as well!! 😃

Annny27 · 09/07/2020 17:26

Omg at 9dpo!!!! @leok83 congratulations lovely 💗💗💗

And 0 symptoms! That's so promissing for everyone haha!

Fingers crossed this is a sticky bean for you :D

@SunnySideUp2020 nope only 6dpo so wouldn't be expecting any symptoms or anything just yet. But seeing @leok83 bfp makes me wanna test at 9dpo haha! Any sign of opks darkening?

OP posts:
Ejb86 · 09/07/2020 17:43

Congratulations @Leok83!!! Lovely strong lines!

SunnySideUp2020 · 09/07/2020 18:36

Omg @Leok83 😅😆🤗🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

Amazing!!!!!!!

scrumdiddly123 · 09/07/2020 18:36

Wow @Leok83 amazing lines! Congratulations xxx

SunnySideUp2020 · 09/07/2020 18:37

Such a nice line for 9dpo!!! (Another set of twins maybe? 🤔)

@Annny27 i havent tested today as it was so invisible yesterday that i know it's another three four days... so probably the usual cd17 ovulation!

Ahhh can't wait for you to test now xx