Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3

[Annny27]

Setting up this new thread for all the lovely ladies who have been on the ttc after miscarriage journey. And also all the ladies who have had their bfps but still want to stay in touch:)

Will post this in the existing chat :D

So I just had the urge to do a test, it's only an internet cheapie on, can anyone else see a line? Or am I just desperate? Xx

I can! @Ljm0101!! How many dpo are you??

Really @Anny27 ? I think I'm due af tomorrow, I have no idea to be honest as my body has been all over the place, I've got 3 apps on the go and they all vary from between 14th and 22nd so who knows. I've got a few cheap ones left so I'll do another one with fmu. Oh my god this could actually be happening. I'm so scared !!!

Ooh @Ljm0101 that’s definitely a line!!! Eek! Have you got any different tests?
My FR was negative this afternoon 👎🏻 Only 10dpo though so not out yet!

@Ljm0101 I can see it too and I can never see them!! 🤞🏻 Tomorrow with FMU

@scrumdiddy123 no just the cheap ones but I might go and get a better one for tomorrow.
@ELM7 I can never usually see them either that's why I thought I was imagining it.
🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 I'm keeping everything crossed. Xxx

@scrumdiddly123 you're definitely not out yet, 10 days is still early xx 😘 xx

Aw sorry the FRER is negative @scrumdiddly123, but it is early days.

@Ljm0101 that def looks like a line..🤞🤞

@Annny27 I did get EWCM this cycle! Delighted with it😂 sad the things that make you happy when TTC!still went for the preseed anyways cause had bought it. My opks have gotten lighter since that one.so premom telling me that was peak although only scored at 0.82. Haven’t used the one step ones before but the lines look a little watery compared to what I’m used to on the easy@home ones. Couldnt get them this time though. I’ll just keep going with them anyways and see does temp go up and keep dtd until then!!
And yours is looking almost peak..yay!and glad ur EWCM turned up for you too😄

Evening everyone!

@scrumdiddly123 sorry it was a bfn after all those positive signs/symptoms you have! It is still early days tho so fingers crossed for you!

@Ljm0101 I think I can see a shadow of something there too! Good luck for tomorrow.

@Leok83 the one step strips on Premom always read lower I think. The 2 months I used them with premom my peak was 0.82 and 0.96 whereas with the easy@home I got 1.53.

I decided to go for the scan today. My husband strangely had a bit of a u-turn on it and convinced me to go for peace of mind even though the other day he thought it was a waste of money 🙄 men.

Anyway all was good and she did confirm that I have recently ovulated (hooray) and my lining was looking thick and healthy. Best part of £100 down but my mind is now at rest knowing that my uterus and ovaries are all in tip top condition 😂

@Ljm0101 !!!!! Sorry to jump on but I had to show you my first test that looked EXACTLY like that one!! Fingers crossed for you lovely!!! xx

Thank you @Fizzl.

I haven't managed to get out so it's going to have to be another cheapie one tomorrow.

Oh wow @MilsCookie they are very similar thank you so much 😊.

I have all sorts of emotions running through my brain right now. Xx

There's a line a proper line !! I can't believe it. I'm in shock. Xx

@Ljm0101 congratulations!

Thanks @Ejb86, I think I'm still in shock, struggling to believe it. Xx

Wow congratulations @Ljm0101!!

@Fizzl yes they definitely seem way lighter than the easy@home ones..I'm not a fan and got loads of them now! It's definitely low again today so looks like that was a definite peak yesterday morning!
That's great about your scan being normal..maybe £100 down but that peace of mind will be great into this next cycle and after the hell you've had this cycle I'd say it's a small price!

Congratulations @Ljm0101 :D that's amazing news! How do you feel?

Cd14 still no positive opk so confirms my theory of a later ovulation this month haha

@Leok83 so do you think you are 1dpo atm?

@Fizzl glad everything looked well at the scan :D that is great peace of mind 💗

Hey @Annny27 thank you so much, errrr I have a mixture of emotions ranging from absolutely over the moon to completely terrified and anxious after the last time 😢. I hope that's normal! I've been on google since 5am just for some reassurance that everything will be ok this time.
@Fizzl that's great news on the scan and it's definitely peace of mind for this cycle to come. Xx

@Leok83 sounds like that was your ov! Hope that you caught it , what do you use to tell you the 0.82 ?

@Fizzl 😂 men! At least you have that piece of mind now. Do you know roughly how many DPO you are at the moment?

@Ljm0101 congratulations!

Only on CD4 atm but ordered my OPKs yesterday so they should come ready (got the one step ones @Annny27 think I may have used before but going to do 2 a day from CD12ish haha!)

@Ljm0101 Yay congratulations!!

Yayyyy @Ljm0101 congratulations!! As soon as I saw your faint line yesterday I knew that you were pregnant cos it looked exactly like my first test did!! This is amazing!! 💫🌈 chances are second time round everything is going to be fine lovely - pop over to the pregnancy thread when you're ready and you'll see that everyone from the TTC after miscarriage boards is now having a healthy pregnancy ❤️ Like @TerribleImagination told me, we've had our bad luck, and this time we're so much more likely to be in the 4/5 pregnancies that do work out!! Stay positive girl - you got this 💪🏼 xxx

Keeping fingers crossed for every single one of you this cycle 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻💫🌈💞 xxx

That’s a great line @Ljm0101 congratulations! Totally normal to be feeling a whole host of emotions! I’m sure things will be just fine for you this time 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
@Fizzl really pleased you had the scan and everything looks good!

Congrattttssss @Ljm0101
🌈🌟❤

This month was good for the group!!! 😇

@Ljm0101 congratulations! So glad to see another BFP on here! Totally normal to feel anxious and nervous. I try to remind myself often that no amount of worrying or stressing is going to change the outcome as it's totally out of our control so try not to worry too much and and enjoy your pregnancy as much as you can ☺️ as others have said it's unlikely to happen again so odds are in your favour and you've just got to try and stay positive (which, as a chronic worrier, I know is easier said than done sometimes!)

@Nuggetlover27 she just said she could see that id ovulated recently from my left ovary. Going by my opk's and temp rise FF has predicted ovulation last Friday which I think is right.

@SunnySideUp2020 hope you're doing ok x

@Ljm0101 Massive congrats lovey, that’s amazing news!! 😍😍

Like @MilsCookie said, we have to keep telling ourselves that this is a new pregnancy and the odds are in your favour here. You have had your bad luck! I was exactly the same as you at the start of this pregnancy, absolutely terrified of the same thing happening again, but then you hit those mini milestones and it starts to get a bit less scary! I was nervous as anything yesterday before my 12 week scan, but all was well! I never thought I’d get there either, but here I am, and you will too lovey! You’ve got this 💪🏻

Deffo head over to the pregnancy thread when you’re ready, we’ll all be there ready to be there for you whenever you need to vent! ❤️