Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 3

[Annny27]

Setting up this new thread for all the lovely ladies who have been on the ttc after miscarriage journey. And also all the ladies who have had their bfps but still want to stay in touch:)

Will post this in the existing chat :D

@MilsCookie how are you and the little twin beans doing?xx

@Annny27 @Leok83 I haven't caved yet. 10dpo tomorrow.

I've had some pains that I guess could have been implantation, but trying not to get my hopes up. I may do a frer in the morning if AF isn't waiting there for me. I normally realise she's arrived when I'm my FMU. Definitely will wipe before I test though. Don't want to waste one like I did last month!

@SunnySideUp2020 I can see it!! With this pregnancy I tested at 12DPO with an ASDA test and a FRER. The FRER was positive but the ASDA one was barely there. At first it looked totally blank, but after a while a shadow appeared. Could you get a FRER for the morning??

Crossing everything for you lovey! 🤞🏻❤️

@Terribleimagination how are you buddy? X

Hey lovey! @Ejb86 I’m good thanks! Powering through the first trimester nausea 🤢 How are you?? I’ve been checking in on here, you’re in the 2WW aren’t you?? Crossing everything for you!! ❤️ Xx

@TerribleImagination Thank you. Yes I'm 9dpo and AF came at 10dpo last week. I ovulated 8 days earlier though, so I guess anything could happen this cycle. I am likely to test tomorrow, not expecting too much though.

@Ejb86 Oooh I’ll be thinking of you tomorrow and sending all the positive vibes your way! Ovulating 8 days earlier sounds like a great sign too 🤞🏻

@SunnySideUp2020 fingers crossed for you for tomorrow! It does look like there is something there but I also feel like I can convince myself there's a second line on those tests most of the time. I really hope it's not an evap and the start of a bfp for you! Really sorry to hear about your Nan too. I hope all is ok and you get some quality time with your family.

@Annny27 glad everything came back ok with your bloods. Hopefully that's one less worry for you now.

@TerribleImagination and @Milscookie good to hear from you both! I hope you're doing well! I do have a peak at the other thread occasionally to see how you're all getting on. I was sad to read sparkls news tho 😔 I hope she's doing ok. I really hope we can join you soon. As you can see things are not going too great for me at the minute 🙄 so unlikely I'll be getting my BFP anytime soon!

Hope everyone else is doing well.
It should have been my due date today so been a strange one today. I've tried not to get too hung about it. I went for acupuncture this morning which was good. She's told me to give it one more go with her and if no af to go back to gp 😒 in the meantime I've booked a private scan for Monday to hopefully see what's going on in there! Not sure it's going to show a great deal as I'm pretty certain it's hormonal but it will give me some peace of mind.

@fizzl glad to read things are moving a little bit your side. Good for the scan! Let us know how it goes if AF hasn't made an appearance until then.
Sending hugs and hope you are feeling ok today 💕💕

So thanks to all the ladies who could see the evap too... unfortunately BFN on frer this morning.

Also leaving this morning after having some not so good news from grandma.
The sad thing is last night my aunt texted me and said "today grandma told me you are pregnant and she is so happy to be a great grandma finally..."
And so i called and was a bit embarrassed and like well i am not pregnant but why did she say that? And apparently the morphine she is on makes her high so she lives in her own world 😔
And it made me feel shit. Because i know she really also wants us to have this baby but for some reason even this is hard.
I just want her to see this. I don't have good relationships with my mum or my dad and my nan is the closest to a parent to me and my twin brother. It just means so much to me that she is here for this.

But anyway am not pregnant but at least i will be able to be with her soon. And hopefully it will give her strength to recover...

@Ejb86 fingers crossed for your testing today. Wish you better luck than mine 🙏 ❤ xxx

10dpo...am I imagining it? It is a year ago this month since I found out I was having my girls.

@Ejb86 I can see it!!!!! 😍 Give that a day or two and I bet there’ll be a blazing positive!

@Fizzl I’m so sorry you’re having such a tough time lovey, it’s really not fair 😢 I hope things start to move in the right direction for you soon! Oh I know, Sparkl’s news was just heartbreaking wasn’t it? The poor poor thing 💔

@SunnySideUp2020 sorry about bfn this morning:( and thats really hard for you to hear your grandma say that and then have to explain to your aunty:( good luck with the travels and with seeing your grandma 💗

@Ejb86 that is a bfp!!! And omg your little boy was right when he said there was a baby in your tummy. Congratulations lovely 💗💗💗

@fizzl due date is a horrible milestone :( xxx

@leok83 I think I might have had some EWCM this morning at cd8 but tmi I am not quite sure if its leftover sperms or not 🤣🤣🙈🙈

@Ejb86 omg that is definitely positive 🌈❤
Retest in two days !! And a big tentative congrats lovely xxx

@Ejb86 that definitely looks like there is something there! 😬 it's about time we had a positive on this thread 🤞

@SunnySideUp2020 sorry it was a bfn today 😒 hopefully spending some time with your grandma will be good for you both 💛

I'm not getting too excited but I think I have ewcm today!! First time I've noticed any changes 😬 tentatively getting a bit excited. If this is the start of ovulation happening i might kiss my acupuncturist next time! Even tho it could be pure coincidence 😂 opk's still negative but hoping to see a change soon 🤞🤞

Ooooooh @fizzl that's so exciting :D I think I had a bit of ewcm today (usually get a week or so) so maybe we will be cycle buddies this month :D what cd number is this now?

@SunnySideUp2020 safe travels 💗

@Fizzl fingers crossed 🤞 it's ewcm for ovulation for you soon!!! A news as good as a bfp i think 😁

Thanks @annny27!
Been driving for 5 hours already whilst dp works remotely next to me 😅 at least he is nto complaining about my driving 🤣

Oh wow @Ejb86 that looks positive to me!! Can't wait to see that line progress!! Are you testing again tomorrow or going to wait the 2 days?

@SunnySideUp2020 sorry it was another BFN and you had to explain that to your auntie🙁 safe journey to france although you are probably there by now!

@Fizzl that is soo good to hear that your body is shifting out of neutral!! Let's hope you get to ovulate soon..the accupuncture must have worked?!

@Annny27 that's early EWCM! my CM is actually getting a little watery and had a temp dip this morning so oestrogen has obviously ramped up a bit so hopefully looking good for ovulation in the next week too!

@Leok83 I've tested again. Theres a clearer line today.

Amazing news @Ejb86 🤩🤩🤩 this is the hope we all needed! Congratulations lovely, soak up every minute. Did you have any symptoms?

@Leok83 yeah mine is more wattery now sometimes it goes from ewcm - watery and then to ewcm again. Its sooooo hot though, cba to dtd 🤣

@SunnySideUp2020 omg a long drive! Are you there yet?

@Ejb86 that's fantastic news to wake up to🤩 what a good line progression in only a day!! absolutely delighted for you, congratulations!! How are you feeling?

@Annny27 ditto on it being too hot..myself and DH got roasted in the sun yesterday and I couldn't even sit beside him never mind DTD😄!

@Ejb86 YASSSSSSSS!!! I’m so so bloody happy for you lovey!! This is the BEST news! How do you feel??? 😍😍

@Ejb86 congratulations!!! 🤞🏻 hope that like keeps getting stronger!

@SunnySideUp2020 sorry about your grandma I hope that she's getting better and you can enjoy your break

Not been on for a couple of days and come back to a BFP! Woohoo! Congratulations @Ejb86 amazing news! How are you feeling?
@Fizzl that sounds positive that you’ve had EWCM! I really hope ovulation is just round the corner for you!
Hope everyone else is well, 6dpo here and not much to report!