Third thread for ttc!

[NicoleR14]

Third thread for us ladies!
@ArjaD
@dizzy85
@sungirl11
@donnat89
@shelly10111
@Bbutterfly

Sorry if I missed anyone lol x

@Sungirl11 in so scared 😟 something is wrong surely ? I'm going to do a digital tomorrow morning and either way call doctor on Monday cx

I can't believe it !!!

@Donnat89 told ya! Jajajaja
CONGRATULATIONS!!
To me it looked like implantation bleed what you mentioned... and the test was positive too...
🥰🥰

@Sungirl11 thank you I cried like a baby I can't believe it nearly 2 years this has taken ! X

Hi girls!
So we had our nurse consultation.
All good to go, had a blood test and went to order all the meds.
Have another blood test tomorrow too.
When my period starts, day2 I start treatment! 🤞🏼
I'm so glad i'm not afraid of needles! I have 3 tummy injections daily that go up to 6 before egg collection 🙈
Apart from the 4 blood ones that get done...

How are you all doing??
Hugs! Xx

@Sungirl11 that's wonderful news ! Hopefully a BFP very soon !

I'm ok feeling tired and my skin is having a major breakout EPU should be calling me tomorrow hopefully to have an early scan done then il be under the care of the hospital for the rest of my pregnancy all goi g well ! So trying not to be to anxious at the moment but it's soo difficult! Xxx

So much to catch up on! @Donnat89 congratulations I'm so happy for you! @sungirl11 it's so good your finally getting somewhere hopefully you'll have your bfp soon too! 🤞🏼 @ArjaD how are you doing? I finally had a withdraw bleed but no af as of yet gp had reffered me to fertility clinic but because of my bmi with it being over 35 has anyone ever had any issues like this? I couldn't believe it when they had told me it was my own fault we weren't falling pg because of some tissue I have that is producing bad hormones but apparently I wouldn't have it if I wasn't overweight 🙄 I don't know what to do!

@NicoleR14 hi!! Glad you are ok. It's good you have at least been referred fo infertility and they can look into it. We are just being ignored by the GP!
I have my first scan tomorrow, so this game has started! Woho

I don't know about the BMI thing, mine is 26... i have read in some IVF groups that some clinics/nhs don't treat at some bmi mark but not sure which one or what happens.
If you where told about this tissue, why haven't they treated/dealt with it before?
Aw well, at least you are finally somewhere and will get some advice/answers now. Xx

@sungirl11 that's good you've got scans to get! No they won't see me at the fertility clinic at all under any circumstances and they won't help with this tissue I have because I'm too overweight they are telling me to loose weight and they might consider seeing me and I've always struggled with my weight so I doubt they will ever see me but who knows! GPS are honestly the worst!

Omg so much to catch up on! Congrats @donnat89 that is sooooooo amazing, I'm ecstatic for you 😍😍😍😍
@Sungirl11 good luck with being a pincushion, it will be worth it 😁😘
@NicoleR14 aw that sucks. Only thing I have always been told because my bmi is 30 is that I need to take more folic acid when pregnant but that's it.
I'm OK, ovulated about three days after hubby left for South Korea so I know I have no chance till he comes back. But its been nice not having to stress about it all xx

Thanks @ArjaD and @NicoleR14 I'm just hoping bean is healthy !

I have a scan on Friday I will be roughly 5 1/2 weeks so not expecting to see much but be nice to know it's in the right place and growing . I will have extra scans because of my miscarriage so fingers crossed all goes well !

I'm sorry your GP is being shit @NicoleR14 that's so wrong they haven't even said anything before .

@ArjaD having a few months off did me sone good to be honest as the stress was just too much and felt like I was torturing myself month after month .

@Sungirl11 so excited for you ! Hopefully you will get that BFP soon ! Xx

Not good news got me I'm afraid seems my bleed was a miscarriage so no sign of pregnancy at the scan and the tests they did all negative . So back TTC for us .

On the onus side my ovaries etc all look healthy xxxx

@Donnat89 aw no!! Can't believe it.. i'm so sorry 😞
I send you a massive hug ♥️

@ArjaD now it's your detox time! Hope your hubs comes back earlier than expected.

@NicoleR14 aw no! I didn't understand you correctly!!
Well, if you are overweight why don't they help you with that a bit and meanwhile have a look at your issues?! I just find it so easy to say "you are overweight" "you are still young" "you have time".. and just not do anything about it! Awwww fuming!! 😤 but as you can see, i'm ok and I still got ignored and they have an excuse for everyone.

Me on the other side... had my first bloody scan yesterday (literally with blood haha) which was very awkward! and started my injections last night... (one of them was very stingy 😩) i had discomfort all around my belly to the back so went to bed early. Woke up this morning and as i stood up I bled so much that it went all through my pad, pants and down to my ancles in under a minute 🤦🏻‍♀️
Joys of IVF i guess! 🙄
Xx

@donnat89 aw I'm so so sorry, I hope you're OK. I think stress may have a lot to answer for for all of us!
@Sungirl11 that sounds like an adventure 😳😳😳

Thanks ladies I had a cry and I'm ok , I'm still going carry on being relaxed , and I know it can happen for us and will when the time is right .

Xx

@NicoleR14 how about a fourth thread since this one is running out of posts again 😂😂 it's like Eastenders isn't it 🙄

@ArjaD defo need a 4th thread ! X

Morning everyone,
How are you all doing?

@Donnat89 I'm so sorry to read what happened I hope your ok ❤️xxx

I've been really busy with the new place and working so had a little break from it all.
I had my gynae app and had some blood tests and a scan on my ovaries/womb area and so far everything seems ok, am waiting to see what happens next but it sounds like they are gonna be helpful when I next fall pregnant they will do early scans and said about giving progesterone and aspirin so that's good. I'm currently in the tww but we didn't track properly this month just gonna see what happens.

How is everyone getting on?
Is there a new thread yet?
Xxx

Hi @dizzy85
Happy to hear you are getting help, progesterone works really well.

I started IVF treatment but unfortunately just before egg collection I got a call from hospital that my mom was very very ill with pneumonia and they where very worried. Got told we maybe didn't make it in time to say goodbye.
So we rushed a train to Spain to be with her, fortunately since we arrived she has gained strength and has been recovering really well. Doctors are very very surprised.
So that was my treatment cancelled and I will have to start again when i'm back.
I'm atm with her at home as she needs taking care of. Can't be on her own.

Hope you are all doing ok girls! Xx

@dizzy85 thank you I'm ok. Just trying to have a good Xmas as the moment !

@Sungirl11 I'm sorry to hear about your mum I hope that she will be Oki ! Xx

@Sungirl11 Thankyou, I do feel better knowing they will actually help me this time.
oh no I'm really sorry to hear that about your mum how scary, but really glad to hear that she is recovering that's good news. I bet it's nice for her having you there to look after her.
I lost my mum 6 years ago so it does make you realise time with them is very precious, will you be there for Christmas?
It's unfortunate about the timing with the ivf but at least it's all set up and ready to get back into when you get home. Hopefully doing it that way will be a lot easier and you should get lots of help and feel supported and hopefully have a baby in no time 🤞🏻xxx

@Donnat89 Glad your ok and I hope you manage to chill out and have a good Christmas and hopefully you'll feel ready to get back to it in the new year. My area has just gone into tier 4 so our plans have changed slightly but I'm sure we will enjoy it just the two of us xxx

@Sungirl11 I'm so sorry about it all Mrs, that's a lot to go through all at once. Will you be with your mum for Xmas? My mum should fly in on the 24th to move over permanently but I have no idea if the flight will go ahead considering all the bans coming in atm.
@dizzy85 I'm so glad you are getting help, that will be a load of your mind! Been thinking of you, what a year huh xx
@donnat89 @NicoleR14 how are you ladies holding up?
I'm really struggling this week, I'll be honestly. We would have gone into hospital to have our second baby this week, so the fact it would have been our due date has hit me harder than I thought. Doesn't help that hubby is back on the ships till at least April/May now.

@ArjaD what a year it's been indeed! Oh I'm so sorry that this week would have been the week 😢 It's horrible to think. When I had my first mmc I found it really tough with dates and everything but it did get easier as time went on. Sorry about your hubby being away so long too that must be so hard. Are you managing to spend Christmas with family or anything? Hopefully you can have a nice time and some nice drinks might help you feel better. Always here if you need a chat xxx

Thanks @dizzy85 I'm just hoping my mum can get here tomorrow, a lot of flights are getting cancelled just now.