Third thread for ttc!

[NicoleR14]

Third thread for us ladies!
@ArjaD
@dizzy85
@sungirl11
@donnat89
@shelly10111
@Bbutterfly

Sorry if I missed anyone lol x

6dpo and keep thinking about that tiny bit of pink bood yesterday. Nothing since. I'm just going to drive myself crazy 🤪 how are you all holding up? Xx

Hi girls,
@ArjaD @NicoleR14 how are you?
I got af today in full. Driving me insane!!
My mom offered to help pay a private fertility treatment, I don't know what to do... I am so sad I might loose her before I even have the chance to get pregnant. 😞
But if i want to get treatment done (say) next month... i will have to come to UK or go to Canary Islands (no quarantine for hubby) and it's more/less a month away which i'm scared to death of her getting worse in that time. Even thought if it worked and she is still going it would make me soo extremely happy for my mom to know my baby "to be".
Difficult decision

@Sungirl11 oh that is such a hard thing 😔😔😔😔 I can only imagine how you're feeling. Wouldn't even know what I would do in that situation. Sorry af has shown her face too hun xx I think mine is on the way too, got cramping.

@Sungirl11 how are you feeling? Xx

Hi ladies af is due today and bfn yesterday haven't tested today as I don't see a point! Going to see how I go and if af doesn't arrive before the 9th I shall test again but no doubt the witch is on her way 🙄

Aw sorry @NicoleR14 - - not over till she shows though! I'm 7dpo and of course couldn't control myself and got a bfn 🙄 why do we do it to ourselves..

@ArjaD it's terrible the pressure we put ourselves under! I haven't tested again but do have some ewcm but usually have some before af and also sensitive breasts so she could be ready to appear 🙄

@NicoleR14 aw sounds like me, ecwm already and sore boobs too. Guess the witch will have us both again this month😔 hubby due to ship out on the 20th so no more trying for us for four or five months. Ugh.

@ArjaD i go up and down a lot! One moment i'm ok, the next i'm on the edge of break down...
I have informed myself about the options we have, I have been told it will be practically impossible to have babies naturally, we need IVF.
I have been asked for a lot more of tests (blood and gyne tests) before we can get treatment. So I will get this done and then will see if we are ready to do it. We have a 40% chance of success with IVF.
Will let you know what we do. Xx
Thank you for asking

Tell me I'm seeing things 😱

@Sungirl11 aw it's a lot take in. Really wish we could help on some way. It's like we've all become a family on here and we just want everyone to have their dream come true. My neighbour had a very low chance of a baby with ivf, but they now have three girls in the space of two years! (one is a set of twins) - so you never know!

Nope not seeing things that's deffo a line! So happy for you!!

@NicoleR14 must be another dud tests. I seem to get them. I'll test again tomorrow morning. Not getting my hopes up.

I did the second one of those. Bottom one I took just now. Frer was negative but will take another one of those tomorrow as they seem a bit crap these days..

@ArjaD did you test again? Af is now 3 days late and scared to test again 😢

@NicoleR14 all negative today 😢😢

@ArjaD I'm sorry hun 😢 your not out yet though! Your not our until af shows! I'm 4 days late today have had ewcm over the past few days nothing major but small bits which I usually don't get I've had sore breasts in waves like sore for 10 mins then stops every few hours or so quiet bad stomach cramps and woke up at 4 this morning feeling sick! Really been feeling down and all over the place but still won't take a test because of the bfns I've had! Worried incase I have made af late with stress tbh 😢how are you doing?

@NicoleR14 aw I can totally imagine hun, but it may just be worth taking the test just to have your answer. Entirely up to you though. My af not due till Thurs and I've decided not to do any tests today. Need a day off the poas routine 🙄

@NicoleR14 how are you doing? I did another frer this morning, bfn. Guess I'm out as cramping has started now so af is defo on her way. Can't believe how many bfps I got this month, crappy tests. Wish I'd never taken any of them.

@ArjaD I completely get it I've had quiet bad sickness since Saturday night this morning I feel sick again I'm 5 days late and I haven't tested yet but me and dh has agreed we will get a test today I don't know which test to buy tbh 🙄 it's horrible seeing the bfns especially when you do get a pos!

Af still hasn't arrived and I'm now 6 days late again I can't go through this again what an I do to not drive myself crazy 😢

@NicoleR14 aw man, that sucks so much 😣did you get that test? My af came today, two days early. All over the place now.

@ArjaD that's horrible hun! Yes I tested yesterday and today both bfn so really don't know what to do 😢

@NicoleR14 must be stress 😣 I'm so sorry, it sucks so much to have irregular cycles. Easier said than done not to stress though! I'm one great big stress bucket just now.

Hi sweets!!
@ArjaD I'm so sorry to see af is here 😩
I remember getting soooo upset all the time... it's such a big hit 😞
@NicoleR14 your body playing up again? This doesn't feel normal to me... even if you are young or "overweight" (for the GP), it's still concerning how your af plays up, and it should be looked at in deep...

I am looking at private IVF, my mom has offered to pay for it as a gift before she leaves us. I feel it's the best present ever and if we are lucky and it works it will always be the best gift ever.
But I still need a lot of tests and in the UK appointments take ages (even going privately).
Will keep you updated! Xx