Third thread for ttc!

[NicoleR14]

Third thread for us ladies!
@ArjaD
@dizzy85
@sungirl11
@donnat89
@shelly10111
@Bbutterfly

Sorry if I missed anyone lol x

@jaylou7 that's the 4th opinion I've had from that doctor surgery I don't know what to do anymore I'm at my wits end!

Oh no I didn’t realise that sorry. I’m can’t imagine how you must be feeling bless you. I just pray you fall soon and if that doesn’t happen straight away I hope your af arrives. Hopefully private will start taking patients soon

@jaylou7 thanks hun it really has been difficult and especially when the gps is telling me to wait it out its so frustrating and heartbreaking I don't think I've ever bought so many tests in my life than I have in the past 6 weeks!

Out of curiosity why are they not checking your hcg levels?

@jaylou7 I'm not entirely sure I did ask but they had told me to wait it out and tbh I can't keep affording to fork out for tests either with not working because of this silly virus and all they keep advising me to do is wait and retest I pacifically asked for a blood test to be done but they wouldn't allow it I wish I knew what was going on with me and they are just no help I know that they are under a lot of pressure at the moment but this is also something that is really concerning me x

I don’t like that fact that they are refusing. A little blood test wouldn’t kill them. Really feel for you. Can’t imagine what your head must be like. Didn’t you get a faint positive on a test? X

Omg @NicoleR14 I was just thinking of you and how you've been getting on thought I'd check our thread and I can't believe they aren't even getting you in for bloods. What an absolute shambles you must be all over the place I'm sorry no one is bloody helping you. The stress won't help but it's impossible for you not to be stressed right now.
Do you have any other plan of action or just waiting it out? Hope you're ok xxx

@NicoleR14 where do you live?

@jaylou7 yes I got 2 faint positives clear as day but had a few negs after those @Bbutterfly it is its horrible I feel all over the place just now I am going to wait it out for another week maybe 2 see if af is just late if she doesn't arrive I will be demanding they do something! How are you getting on? @mumoftwobeauts I live in Scotland in denny lol what about you?

@NicoleR14 I'm in West Yorkshire in England! I was just asking because I'll do some research and try and find someone to help you.

Did you use the same tests that gave you negatives after your positives? I can't believe your gp isn't taking this seriously x

@mumoftwobeauts I've actually had a look around here before for a woman's clinic but can't actually find one I used frers and a clear blue I had a faint cross on a clear blue and faint positives on frers but complete negs on frers since and a cheap well+ one as well they aren't taking it serious in the slightest it's been 9 weeks since my last period and tbh I thought with it being such a long time that something must be wrong I thought I may have had a chemical pregnancy and that's why I got the faint positives but again why wouldn't I have had my period if I did I just feel all over the place atm!

Hun I am sitting here thinking and just feel that they aren’t taking it seriously. Just say you had been pg and it was a chemical but your body was not expelling it. (Sorry to raise this) The fact you
Did a positive test should be enough for them to at least do bloods.

@NicoleR14 I don't understand your gp's reaction tbh, especially since you specifically asked for bloods. But i know there is a gynaecologist in Kings Park private hospital on the Polmaise Road. They are private though so won't be a cheap affair 😑

@jaylou7 I think it quiet possibly could of been I don't understand why I would have 2 clear positive tests and then completely neg since but they just aren't interested she told me she knows how frustrating it must be for me but I haven't missed this period yet so leave it a few more weeks and see how I go which I think is terrible especially when I'm feeling very stressed out over it because my hormones came back fine they don't see any problems so they expect my body will get back to normal soon @ArjaD I looked into that one when we started ttc and the doctors wouldn't even give me an appointment when my period didn't come back but they are very expensive thinking about looking into them again I am going to give it another 12 days that will make it 2 weeks since af was due if she doesn't arrive I will have another fight with those ass holes 😩 this has been such a roller-coaster I explained how stressed out I had been because of my period not coming and she told me that won't help I was like duhh that's why I'm phoning you!

Hi ladies , sorry I've not been on much unfortunately my
Cousin was found dead on Monday afternoon , so just dealing with that at the moment . CD7 here and feeling Oki

@NicoleR14 sorry your go still isn't helping what a load or arseholess they should be giving you a blood test to look at your HCG levels , it's it fair to keep you waiting !

Hope everyone is Oki xxxx

@donnat89 so sorry to hear about that hun hope your doing okay it's such horrible times just now!

@Donnat89 oh I am so sorry to hear about that! Hope you and your family are doing ok xx

Thanks ladies it's a massive shock and we don't know what happened yet , So just waiting on results now so at least we can grieve properly .

Hows everyone getting on ? I hope we get some more BFPS this month ! I'm CD 7 now and we started SMEP plan yesterday (2days early ) but figured it can't hurt . Do expect it to work 1st cycle but will see how we get on with it ! X

@Donnat89 I'm so sorry to hear your sad news x hopefully you doing ok x

@donnat89 I hope it doesn't take too long for everything at the moment the goverment is asking all gps to put covid 19 on the death certificates of people who have died during this we had such a bother the other day my father in laws mum they have put covid 19 as the presumed cause of death when she had copd and died of natural causes and because of this they won't allow any of the family to lower her at the funeral people come in protective suites and lower her down its a horrible thing and very heartbreaking for our family so I hope your family doesn't need to go through that and they determine the cause of death and put it down instead of this silly virus thinking of you today ❤️ I think that is a great idea to start the smep as early as possible!

@Donnat89 I'm so sorry for your loss. What a terrible thing 😣 hope the smep works for you!

@NicoleR14 yes that's what we are worried about , police have said they will do an autopsy as she was found at home and being young they need to check what happened . I hope they just don't put that down as that will not be good enough . Xx

OMG @Donnat89 I'm so sorry about your news. I really hope they give you real answers. Thinking of you. Good luck with the smep!
Af in full force this morning, had a complete meltdown and cry. Hubby is saying I'm taking this too far I'm becoming controlling with it testing opks and going over things constantly and just not letting things be. He's upset too of course but I'm trying to explain to him it's so hard not to do all these crazy things. He doesn't understand.
Feeling v low today. It will pass.
I hope everyone else is ok? @NicoleR14 can't believe they put down covid for your hubby's granny it's just awful. Xx

@Bbutterfly aw hun we are here for whenever you need to let it out my hubby is the same he doesn't understand how hard it is not to become obsessed with it all it makes him upset knowing I'm trying to control it as much as possible I've been driving him crazy for the past 5 weeks men just don't seem to understand it too well! It is terrible they have put that down but it is a legal requirement his dad was very upset over it and it would take too long to battle it so they've let it be she wouldn't of wanted that I hope they don't do the same for @donnat89 and put her family through that it's been horrible but hopefully they should get answers soon enough!

Thanks @NicoleR14 yeah it's really hard, so glad we have this group ♥️ honestly don't know how you must feel being in limbo it's terrible. You going to do opks? Isit worth doing them just to chart?
Yeah I hope so too not nice for the families in these situations. Xxx