Third thread for ttc!

[NicoleR14]

Third thread for us ladies!
@ArjaD
@dizzy85
@sungirl11
@donnat89
@shelly10111
@Bbutterfly

Sorry if I missed anyone lol x

Let us know how the test goes ! Yes and felt very unwell all week so clinging to positive vibes xxx

Hey @NicoleR14 i can't believe you still have no answers and you have no sign of af again. What is going on.
I'm 10dpo today. I will only test is af doesn't show up when she's due. Glad you are feeling good @ArjaD ♥️ x

@Bbutterfly where do you get the willpower from 🙈🙈

Not sure what to think just took this first response and didn’t tanker with it. This showed within 2 mins. The worry is I spotted slightly earlier only a few spots but for me that’s not good as I’ve had 2 early chemicals. I’m so emotional and don’t want to get excited. I can’t lose another 😢

Here it is

@Jaylou7 sweetheart I know you pain :( how many dpo are you? This is a nice line though, got anymore to check in tomorrow ? I'm in the same boat with constant chemicals etc I still keep thinking my period will start tomorrow it's just so worrying but try and stay calm, ask your doctor for blood to see where your hcg is at? Personally with me I wouldn't get positives on clear blue when it was a chemical so you could try one of those in a couple of days and it should be positive? Even tomorrow maybe, praying this is your bfp xxx

Hi @shelly10111 bless you chemicals/mc are just heart breaking. I always get to 5 1/2 weeks then start spotting. Just hate the wait. I have tested positive in past with digitalis and personally still list the babies. I will try and digital Wednesday. I pray you have a sticky baby. Congrats to you 💕

@Jaylou7 I can't imagine :( it's such a long wait and so heartbreaking! Thankyou I'm in the same boat just trying so hard not to get excited yet xxx

Hope you're tests stay positive guys, it's so hard with the worry etc. I'll keep you in my mind.

So I've had cramping in my left side very low down for 4 days. Then stopped today, I'm praying it's good news.

aF Due on 3rd/4th so going to test each morning from tomorrow xx

So I have taken another test and its a bfn 😩 I'm so fed up of this I don't understand what's wrong with me and gp won't help what so ever!

Hi @NicoleR14 I am so sorry. A GP must help you. Ask for a different doctor or if you can see a private gynae. You need some tests run. Don’t give up. You will get your bfp and answers. Thinking of you x

@NicoleR14 that's just awful, they need to do something now. This has been going on for ages!!!!! 😡 Can you get to a gynaecologist like @Jaylou7 suggests?

Aw hun have you had hormones tested ? As I had that done and will show whats low etc or if they are fine, going by your cycles I can't see how they'd be fine! Because they need to help with this is order for you to get pregnant as you may not be ovulating etc :( xxx

Gp won't see me unless I've missed 3 months and can't get an appointment with a private gynecologist atm! I've had my hormones tested and apparently all fine but how can they be fine when I've missed nearly 2 periods I'm a complete emotional wreck tonight over it I'm just so upset that we can't even try again on a new cycle because this cycle has never ended!

@NicoleR14 oh sweetie bless you. Have a good cry it often helps me. You will get an appointment soon. It will happen for you you must believe that. X

@NicoleR14 have you looked into going private? A lot of places offer monthly repayment plans? I'm so sad for you and I really hope you get what you want soon xxx

I need your help with something too guys. So I believed I ovulated last Sunday. Forgot to do an opk but the one on Monday was very strong and they faded from then. Then just done another one and it looks positive again. Has anyone had this? I've attached a pic. Clear blue ovulation has no smiley x

@NicoleR14 your gp is awful I can't believe they are saying only after 3!!! What a joke so you've got to deal with another month of stress. Isit worth changing drs and just saying this has happened 3 times now so they just look into your case straight away? I bet you are an emotional wreck I feel for you. We are all here to rant at x
@mumoftwobeauts It's been said before that sometimes women get a peak result again on opk just before their af and then they get their bfp! So this month could well be your month!! When's af due? Xx

@Bbutterfly due on Saturday/Sunday!! Fingers crossed x x

Aw @NicoleR14 I'm raging for you!! Damn your gp!!!!! If only I could take you out for a cuppa since you're only next door😔

It's ridiculous honestly I feel so messed up I'm going to try contacting them again and speak to someone else! @ArjaD that would be so great right now! This lockdown is just terrible it's horrible the process my in laws are going through as well to Bury my father in laws mum it's horrible at any time but just now it's even worse and every time I look at him I just want to cry I'm far too emotional for him right now lol

Really wish I could shake the gp for you @NicoleR14. Hope someone gives you some help today!!!! Was it a FRER you took yesterday?

@ArjaD Hopefully and yes I took a frer and not even a hint of a line I've got 2 cheapies and a frer left in trying to hold off for a few days my boobs feel huge today and I've had slight cramps af was due yesterday so hopefully she either comes or I get some answers!

How are you holding up @NicoleR14?

@ArjaD I spoke to the gp today and she told me there is nothing they can do to help me if my period had started she would send me for day 21 bloods but because I haven't had a period since Feb they can't do that best advice they could give me was continue to dtd until I had pregnancy symptoms or until af showed up so I have cried the best part of the day trying to figure out what to do! How have you been?

I would seek another opinion from a different GP.