Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 2

[Annny27]

Hi ladies- setting up another thread so we can keep in touch :)

It was probably about a tablespoon when I wiped. I thought it was af really early

Evening ladies:) cd4 for me so AF is nearly gone. I am in two minds about trying next month - my DH says he doesnt want me near a hospital at the minute if we did get pregnant which I understand but also I am hoping that the virus situation improves over the next month.

@Peanutbuttermummy similar to me! I was 11.5 weeks but baby was only 6/7 weeks 💗

@Ejb86 yeah it could be implantation especially seems waaaaaay too early for AF!

@scrumdiddly123 wow that's such a lot of blood! When I was pregnant and they took 4 viles at the booking appointment that was enough for me haha

@MilsCookie are you going to casually try this month then? I am deffo putting away my thermometer and OPKs haha. Too much stress

@ChampooPapi hope you are doing well 💗 yep it's nice to stay connected

@fizzl that's good that they didnt find anynissues when you had all your blood tests

@triedandtestedteacher has the bleeding stopped now? 🤞

@Whiffle77 yep if we were pregnant I would have been totally staying in the house all the time haha

@SunnySideUp2020 that's strange isnt it! I ddfinitley still have slightly larger boobs before period but before I was pregnant they used to be really sore

@Annny27 it's difficult to decide isn't it? Very worrying time.
I haven't had more red blood. But quite a lot of tinged discharge. Feel constantly on the verge of af. Testing every day looking for clues even though after my erpc I tested positive for ages so I know you can't really place any importance on them

Hi all

Have popped back on after my usual can’t hack MN during AF and April thread has run to 17 pages already! Don’t know how I can catch up with that

Hoping it’s ok if I join you on here

Of course @sparkl hope you are ok

Hi @Sparkl :D what cd are you?

@triedandtestedteacher same as me I was getting strong positives for 2 weeks after the erpc and then a faint line 40 days after my erpc (my period came right after that so my levels were below enough to ovulate obviously)

Cd5 today and AF going 🙌

@Whiffle77 hope you are Feeling better today 💐

@scrumdiddly123 and you as well, recovering from all that blood taken! But hopefully they can give you some answers soon...

@Sparkl hello:)

@Ejb86 how are you feeling today?

@Peanutbuttermummy we dont know yet if we will take the holiday it will depend on hwo situation evolve but agree with all what you all said- sometimes not speaking the same language is good !!!

@Annny27 what have you decided with regards to ttc?

Cd 10 for me and been having lots of watery discharge - ver unusual. So did opk and it’s already looking like it’s gearing up :/ bit early. The app read high.

Has anyone experienced this before?

Does my test look lighter today? I think they do. First one is yesterday's with fmu and the second is today's

Arrgh now I've seen them next to eachother they definitely do

@triedandtestedteacher i wonder if it’s not just the lighting? Today looks slightly lighter but still strong positive...
How are your pregnancy symptoms?

@triedandtestedteacher have a google about "the hook effect" might explain why its lighter. Its only slightly lighter though! So I wouldnt be overly concerned at the moment but totally underatand your anxieties 💗

@sunnysideup2020 I ovulated super early last month and I used to get watery cm before ewcm! We havent totally decided yet...my DH is less willing to try this month so I think it will be his call - I am saying let's not try but not prevent but he said that that's basically trying haha

It's not the lighting. I thought it might be less dye in the test but just done another and it's similar. I thought I felt slightly nauseated this morning but I'm ok now. I didn't have many symptoms other than nausea with my daughter either and that wasn't until about 8 weeks

Much better today thanks @SunnySideUp2020 happy that it is Friday as well!
Ahhh @triedandtestedteacher dont torture yourself, I know that's easier said than done but lines can be different for so many reasons! How diluted it is, the lighting, time of day - even where you are in your pregnancy so it doesnt necessarily mean anything. Are you still having any bleeding? What is the next step with your GP?

EPU have just rang, my hcg has gone up from 29 to 33 😩 so they need to discuss with the consultant what needs to happen now and then let me know. Really hope I don’t have to go back in 🙁

@scrumdiddly123 oh no! Hopefully the consultant will get back to you soon

@Whiffle77 he didn't say. He seemed to think I was miscarrying because of the blood so to just wait it out at home

Thanks @Whiffle77, I’m ok, finding each cycle harder to get over the disappointment, even though I know some people take so much longer to conceive

Really happy to see your bfp while catching up with the March thread! How are you doing?

@scrumdiddly123 this is so tough, so sorry to hear what’s happening, and must be especially hard not to be able to see family and friends for support

@triedandtestedteacher I’m a bit surprised at gp, thought some bleeding was fairly common in the early stages, sounds a bit unsympathetic. I guess they’re under pressure atm

@triedandtestedteacher try not to worry too much, they’re both still very dark! How far do you think you are? Can you get an early scan?

@Annny27 I’m CD10
So cycle buddies @SunnySideUp2020 !

Had a 23 day cycle last month, so also worried about short LP, went from 12 to 8 days, one step forward, two steps back

@scrumdiddly123 I think I'm 5+2 so still very early. I tried another digi today and it came up 3+ but I'm not liking the look of those tests. Went to the loo earlier and there was quite a lot of brown watery discharge sorry for tmi

@SunnySideUp2020 thanks for asking. I'm ok. Resigned myself to the fact that it is AF. Heavy flow and clots. The good news is that it means I get 2 attempts at a BFP in April!

Sorry @triedandtestedteacher maybe you should give them another call and see what they suggest? Sorry you have had more spotting but it may not mean the worst.
@Ejb86 that's a very positive way to look at it!! Gets AF out the way too!
Thanks @Sparkl yes I'm doing ok! Up and down but today has been a much better day. Just counting down each day...

@Whiffle77 I've rang epau. They want me to have bloods tomorrow and go from there. I really feel I've had more brown discharge and blood with this than my mmc so I just can't feel hopeful