Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 2

[Annny27]

Hi ladies- setting up another thread so we can keep in touch :)

Omg yessss congratulations @milscookie!!! What a line!!!
This doesn't upset me at all. Bless you for thinking of us all. If anything it gives me hope I need so so much!! Wishing you every success with your pregnancy 💕💕💕💕💕

Woohoo @MilsCookie! Congratulations! What a great line too. 😃 so so happy for you as I’m sure we all are! x

@MilsCookie what a beauty!!!!!!! Congratulations lovely. That was the best news to come back on here to. We're all here to hold your hand every step of those 9 months if you need us. Try to enjoy it xxx

Who's left to test?!

Thank you so much everyone. Your kind words mean so much to me 😘😘😘

@TerribleImagination this was cycle 4 since the mc although 5 months since I had the ERPC as we decided not to try the first month. So not too long in the grand scheme of things. Just got to hope this one sticks!! 🤞🏻🌈

@Ejb86 thank you lovely that means a lot. Don't think I'm ready for the pregnancy boards just yet. Xx

Don’t be silly @milscookie!! It’s different we know how much it means and we want BFPs for all xxxx🌈😍

@MilsCookie We’ll have joined the same time then! I’m also cycle 4 since MC but 5th try since cos we didn’t wait. Argh I’m so happy for you!! Crossing everything with you that you have a happy and healthy pregnancy. Also echo what @Ejb86 said and deffo want to hear how you’re getting on along the way 🥰 I don’t blame you for not being ready for pregnancy boards yet, but you’ve got us ❤️

@MrsLBear I’m due to test / cry at AF on Sunday 🙈 Last month it turned up a day early though, but obvs hoping it doesn’t arrive at all 🤞🏻

@terribleimagination I am on the 5th month now too! My next period is due on my mums birthday, she is no longer alive so maybe she can send me a gift from heaven in the form of a bfp haha!

Thats super exciting!!! Did you do anything differently this month? When did your dtd in the fertile week? @MilsCookie yes please stick around!!! We love hearing from the pregnant ladies @Whiffle77 @ChampooPapi @triedandtestedteacher @Sparkl 💗

@milscookie congratulations that's brilliant news xx

Thanks @Annny27 💞 I keep up with this thread all the time just to make sure I see lovely news such as this! Really hope there are a few more to come soon!

Thank you everyone... @TerribleImagination yes I started the first group in Jan so we've been on all of them together!! Keeping everything crossed for you for Sunday!!

@Annny27 oh Anny that made me heart hurt when I read your message. I'm so sorry really really hope your theory is right!

In terms of what I did this cycle I really tried not to obsess about it like I usually do, especially as DP had suggested we don't "try" this month. I had a massive meltdown about it and couldn't believe he was suggesting we stop (although we didn't end up using protection in the end). I didn't do OPKs (except I did a couple on cd15 cos I couldn't help myself and was curious and got a positive!) but I didn't do them religiously for a week or so like I usually do. We just dtd pretty much every day in my fertile week and didn't stop after when I thought I'd ovulated just in case. It could just have been luck!

Still don't think it's real and just so terrified of what could happen. Just going to take one day at a time for now xxxx

@TerribleImagination how many DPO are you today? I'm due on Tuesday but half tempted to poas Saturday. But I haven't got any so if I can avoid getting one I will. Fx for you!!

Ah congratulations @MilsCookie!! I'm so happy to see this! I have everything crossed that this will be a successful and plain sailing pregnancy for you! Please keep in contact on this thread and let us know how you're doing. I think we all know how terrifying any pregnancy is going to be so we can still support each other!

@Annny27 and @TerribleImagination looks like we're the long standers now. I've also been around since Jan but only started trying again in March but it already feels like a lifetime.

Ah I feel all in a happy and cheery mood now! It's really lovely to see that most ladies have now gone on to get their BFPs and gives me a lot of hope 🥰

@MilsCookie massiveeee congratsss to you lovely!!!! What a lovely news 🌈❤️🌈💓

Thank you for creating that first group and for your kindness and i am genuinely so so so happy for you. 🥰

Well done on being so patient and not testing early and for being able to take a step back. It paid off!!

Seeing bfp on this thread never makes me bitter or envious: it gives me hope.

❤️❤️

@Fizzl @Annny27 @TerribleImagination
Joining you being the late ones 😄
In the groups since Jan (well with my Michette name before).

I really hope so too @milscookie as I can't stand another month of bfn! Haha

The longstanding club that none of us ever wanted to be part of 🤣🤣 @TerribleImagination @fizzl @sunnysideup2020 I think @Ejb86 was here from the January thread as well! @

I’m a lurker but also here since the Jan group. But do love seeing all the BFP that this group of ladies have had and always gives hope that our rainbow will come too. xx

Haha no nobody wants to be in the longer standers group but hey ho we'll make the best of it 😂

I'm feeling much more chilled now after my initial wobble when af arrived last week. I always convince myself there's something wrong etc etc and I've come back to being more rational again now and accepting that sometimes it just takes a little while. Maybe the yoga's working. My only hope now is I get a BFP before the end of June to soften the blow of my fast approaching due date 😒 I can't believe it would almost be here already.

@ELM7 🤞🤞🤞 for you this month. Where are you in your cycle? I am cd3 so waiting for AF to be done with in a few days!

@fizzl yep my due date is 3rd June and I am not sure how I will get through it if I am not pregnant. Here's hoping we get our bfps before then!

@MilsCookie oh my f*cking god! Arhhhhhh! I've got tears pouring down my cheeks right now. I'll do another message later when I've sorted myself out, I'm absolutely thrilled for you! You were our leader, you were here for everyone, and now thank Christ, it's your turn to be the one with that test picture♀️💪

God women, I am absolutely amazed and just so happy for you!!

@Annny27 I hope the 5th month is a lucky month all round! 🤞🏻 It would be amazing for you to get that BFP on your Mum’s birthday ❤️

@MrsLBear I’m 10DPO today! How about you? Aw fingers crossed for you too lovey!

@Fizzl Haha yep deffo the long standing group none of us wanted to be in! We’ll all get our months at some point, I just know it ❤️🌈

@Annny27 - CD19 here so in the dreaded TWW but I have shortish cycle and now stressing my LP is too short. Always something to stress and overthink about. 😂

Twins would of been due mid May and chances are would of been early so very aware that had all gone to plan I could be sat here with my babies which is really tough so will be very glad when May is over (yep I know it hasn’t actually arrived yet 😂) but I got a tattoo so that they will always be with me. xx

@Annny27 I really hope you get that BFP on what would of been your Mums birthday- that would just be so lovely. Got everything crossed that this is your month. xx

Oh my god @MilsCookie I am so so happy to come on and see this! So delighted for you, and a very strong line. After your updates I had a feeling. It’s so weird to have all the usual pre AF symptoms and then it doesn’t arrive, but sounded exactly like mine. What’s your due date? Have you any symptoms now?

As the others have said thanks for setting up that first group in January, it has helped me so much and I’m so delighted you have got your bfp! 💕

Fingers crossed for @TerribleImagination and @MrsLBear next