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Omg! 8 years ttc and bfp!!

27 replies

JadeLJ2020 · 09/03/2020 02:33

Ladies i just need to tell someone, anyone, everyone! I have been ttc for 8 years... i gave up last year and myself and partner split.

I have been casually dating a friend of mine and we had intercourse for the first time 2 weeks and 2 days ago. I woke at 1am to use the loo and thought i cant remember when my period is due..i looked on my ovia app...said 2 days overdue. Scrambled fir a test as i was busting..

I just had THE STRONGEST BFP EVER!!!! Im so nervous, excited, happy , confused , you wouldn't believe. I havent even told him as hes 150 miles away sleeping.

Omg!

I guess the reason i posted on here was to give someone hope. Ive wanted to see these two lines for so so long.... yet at a time i wasn't trying, when i least expected it, its happenned.

So dont ever give up hope. Im not sure how this will work out for me with him but at 36, im blessed and this baby will be worshipped

I wish you all so much luck xxxxxxx

OP posts:
Peanut55 · 09/03/2020 02:41

Huge congratulations to you!!!

Wishing you a happy and healthy 9mo Flowers

bluebell94 · 09/03/2020 05:25

Congratulations! Xx

eurochick · 09/03/2020 05:30

Congratulations!

Was your ex tested during the 8 years ttc? Your post suggests the problem might have been with him not you.

Makinglemonadeoutoflemons · 09/03/2020 05:34

Congratulations

sqirrelfriends · 09/03/2020 06:13

Congratulations! What happy news.

JadeLJ2020 · 09/03/2020 06:13

Hi bluebell

He was indeed tested, all perfectly normal amount, motility etc. All fine. I have a child (20)!! So we did wonder at first, but no, unexplained infertility.
I guess it just wasnt meant to be but somehow this is, none of it makes sense to me right now x

OP posts:
LRboop · 09/03/2020 11:08

That's wonderful! Congratulations. Certainly gives me hope :)

AnneJeanne · 09/03/2020 11:09

Congratulations! 💐

OrganicSmorganic · 09/03/2020 11:15

Congratulations!

onetime10 · 09/03/2020 11:16

Huge congratulations Thanks

LuluJakey1 · 09/03/2020 11:17

That's lovely. Congratulations!

Will your friend be shocked?

Mooey89 · 09/03/2020 11:19

Can we have a BFF pic 🙈

ellenpartridge · 09/03/2020 11:23

Congratulations

JadeLJ2020 · 09/03/2020 11:34

Of course, can anyone advise me how to upload? The line is sooo dark on a 25 miu.

On a 30 miu its average

OP posts:
Maui123 · 09/03/2020 12:22

Huge congratulations!! Best of luck OP

Crystal87 · 09/03/2020 13:27

Congratulations, I'm so happy for you.

Elliesmommy · 09/03/2020 13:32

Wow congrats. Wonderful news x

WhatHappenedThen · 09/03/2020 14:03

That's great news. Congrats. 🥳

I hope everything goes well. It's very early days I guess but fingers crossed.

Have you told your BF? Did he know you wanted a baby? 😅

Lola871 · 09/03/2020 14:06

Congratulations!

JadeLJ2020 · 09/03/2020 14:08

@WhatHappenedThen well, we havent discussed it because we were only starting to date, he knows of the years spent ttc and my heartache though. 6 rounds of clomid, one iui.

I simply cannot believe that one night with s new partner has resulted in a bfp. A part of me feels foolish, a part of me os too blessed to worry.

Thankyou everyone for your congratulations and for not judging xx

OP posts:
Bingeslayer · 09/03/2020 14:12

That's wonderful news,congratulations x

FthisS · 09/03/2020 14:14

Wow! This is amazing, congratulations FlowersSmile

Trying2b · 09/03/2020 14:14

Awww thanks for making me smile today! Congratulations to you xxxx

CoffeeRunner · 09/03/2020 14:15

Wonderful Grin. So lovely to hear some happy news for a change.

oohnicevase · 09/03/2020 14:38

Congratulations.. I just hope he is happy about it .. I would think it will be a shock to him .

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