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TTC after ectopic pregnancy

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Mumlili9 · 25/02/2020 03:22

Hello I'm hoping to chat with other ladies ttc after ectopic pregnancy with tubal removal. I recently had an ectopic pregnancy and lost my left tube. I don't know anyone who has been through this so I've no one to talk to about this. I would love this tread to become a kind of support group where we can support each other on the scary journey of ttc.

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MrsB2019x · 28/07/2020 12:45

@coffeewithmilk The waiting must be awful, hope you get the answers you are hoping for. Let us know how you get on Flowers

coffeewithmilk · 28/07/2020 15:36

Phonecall from EPU confirmed hcg level was 507. Have to go back on Thursday for a repeat blood to see what the level is doing x

MrsB2019x · 28/07/2020 19:44

Hope it was the nasty woman on the phone who had to process the results 😏🖕

Hope you are okay @coffeewithmilk x

BasalGanglia · 29/07/2020 21:53

@coffeewithmilk thinking of you for tomorrow Thanks

coffeewithmilk · 29/07/2020 22:11

Thank you @BasalGanglia and @MrsB2019x
Getting bloods done at 10, hoping I'll get the results tomorrow and they don't make me wait until Friday. The waiting is the hardest part. It's been the longest day today x

BasalGanglia · 29/07/2020 22:44

@coffeewithmilk I know each hospital is different but I had hcg blood tests at 10am every week for 4 months and they'd ring me back mid afternoon the same day with the results x

MrsB2019x · 29/07/2020 23:20

Hopefully you’re getting it done early enough 🤞 will be thinking of you tomorrow x

Springandsummer123 · 30/07/2020 07:10

GOODLUCK @coffeewithmilk

Sammyclaire22 · 30/07/2020 08:29

Good luck today @coffeewithmilk, I hope you get some answers and some good news xx

coffeewithmilk · 30/07/2020 13:52

Level only went from 500-530. They've brought me back in to do a scan to make sure it's not another ectopic.
Can't believe this is happening again
I must have the worst luck in the world x

Springandsummer123 · 30/07/2020 14:19

Oh my goodness @coffeewithmilk three times would be REALLY unlucky, you poor thing. I hope you get some answers soon.

Sammyclaire22 · 30/07/2020 14:41

I'm so sorry @coffeewithmilk, I can't imagine how tough this has all been for you x

coffeewithmilk · 30/07/2020 16:24

I've had the scan, pregnancy of unknown location, they think it's in the right cornual area.
So being admitted for observation and serial blood hcg and scans.
😞

Keep telling myself everything happens for a reason x

MrsB2019x · 30/07/2020 16:59

Omg @coffeewithmilk how absolutely rotten for you. Hopefully by being admitted they’ll be able to sort things sooner rather than later. Gentle hugs 💙 x

Springandsummer123 · 30/07/2020 17:35

Is that where the last one was as well @coffeewithmilk ? I know it's not much comfort right now BUT at least it's not in your remaining tube. Well done for staying positive. Are you staying in hospital overnight?

Sammyclaire22 · 30/07/2020 17:36

I'm so sorry @coffeewithmilk, it's utterly shit for you. I'm really glad they are investigating it properly so hopefully you won't be in too long. Thank goodness you stood your ground and got checked out by epu xx

BasalGanglia · 30/07/2020 17:39

@coffeewithmilk so sorry to hear this. Hopefully you'll get more answers soon. I had a left cornual recently and was expectantly managed.

coffeewithmilk · 30/07/2020 17:48

My previous ectopic was the left side, so this cornual is on the right side.
They said I will be in over the weekend at least and they'll keep a close eye as I've got some pain.
Hopefully I won't need surgery again
@BasalGanglia what kind of treatment did you have? Did they give the methotrexate?

Xx

BasalGanglia · 30/07/2020 18:01

@coffeewithmilk I wasn't given Methotrexate because of Covid and the immunosuppressant effect that it has. They said they usually would have done as my hcg was 5000 and I know of other people who've been given it so maybe it's an individual hospital decision?

I was allowed home after diagnosis as I had no pain and I had serial hcg testing every two days at first, then weekly, then every other week as it came down. It did take 4 months as my hcg was so high!

Cornuals are meant to be quite rare so your luck really is rotten Sad x

MrsB2019x · 30/07/2020 19:13

I had methotrexate when my HCG was 500 @coffeewithmilk and it was negative after 2 weeks, might be worth pressing for that if you can. Does mean you can’t try again for 3 months though x

coffeewithmilk · 30/07/2020 20:01

Thank you both for the input. I think they're just being so cautious because it's my remaining tube but I am having some pain and spotting so I don't think I'm eligible for the methotrexate. I'm going to discuss more with the doctor when she comes back
Xx

MrsB2019x · 30/07/2020 21:51

I had pain & full on bleeding. Each hospital works differently though, they will do what is best Flowers

BasalGanglia · 31/07/2020 13:55

@coffeewithmilk how are you today? Any more news? x

coffeewithmilk · 31/07/2020 14:04

Hi @BasalGanglia I started bleeding this morning and passing some clots so was seen by the consultant, not for surgery, she thinks I may be miscarrying the ectopic, so will need to wait until hcg levels are done tomorrow. If they've gone down then I'll need repeat bloods until the level goes to 0. If they've stayed the same or not dropped very much, I'll need the methotrexate.
Relieved I don't need another surgery.
Bleeding has eased off now, just hope the levels have decreased so I can get home to my DH and my own bed! Xx

MrsB2019x · 31/07/2020 14:51

@coffeewithmilk Hopefully you won’t need any more intervention, hope you get home soon Flowers

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