TTC after miscarriage - March 2020

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Hey everyone 👋🏻

This thread is for anyone TTC or testing in March after a miscarriage.

So sorry if you find yourself here, but you’re in good company ❤️

@Hayleylou89 glad I took the test now otherwise I wouldnt have known I had peaked! P.s my first period after miscarriage was like a week and a half longer than my longest cycle - just to give you and indication it might take a bit of time annoyingly!

@fizzl @Whiffle77 ooh we might be tww buddies if we ovulate soon

Nice positive there @Anny27! It is crazy how quickly it changes sometimes!
Any symptoms @Hayleylou89
I’m 6dpo so only a day behind you and according to FF AF is due next Saturday!

@HayleyLou89 AF is due on CD 44 for me too 😣 and my cycles are normally 30ish days!

@Anny27

Did u ovulate the first month do you know. Im hoping i did but be good to know if u think u did too? X

@shhhhs

Yeah mines saying a week longer than usual xx fingers crossed she doesnt show for us 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@scrumdiddly123 yeah usually its slower than that!

@Hayleylou89 yep I ovulated the first month (I temped that month and they increased). We didnt try the first month though so I wasnt looking at cm or OPKs and stuff, I just wanted to know when my period might be due

@Annny27 that’s crazy! Sometimes you see it gear up nicely but i found the very day before surge it seems to drop completely so you think its not happening...

Good luck 😉

Hi @Hayleylou89 I am sure you did! Crossing my fingers for you. Good news is though we have decided to try in April even with the December birth. We are both edging towards 40 so going to go for it. So just two weeks until we try again.

Hi I fell pregnant 10.02.2020 a week later I MC.
Now I’m here with another positive test that I did 2 days ago. Absolutely thrilled slightly nervous though.
Can’t figure out how pregnant I am though as I never had a period in between it’s all happened pretty quickly.
I had a positive ovulation test result on the 28th Feb. On the 8th I did another ovulation test (I thought the ovulation test was a pregnancy test i used the wrong one opps) that was positive! Did a pregnancy test too that was negative. So basically everything is a little confusing but I’m super happy 😊 x

Thanks @happyasbarry yes keep trying i wont be not trying next month just because its xmas ill be made up for any time of year now.

@Anny27 here is my temp graph do you think it looks like i def ovulated and my temps have stayed up but im not really that educated on the temping i do it so it predicts but dont know the science behind it when it comes to when u ovulate conceive.

@Anny27 i didn't tracked right after my loss which is why there is gap at the start x

@Annny27 tagged wrong person in other comments they were meant for u x

Thanks @SunnySideUp2020 🙌 dtd this morning so either will ovulate today or tomorrow I imagine - where are you in cycle atm?

@Hayleylou89 yeah it looks like you ovulated on day 30/31 :D so good luck 🤞🤞 My old username was anny27 haha I just added another n not sure why!

Congratulations @Aimee6670 :) not sure how far along you are but perhaps in 3 weeks have a early scan and they can tell you:)

Hi everyone, I'm hoping I might get some wisdom from people here. Im 5 weeks post SMM and still waiting for 1st AF. I started doing OPKs but as they were all showing negative, I lost momentum. Yesterday I did a random one and I think it could have been the end of my surge. By this morning I tested again and no line was showing. It's a different brand to my usual ones and the lines are much fainter. What do you think please?

@annny27

Ohh i really hope so, only a week to go until we find out one way or another 🙏 if im not pg i atleast hope AF shows so i know where im at as i do know it can be months for some ppls AF to come back hope thats not the case here though, i got a faint positive at 8dpo last pregnancy so im bound to compare to that 🙈

@Snapper81

Just keep tracking and BD ing when it looks like its close to ur surge, im 5 weeks since my loss and i got 3 comp diff readings in one day, id have missed my surge if i didnt do an afternoon stick.
Key is do them apprx 4 hours apart and ull catch it at some point x

Hmm, I wish I had carried on doing them because I think that test was towards the end. Perhaps the surge had been that morning. I've been baby dancing lots this week though so I've given myself a good chance. If AF comes, I'll start tracking properly. Its horrible not knowing what my body's up to. Still feel like I'm on limbo after my as miscarriage.

@Snapper81

I know how u feel about wanting ur cycles back to normal - ur in the right thread as alot of us in here are in the same boat! As long as u feel your covered then it could still happen 🙏 x

I’m in cd12 after my first AF after miscarriage.
It arrived on CD43.
I’ve started ovulation testing and currently tracking Low 0.35, 0.54.
I normally ovulate around day 20 but I’m so scared of missing it thought I’d start tracking from Cd10 in case my cycles have changed post miscarriage

@Annny27 hey lovely, I got my peak this morning too! So hopefully that means I'll ovulate tonight or tomorrow. We'll be in our tww together! How are you getting on @Fizzl and @SunnySideUp2020 ? xx

@MilsCookie and @Annny27 I think we could be tww buddies!

My ovulation sticks aren't blazing positive yet but definitely almost there! 😬 still showing as low but I've never had really obvious positives just very close so I know this is a good sign for me.

Luckily my husbands home tonight 😂

How are you both doing?

@Fizzl your app is blind!!!! This opk is very near peak! And defo high...

@MilsCookie
hey 👋. What CD are you? Enjoy the BDing 🥳
4dpo here and in the middle of what should have been the 3 months holiday break of our lives in the sun but instead stuck under snow in the Baltics with all borders closed.

So mood isn’t great but at least in 10 days i will know what happened this cycle which wasn’t what i expected either (Had stomach virus so had fever and vomiting during ovulation and only managed dtd twice in fertile window)...

So we will see!!! Nothing going as planed seems to be the theme of March 😕

Hey @SunnySideUp2020 @shhhhs and @Champoopapi hope you're all well, how's the tww going? I'm 9dpo now, I'm so tempted to test tomorrow but I'm going to try and hold out till 12dpo. Has anyone ever had a bfp at 10dpo?
I think my first with DD was about 12 and the last one with my mc was the day of my missed af so around 14dpo. Xx

@fizzl @MilsCookie woohoo! We have to keep eachother strong and away from those tests in the tww haha!

@milscookie have you managed to DTD often before the peak?

@SunnySideUp2020 awwh not great at the moment then! When do you come back?

I am the same @fizzl sometimes I get a strong peak or sometimes a nearly there peak. Guess just depends on LH levels that month

@hayley89 will you test early?