New thread for the crazy gang - part 3!

[Beau2020x]

Heyyy girls! Here's our new thread - sorry if I've forgot anyone!

@Katie1109
@Ellsbells112
@Mrslane2019
@BFP2020
@Symptomspotter86
@Ange211
@Mumofboys17

And for the BFPs already who want to keep in touch
@sunflower2019
@quiffy
@fredthespider

What does that mean @Lv1987? Xx

Sorry @Snowwhite2020, resting heart rate... Just looks like random numbers without the preamble! Apparently your resting heart rate rises in the week leading up to AF and stays high if you're pregnant, but bottoms out if you're not. Mines on its way down, so I'm assuming I'm out this month... Yesterday's BFN was also a dead giveaway 🤣

Ah ok, thanks. Hopefully not- fingers crossed for you xx

Hi ladies. Been away sorting car repairs/insurance after someone drove into me last week, and sorting out house move/MIL stuff so been quiet again.

Question: i ovulated on Tuesday and only DTD once this month on the Sunday before using PreSeed. Do you think I still have a chance this month?

DP is so stressed with house move/solicitors and damn coronavirus threatening his events in London, so we just couldn't make it happen more than that. Bit gutted but it's so crazy right now that it's probably for the best.

Just didn't know whether I can get my hopes up or not.

@Langpants absolutely sperm live for up to 5 days!

@Langpants yeah I would say you are still in with a shout.
@LV1987 sorry its not your month! Next month!

@Langpants I only DTD 2 or 3 days before ovulation last cycle (the only day in FW) and nothing here. Month before I did 3 days before and day of ovulation and ended in chemical so it's possible! I've only been DTD like once in the 4 day FW so I think I need to do it more. There's just always been something stopping us.

@Snowwhite2020 I know this is what was worrying me. And I'm going to use progesterone cream from ovulation so worried that will effect bloods. I don't know whether or not I should use it?

Well girls, pretty sure I'm going to get my peak today! A whole 5 days earlier than any other cycle!! Now I'm not sure whether or not to use my progesterone cream this cycle...?? I've had no EWCM yet. Floods of the watery stuff yesterday. What is going on?!

Ooopks OPK chart attached. My BBT dropped and spiked massively today but I was drinking last night so could this have something to do with it? No other symptoms of ovulation

@Beau2020x alcohol can definitely affect your bbt. Everything sounds good though, watery is fertile but ewcm. Is peak fertile fluid so you can dtd now even! Hmm I think still use the progesterone!

Well pain has stopped, my bbt is still above coverline but hen I checked my cervix (sorry tmi) but there is blood up there waiting so I'll probably get my emo drop tomorrow with full flow.

@Missgoldilocks gah I'm so annoyed for you :( last time I poked my cervix there was blood and that caused full flow about 30 mins later.

When do you find out OHs sperm results? X

Emo drop 😂 I meant bbt drop but it is emo feeling hahaha @Beau2020x yeah, it'll start later or tomorrow properly. I don't know, still waiting they have another 5 days to get the results back to me soo next week I will find out hopefully xx

I know what you mean @Beau2020x - always something. 😫 Sorry to hear about the chemical. I had one before I got pregnant with my little boy. It's so heart wrenching.

@Ange211 - thank you. Don't want to get my hopes up but will test towards the end of the 2WW anyway.

@WaitingOnThePositive thank you. ☺️

Well I take it back, masses of EWCM! I'm either CD12 or 13 (13 if I class the really late evening flow I had on CD28 last month) and Femometer is predicting ovulation for tomorrow 😦 this is so early for me!! Not that I'm complaining

@Beau20 Hooray for ovulation!! 🙌🏻❤️

I'm very nearly ready to throw my OPKs in the bin 😠 why won't they get darker!!!! Grrrrr!! CD18 today 😐

@Mumofboys17 hang on in there! You'll get there. At least you'll have a nice mature juicy egg haha. Definitely try the soy isoflavones next month. I took mine CD4-8. 2 days 100mg and then 3 days 150mg

@Beau20 did you only start that this month and your cycle has moved forward? Xx

@Snowwhite2020 my first cycle of soy isoflavones and I've gone from peak day CD16-17 to CD12-13

I'm emotional wreck at the moment girls what's going on with me. I'm crying at Crufts! It's only bloody flyball but I just cried for the winners. Jesus

@Beau2020x the soy isoflavones sound amazing. Not sure I am ovulating so going to try them I think. Thanks for tip

Finally got a peak reading on LH girls 🥳

@Missgoldilocks omg I love cats. What breed is your kitten?

I am just on my way back from the hen. It was fun but I was the only one there without kids so there was a lot of kid chat. A lot of them have very young kids so I get how it can be consuming however I couldn't join in at all. There were hours and hours of baby talk. Felt quite low after to be honest.

@Symptomspotter86 he's half English short hair and his mum is a mix of bengal and American wire? Something like that he's so cute 😍

I'm sorry to hear that, that doesn't sound like a fun hen do at all if I'm honest!! I can't bring myself to be around baby talk really 😩

Omg I'm in love with your kitten!!

I'm also on my way back from the hen do I was at, just sat around waiting for my train! Had a really nice time, was good to have a dance :) but still no proper AF here, and my RHR is on the rise again so I literally have no idea where I am, who I am or how I got here 😂
The Hen knows we're trying and she was like you just need to stop trying so hard... Easier said than done when you don't know from one day to the next whether you'll be on your blob or not 🤔

@Symptomspotter86 bless you. It's shit sometimes isn't it? I know it must sound easier said than done as I do technically have one DS now, but I'll never forget that empty feeling baby talk leaves you with. Hope you're feeling a bit better now? Xxx

@Missgoldilocks OMG I'm a cat woman through and through. I have a big ginger cat, gingers are the best they've got so much character! Especially if there's Bengal in there somewhere, they're very lively and wild cats! 😍 always wanted a proper Bengal but never taken the plunge, just have rescue cats in our house 😂😂

OPKs are STILL pissing me off. Literally no change, I'm CD19 today 😩 starting to think I might not ovulate at all. Just been DTD every other day as I don't know what else to do!! 🙁

@Mumofboys17 @Missgoldilocks I have 2 ginger cats too!! I love them!! They really do have the best character.

@mumofboys17 I'm feeling fine now thank you. I love hearing about my friend's kids as they mean a lot to me, but it is difficult when it is all they talk about and don't realise it has been 2 hours and I can't contribute. Maybe I'm just over sensitive at the moment.

@LV1987 I hate it when people say stop trying so hard, "relax". It really doesn't help.

@Symptomspotter86 @Mumofboys17 omg I love ginger cats!! He's more creamy ginger in some lights! We went originally for the ginger boy in photo below but I literally fell in love with the cream boy, he settled in our arms while the ginger didn't really! But the lady who bred them said they are exactly the same temperament wise and always together! If I could have taken both I would have lol so excited to get him on the 20th