New thread for the crazy gang - part 3!

[Beau2020x]

Heyyy girls! Here's our new thread - sorry if I've forgot anyone!

@Katie1109
@Ellsbells112
@Mrslane2019
@BFP2020
@Symptomspotter86
@Ange211
@Mumofboys17

And for the BFPs already who want to keep in touch
@sunflower2019
@quiffy
@fredthespider

@Mumofboys17 ffs I know I'm being picky but the one month I don't want a baby is December hahahaah. Or November really. I need to shut up and be thankful if I ever have one. Beggars cannot be choosers and all that.

I do the OPKs until I get negative (which is always pretty much day or 2 after peak) after then I totally stop. Never even tracked ovulation last time I was pregnant and I thought I ovulated on CD14. How was I so wrong but still got pregnant wtf?! Last night I was trying to think back how and when we had sex THREE FUCKING YEARS AGO that lead to a baby. Send help. Lots of help.

@Beau20 same... but you know what, I'll take it now 😂 I don't care anymore. I just want a baby 😭 feel really low about it at the moment. Can't get too upset with DH about it as he gets stressed and says it's not worth it if it makes me so upset.. gaahhh 😩
Had little bits of creamy cvm today. Every time I go to the loo I'm praying I see some implantation bleeding. I've really gone full TTC batshit crazy. 😖

@Mumofboys17 bless you hun x I'm totally with you 100% it's the bain of my life. How do people ever stop trying? Like how do you tell yourself you aren't arsed anymore when the only thing that consumes your thoughts is having a baby? I'm absolutely psycho this week. I got so mad with OH at the weekend for no reason (he called me plain when I called him boring) so I emptied his entire wardrobe and draws, threw them over the landing banniser on to the stairs and then went to sleep, It was a right shitshow. Woke up the next morning and sneakily put all his clothes back really REALLY tidily... crazy bitch.

You might not get implantation bleeding again - I never had it with any of mine x

I am also never everrrrrr psycho - this goes to show how crazy TTC is making me. All because we didn't DTD when I needed us to.

@Beau2020x @Mumofboys17 @Katie1109 you know I was thinking that myself that I'm sure people have told me their luteal phase varies, I can't remember where I read it though wish I could find it! Mines the same 14 days every month

@Beau20 I'm not bloody surprised!! This is all enough to make someone proper loopy!
Mate next cycle I'm just going to DTD every day over that fertile window. No joke. Probs end up with another UTI for my efforts 😂😂

@Mumofboys17 both my ds were due around Christmas. One came early Dec the other hung on until Jan. It's not so bad really.
I think I'm kind of over trying. I'm going to through out my opks, delete ovia & bin the vitamins it's making me miserable and actually I've very satisfied with my life & the lovely family I have. I'll hang around here for the chat though 😂

thanks girls i tell you i’m there with you guys to 🤪🤪🤪 i seriously can’t see an ending and ever month in just get lower and lower
i think when i had my massive melt down last month i had little word with myself start feel a like better but ask me that next week 🤪😂

I'm pretty sick of it too. Also I'm just shitting myself thinking my tubes are fucked 🤧😢 ahh it's pretty shit TTC I can't believe I thought I was going to conceive straight away. I literally convinced myself I was pregnant the first 2 months my OH thought I was an absolute nutter.
@Beau2020x @Mumofboys17 we will get our bfps!!! Don't give up and don't stop trying x

@ange211 that is actually a good shout! I'm not doing any OPKs or taking any vitamins next month (other than folic acid). Cannot be arsed with this shit anymore

Looks like control line on my latest opk is getting a bit darker so my results are going down which means the surge is on its way down too. So I’ll ovulate within 24 hours is that correct? Tough luck, he’s away! Fml. I think I’ll ditch all that crap next month!!

Forgot the photo 🤦‍♀️

@Katie1109 that's weird because I'd definitely say your most recent test is far darker than the one earlier today? Had you tried putting them into another app like Femometer? I don't agree with what it's saying on a few of your reads, some a certainly more positive then others where it's saying they aren't?

anyone got any tip on headache i had one on an off since last tuesday not even paracetamol get rid of it can you over vitamins yourself ?

Thanks @Beau20 x I agree that the test line is darker but the control line is also darker x the way it works is that it calculates the test line ratio against the control line ratio. So bigger difference in colour between them two lines, the higher the result x Femometer is the same x have a look on my photo x

Anyone else's Facebook page tormenting them with video clips of babies! Mine is even tormenting me with clips of toddlers being introduced to their new baby brother or sister. How do they know!!! Grrrr x

@Danni2019 yep mine seem to full of babies gender party 🙈 i reckon they watch us

@Danni2019 yep 😂😂😂 mine is mostly peak adverts. How do they know I'm a crazy baby obsessed bitch...

@katie1109 makes sense with the OPKs actually. Are you going to do another one tonight just to be 100%?

Peak? Pram 🤨

@Beau20 nah not doing another one. Can’t be bothered with that crap anymore. No point, OH is away till Wednesday about 9pm so that ship or egg as it may be has well and truly sailed x

@Beau20 @Katie1109 guess we're all writing this one off then!!
Shame we don't live near each other. Could fully drown our sorrows together! ❤️❤️

Morning ladies. Well it looks like its my O day today. OH is away but he said he might be coming back tonight rather than tomorrow but don't think he'll be back before 10pm and after 4 hour drive I don't think he'll be up for it anyway :(

Morning Guys
Hope your ok ?
So last night i managed to get OH to do the test and results weren’t good 😢 it show low my heart just sunk but never show it or told him it was a home kit so i’m hoping that we didn’t do it correctly but i will get him to get to doctor and hoping that all the good one are swimming there way into comfort after fw 😂😂

Sadly it looks like I'll be coming back to you lovely ladies. I've been spotting since Saturday, went to the hospital for a scan yesterday and they couldn't see anything so they think it's either the start of a miscarriage or an ectopic. I did a CB weeks test on the 9th which showed 1-2 weeks, then on the 15th it was 2-3, this morning it was back down to 1-2. I had bloods taken yesterday and will repeat them tomorrow with the results tomorrow afternoon but I've already accepted that it's not a viable pregnancy.

OH thinks we should take a break. We'd previously discussed not trying March/April to avoid a Christmas baby so in a way the timing isn't terrible so I might flitter in and out of the thread to try and keep up with you all if you're still here in May x

Morning ladies!

I am on CD 28. Just did an early first response test and it’s a BFN (I read this as a BIG FAT NO).

I’m due my period in 2 days but I don’t think I’ll be testing again this cycle as it causes too much anxiety (I say this now with disappointment and will probably test again at some point this week)!!

I’m not surprised really as I’m not actually sure when I ovulate. I did ovulation tests for 7 days around my high fertility days, never once had a peak day!

Better luck next month. Baby dust to everyone and December babies apparently x