New thread for the crazy gang - part 3!

[Beau2020x]

Heyyy girls! Here's our new thread - sorry if I've forgot anyone!

@Katie1109
@Ellsbells112
@Mrslane2019
@BFP2020
@Symptomspotter86
@Ange211
@Mumofboys17

And for the BFPs already who want to keep in touch
@sunflower2019
@quiffy
@fredthespider

@Katie1109 are you testing twice a day now? That line looks about right for O day in 3 days but you can never tell for sure these days! Xx

@Ange211 oh how lovely!! A fellow Scot @Quiffy

@Katie1109 See, looks like you are bang on track now wooo! No ovulation on CD11-12 like you thought.

@Mumofboys17 defffoooo test with FRER, or at least another IC. If you get another line on one of them, you know you'll get on on a FRER. Exciting!

Well, TWW begins for me and I am so so mad today. I just cannot deal with another heartbreak month but only DTD 2 days before OV and then one day early in FW. I was so positive for this cycle and doing everything I needed to...

@Beau20 I may try an IC tomorrow morning and see.. 😬

Sorry you're feeling like this already. Although I have to say everything I read about TTC says DTD before ovulation is much more important than on and after. Did you DTD the day before O day? If so you're 100% in with a chance! Keep venting if it helps and try and keep a level head. We're all in this together! ❤️

@Mumofboys17 i see it to 🤞🏻 for you
oh snow i loved a bit of snow only thing we getting gale force winds in portsmouth see if our fence survive this time 🙈

@Mumofboys17 yes I am testing twice a day now x
@Beau20 yes,I’m glad no O day for CD11 or 12 so looks like it’s going to be CD14/15 as predicted to start with x let’s see if we can make a little Cupid over this Valentines weekend x

@Quiffy it's a lovely part of the world isn't it? I'm originally from Paisley but moved here for hubby - he farms down here. I love it.

@Ange211 @Quiffy this all sounds like a dream! 😍 Making me want to move up north 😂

@Katie1109 ooohhh yes! What great timing! I wish my OV was over valentines weekend rather than the run up... at least then I would have definitely got some!

@Mumofboys17 honestly I am so fucking mad/fed up today! What a complete waste of 2 days CRUCIAL DTD time. Gah, never mind, it's done now. Just part hoping I have a short LP again so I can just get this cycle done with and move on to the next, again...

Anyone ever looked into boosting progesterone and estrogen in LP? Like those creams?

Hmm, just had a load of EWCM and ovulation was yesterday? I'm usually dry immediately after OV?

so after giving OH the test he gone no where near it he doesn’t want to it do had every excuse under the sun it fw week we need to save babies apparently it not first time he had it done but he had done about 10 years so i’m sure it fine but men aiy all we got to do and something so simple 🙈i’ll get it one way or another 😂

@Beau20 did you do an opk today? Worth checking and DTD today if you can x

@Katie1109 I haven't done one since last night, I was still peak yesterday AM (less than the day before PM though) and it was high last night about 6pm. I presumed I either ovulated last night or this morning. Won't be able to DTD until later tonight so probably too late by the time the swimmers get anywhere. Cramps have totally gone today as well.

@Beau20 remember you can ovulated up to 36-48 hours after peak so tonight might still be within reach xx

@Beau20 I would DEFFO DTD tonight if you've had ewcm! Wouldn't hurt to try (depending on DP's leg pains obvs 😉) xx

@Mumofboys17 honestly he can F off with any leg pains tonight! Part of me thinks as well he's just so stressed out atm he wants his 'peace and quiet'. He turns into a right recluse where he doesn't want to be touched or spoken to when he's so stressed (we work together so I can see how stressed he is!).

Anyways, we've got a nice bottle of red and steak for tea tonight and I'm going to dress up all nice. So we can have a nice chilled night. And if he rejects me again I'm afraid it's going to be DTD by rape (sorry, shouldn't joke about that)

Just done an opk, still no changes so definitely no peak today. We'll probably DTD today anyway but I'm hoping for a peak on Sunday so we can have Saturday off x

Help me!!! Casually googling: hook effect, bfn at 14dpo chances of still being pregnant... Argh. I feel off, no sign of AF but all the tests are as white as white can be. Seriously kidding myself on. Sorry just need some sense talked into me 🤪

@ange211 oh shit! I wish I hadn't googled this now hahaha!

I don't want to sound negative, because we all need encouragemenr. But if you have been testing for a few days, you maybe would have got a faint positive on a FRER before the high levels of HGC kicked in and caused the hook effect? ORRRR maybe you are getting a negative because you ovulated/implanted late and therefore not enough hormone to be detedted yet?

I got a very faint (but obvious) positive at 5+3 weeks last time and doubt it would have been positive at 14DPO so there is still hope.

What CD are you on? How long are your cycles normally?

@beau20 no honestly I need realism at this point. FFS I should know better. I got a really faint line on an Asda test a few days ago which I'm still convinced was just an evap as it was grey rather than pink but I guess my crazy brain is thinking what if it wasn't 😱 I'm defo on the right thread 😂

Cd29 I'm normally 28-30 I've had a couple of 35 dayers and but not recently.

@Ange211 Hmmmm it's still perfectly possible!! I'd wait 2 more days and test again. Eurghhh I'm not a fan of the asda tests either, I got a faint positive when I first started TTC and I deffo wasn't pregnant. The asda test was also the one I got the faint positives at 5+3 weeks.

@Ange211 I did an IC at 6DPO. 😬🤦🏼‍♀️ You're deffo not alone!! 😂😂
I knew I hadn't caught it last cycle but because AF was so late I spent a fortune on FRER's convinced it was just a late implantation 🙁 I think we're allowed a bit of false hope, gets us through the day to day sometimes xx

Thanks @beau20 @mumofboys17 it's nice to know I'm not alone ❤️