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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Anyone else on the waiting bench of february?

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Babydancing2020 · 06/02/2020 21:38

Hi mums(to be)
Im new here,been trying to conceive since september 2019..
never thought it wud take longer than a month(how stupid of me,its because i got pregnant of my 1st child after one month)
Anyone else joining me on the waiting binch im due feb 12 or 13th.
Baby dust to all of u x

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user1469567046 · 15/02/2020 12:54

I'm out. Af has made her arrival known 😣

Babydancing2020 · 15/02/2020 13:01

Ughh big hugs to you may next month be the month!!

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user1469567046 · 15/02/2020 15:34

@Babydancing2020 thank you. I'm not feeling too bad about it, just trying to think of the positives. May not be feeling so positive a few months down the line! How are you?

calimommy · 15/02/2020 15:45

Sorry to hear that @user1469567046. I think what makes it worse is how crumby you feel from AF on top of the disappointment! A double hit. Xxx

Babydancing2020 · 15/02/2020 16:06

@user1469567046 wish I could think like that... im 4 days late still bfn

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Blackbelt · 15/02/2020 16:22

How is everyone?
I was silly and took a test last night about 1am?! Couldnt sleep so I just did that 🙄
I was 5 DPO. Never done a test so early, then went on YouTube and looked at loads of line progression videos... seemed that most people start showing on the FRER at 11/12 DPO.
I've given up thinking I'm pregnant even though I still have time as such.

I've lost track of everyone's DPOs! @babydancing2020 can't believe you're 4 days late but nothing. Feel for you 💗

@user1469567046 so sorry, do something nice for yourself x

Adrianoska · 15/02/2020 17:14

@Blackbelt, you are crazy, hahha! What did you expect? But. I get. It. 🤣 I am also 5 dpo and keep going to the bathroom with a massive urge to test 😂😂😂😂 might as well dip it in my cuppa though. Oh my god. Wd are losing it, girls. 💕💕💕😘

Babydancing2020 · 15/02/2020 21:33

Hey lovely ladiess,how are you all doing?
Any newss? Any symptomsss?
Af this hasnt showed its ugly face from my side and im 4 days late still bfn tests so will see...
Btw anyone interested in a TTC journey whatsapp group?

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Ylladyoll · 15/02/2020 21:56

I'm still 9 days late, no symptoms and cramping stopped 3 days ago,I stopped taking pregnacare vits after reading that they lengthened cycle, last BFN was tuesday 5 days late, decided not to take anymore tests and wait until AF comes if not by 5the March I will go to docs for blood test xx

Adrianoska · 15/02/2020 22:19

@Babydancing2020 i am! 🙏🏻

Omg this is killing me

Now i am around 5 /6 days PO... And i am symptom spotting like a detective 😂 And I KNOW it is too early! Ffs.

Yes... Pregnacare did prolong my cycles, I couldn't believe it! But now i am taking Proceive max (nasty shit) and i think i am back to normal...

I think I can test on the 221st....but with my two other kids I didn't get a positive line until well aftet missed periods!

Good luck everyone ❤️

Ylladyoll · 15/02/2020 22:36

@Adrianoska how long did it prolong your cycle and when did they go back to normal? I only took the vits for 20days I think

Adrianoska · 15/02/2020 22:51

I started taking them just before my period and my next period was 6 days late! It gave me terrible hope... And i even felt pregnant. On the second cycle I stopped midway and my pwriod arrived 3 days earlier! This cycle i switched to Proceive max...
It could have been pregnacare conception or my crazy mind messing up my body or maybe i am less regular than before...? Not sure.
So many women had the samw prób with pregnacare... I just couldn't believe it!
How long have you been trying for? X

Ylladyoll · 15/02/2020 22:58

Not really trying as nearly 44 just not using any precautions xx it's why I'm not convinced I'm pregnant so gonna wait it out til 5th march if I dont get a period will see doctors :) x

Babydancing2020 · 15/02/2020 23:00

@Adrianoska Bloooddyyy hell are u seriousssss!!!!
I started taking pregnacare now for a week!!!!! Does that mean my period is late because of that?? And what do u recommend? Shud i stop taking it or?

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Ylladyoll · 15/02/2020 23:37

I stopped taking them, I had BFN on two neg on frer last tuesday, so I stopped taking them on wed, and hoping the period comes.

Adrianoska · 15/02/2020 23:52

@Babydancing2020, I too couldn't believe it. I saw many reviews saying this before i started but I thought hey ho, it's just vitamins!
And then 6 days late... I was so certain its a baby!
I don't know what to recommend... I think it really probably doesn't matter much.... Also i think after a month or two things stabilise themselves.
I am now drinking Proceive Max and why wouldn't this make things longer if it has twice as much of everything? I don't know.

How are you doing? X

Babydancing2020 · 16/02/2020 00:15

@Adrianoska shit hey everytime i think im doing the right thing to finally conceive i end up effing it up for my self and my cycle... i actually started to think i might be pregnant but after i read this and all my bfn i just think im gonna be late cuz of the vitaminsss:(
Im alrightt tho got sore boobss and crazy cramping on and off so will see. Done a digital test today said not pregnant so :s
How are you?

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Babydancing2020 · 16/02/2020 00:16

@Adrianoska btw ive only been taking the vitamins for a week now,do u think it has that quick of an impact on my cycle or could i still hope? XD

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Adrianoska · 16/02/2020 02:21

There is always a hope until the freaking red monster arrives...
I am not an expert but i was so surprised that after just only a few weeks my cycle was so much longer
.. Such a terrible feeling!
But you are doing the right thing. Indeed i read one study proving that taking comprehensive preconception supplements does increase the chances of getting pregnant.😁
I am ok... Thank you. I am so hoping this month..
I am now getting sore boobs and feel bloated but that could be anything... I don't know anymore.. I will be testing in 6 or 8 days perhaps...
I had loads of sex, i drunk proceive max and i used conceive plus lube this month. 👌🏼🙏🏻😊
I am 36 so I am slightly panicking...
My husband really wants a baby... I have two from a previous marriage but I too am desperate for one more.
Keep us updated. I didn't get a positive test until well afyer i missed my period with both of my kids.
Baby hugs 💕💕💕

Babydancing2020 · 16/02/2020 07:16

@Adrianoska i really hope this is your month! Fingers and toes crossed for you.
Im 22 and I already have a son thats almost 3 years. It never took me this long to conceive with my son thats why im panicking I feel like maybe something is wrong with me. I was 4 days late with my son when I testes bfp and it was soooo obvious the positive .
This is month 7 were trying and the wish for a baby is enormous and my partner keeps telling me that he cant wait to have another baby which makes me want it even more. I know 22 is still young but why so long trying and still not conceived...
Im starting to think somethings wrong with me...or am i just being impatient?
And honestly we have bare sex man like a lot which even confuses me more.
I just took another cheapie test (starting to feel like a pee on a stick addict omdz) and obviously negative again..still feeling the same. Very sore boobs and cramping on and off:s
Ah well im just gonna go to bed and try get some sleep...
Baby hugs♡♡♡

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Ylladyoll · 16/02/2020 07:22

Still nothing here 10 days late urghhh no symptoms at all now cramping stopped Wednesday

Adrianoska · 16/02/2020 16:01

Isn't it frustrating...
I am obsessed. All. I can think about is fertility and babies. Omg...

I am only 6 or 7 dpo, but I am already sad i don't have any symptoms...! Too early! Ffs! I keep having tp remind myself this.

How are you all doing? Where is everyone in their journey?

Xxx

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Babydancing2020 · 16/02/2020 16:28

@Adrianoska i know right believe me u cant be worst than I am. I actually watch live birth on youtube and cry when the baby is delivered and I imagine it is me. I got it all figured out what stroller i want this time what car seat baby room crib u name it and I already figured it out.
I felt like testing again but im not gonna do it i probs will have another bfn

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Adrianoska · 16/02/2020 17:40

Really? Hahah. Brilliant! You are still so young...

But.
I remember when i was your age and trying for my first baby.. I went to my gp after 6 months of TTC and she asked me a few questions and laughed... She said i will be ok. And i was pregnant within next couple of months. But i did force my then husband to test his sperm etc. I was obsessed.

Now i am not only obsessed but also quite scared because of my age and the pressure. I really want to get pregnant.

Today i feel like i might be though! Oh how long it takes....

Xxx

Babydancing2020 · 16/02/2020 17:43

@Adrianoska am i going fckng crazy or is there like the faintest line ever like im going crazy...

Anyone else on the waiting bench of february?

Anyone else on the waiting bench of february?

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