Anyone else on the waiting bench of february?

[Babydancing2020]

Hi mums(to be)
Im new here,been trying to conceive since september 2019..
never thought it wud take longer than a month(how stupid of me,its because i got pregnant of my 1st child after one month)
Anyone else joining me on the waiting binch im due feb 12 or 13th.
Baby dust to all of u x

[Babydancing2020]

@user1469567046 ahh its fine i already expected it its just tht little bit of hope tht made me do the test anyways.
I feel a bit tired todayy like I just wanna sleep the whole day literally no energy i dont know why probably my period.
Other thn that the cramps they come and go its not constant so will just have to wait innit.
This month is deffo not mine i hope you'll have a bfp soon!!
How are you tho how are you feeling.
And the waiting is horrible i know wish you a (positive) valentines day;)

[Blackbelt]

@calimommy come join our thread, I think it's got the terms 3 DPO and TWW in the title x

[meemooxxx]

Hey this is my first reply on here. Just trying to find me feet on the forum. I am due on my period on the 27th of February and have just finished ovulation. Really hoping it's worked. Been trying since November xxx

[user1469567046]

@Babydancing2020 tiredness could be a sign of either... That's the cruelest part I think that symptoms could literally be for a bfn or a bfp.
I'm feeling ok, haven't had any af symptoms , usually get really bad skin and bad moods before hand but none of that. Been fluctuating between appetite and cm is still quite present when it isn't usually.
Argh I don't know 🤣 hate symptom spotting but can't help it.

[Blackbelt]

Welcome @meemooxxx I’m new here too!

So true that’s is cruel that symptoms are the same whether it’s period or pregnancy 🙄

I’m trying not to symptom check for at least a week! Due 23rd ... somehow feelings positive the month as I know we did it when I was ovulating! Fingers crossed xx

[user1469567046]

Hi @Blackbelt 🙋
Good luck 😊😊

[Sunshine1606]

Hey ladies,

Did a frer from Amazon last night and my maybe if cheapie lines have become definite lines.

After months of waiting/ hoping and a series of Mumsnet name changes, it's finally happening.

I have everything crossed for everyone on this month's bench xx

[2020wish]

Congrats!!!!!

[HighlandMam1]

Congratulations @Sunshine1606 🤰🏻🤱🏼🎉🎊

[Adrianoska]

@Sunshine1606 🎊🎊🎊🎊❤️

Tell us your stats please, how long, how often, what did you drink, eat, swallow 😜, and what did you wear and read 🤣🤣and how old are you?

I am so glad for you 😻

[user1469567046]

@Sunshine1606 congratulations!! 🤰👶 So happy for you xx

[Babydancing2020]

@Sunshine1606 Congratulationssss!!!! Such amazingg newsss,so happy for you

[Blackbelt]

@Sunshine1606 yippee! Congratulations :) x

@Adrianoska lol found this very funny!

[courtney229]

So after AF being 2days late which is the first time it has ever been late I honestly thought this was it but I've woken up this morning with horriable pains and the Witch has arrived, I struggle to understand why it's takes so long sometimes when all I hear is people accidentally falling pregnant whilst on birth control and the rest. Just got to keep going I just tell myself it can't be the right time yet for whatever reason it's not happening it must be for the best! Now it's just the awful part telling my partner AF has arrived, he always seems so disappointed.
Baby dust to everyone else still waiting on the bench for feb

[Babydancing2020]

Since my period still hasnt come and my cramps dissapeared i thought let me do another test.
And it came out bfn obvs,i feel like theres always gonna be a negative..
Im just waiting on my period now...and I feel like Im done.
Like i just feel empty and done,i tried everything for 7 cycles and it hasnt happened yet and it will happen when the time is right but still..
I decided to throw away all my cheapie tests and delete my fertility tracker and just give up and forget about it.
I'll continue taking my vitamins but thats it it has controlled my life and I know many women go through harder times and I really respect them and u guys.
But I feel like its okay now to just let it go and let it happen whenever it happens..
I just wanna wake up one day and think oh i missed my period lets try a test and it acc turns out to be positive. Instead of the tww and early testing and symptom spotting and stressing im so tired of it.
Baby dust to all of u
Im out xx

[calimommy]

@Babydancing2020 I'm
Sorry you are feeling so low. It is such a difficult time. We spend our whole teenage years thinking that if we look sideways at a guy we will get pregnant. And sometimes it works like that and other times it doesn't. I find that the days are so slow when I'm counting g them. It's an awful way to wish your life away. Take some
Time for yourself. Xxx

[Blackbelt]

@babydancing2020

Felt exactly like that last week and I dont blame you. It’s exhausting and takes over your life! Maybe that’s not such a bad idea to take a break from it all
Sending hugs xxx

[Blackbelt]

@courtney229

Sorry to hear that :(
I also hate saying out loud. Glad you seem in ok spirits to try again next month x

[user1469567046]

@Babydancing2020 big bloody hugs to you! It is crap when it's another month and another bfn. Not a bad idea to delete all the trackers etc as I agree with you it is just torture.

[butterflylove81]

Hey xxx

I got these this morning have cried all day because I thought I wasn't this month

[butterflylove81]

Oh babydancing I'm so sorry I've just read your post my heart goes out to you stay positive and don't give up faith but may be try to relax each month maybe don't track and have fun and just see xxxx

[Adrianoska]

@butterflylove81, congratulations 🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊

How happy you must be!
And tell me your statistics? Everything 😊 how long for did you try, what did you do, what did you eat and what did drink 😂 how old a are you and everything ❤️❤️❤️

Well done!
Happy valentines day 💕

[user1469567046]

@butterflylove81 congratulations!! I haven't tested yet I am desperately trying to hold out. Af is due tomorrow and I honestly don't know which way it is going to go. I will probably crumble tomorrow if nothing and test.

[Adrianoska]

Any news? X

[Babydancing2020]

Heyy, how is everyone
I saw some nice tests congratsss!
I tried to take some time for myself which is even harder thn tracking everything..
Im currently 4 days late and no sign of a period...still cramping and still bfn!
Im starting to think tht maca powder screwed my cycle up....but i only took it for 4 days thn I stopped...