TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!

[Donnat89]

Hi all ,

I want some company .... currently in my 10 month of TTC after a miscarriage last March at 14 weeks

Due to ovulate around the 10th so my TWW will start around the 11th

Anyone else in the same boat ? Let's keep each other company

Ps I need support not to test early as drove myself mad last month !

Xxx

@Adrianoska my partner is the same after everything we went through last month my partner doesn't want to know when I'm doing tests as it break his heart

He's happy to talk about how I feel etc just not about the testing . I think we forget that men feel the disappointment too xxxx

@Adrianoska I've been cramping all evening and been hoping it's a sign. I'll test on Saturday too though :)

Omg I want to test now 😑😑😑

Soooo I got my faint bfp on 3 tests this morning (5 days past embryo transfer/ 10dpo)!! I’m currently holding so I can do a SMU test in an hour :)
Weirdly this morning my face is swollen and I look and feel asleep/if I could get into bed now and sleep for a year. Don’t know if it’s just the shock of getting a bfp or if it’s a symptom!

@Mischali AWWWWW that's amazing ! Congrats hun !

I tested again 11DPO BFN again so pretty certain I'm out this month . Not going to test anymore .
If AF doesn't arrive Tuesday I will test then

Good luck to those still waiting to test xxxxx

What lovely news @mischali!
I agree with you @donnat89 about only now being aware of all of these symptoms. I was adamant the first few cycles this time that spotting and nausea and sore nipples were brand new, got totally over excited and then bfns. The only symptom I know I had pregnant was sore heavy boobs which I havnt had yet so I'm trying to ignore everything else as half must be psychological (and half my body just torturing me!)
Have you got anything nice for the weekend planned?

@Mischali congratulations!!

@Adrianoska I caved and tested this morning - 10 DPO and got a BFN. Pretty sure it won't be changing but might take another test this weekend just to make sure.

@Sammyclaire22 it's horrible isn't it , I've just told myself when I do get my BFP will be the month I have no symptoms at all so I'm trying to teach myself to ignore everything else and not think about them too much

Nope nothing planned taking the kids bowling and that is it ! Might start to re decorate my living room as anything to keep busy would be good right now !!

How about you ?

@Juno231 sorry to hear that , it's crap isn't it even when you do expect it ?

I've told myself not testin unless AF doesn't come . Back ache seems to have eased of for me today as has the mild cramping I had but again I don't know what I feel and what I don't these days so just trying to ignore it all .

I really need to stop googling negative at 11 DPO then positive 🤣🤣🤣 it's not helping

I'm just gonna try look forward to next month ! Xxx

Oh god...
I caved in last night and of course it was negative.
Then this morning I didn't have any faith, didn't test...
Now i feel devastated even tho I might still be in... Will test tomorrow morning perhaps (11dpo)
How are you.?

I feel sad

Xxx

@Adrianoska it's still early so you may get
Your BFP yet , I've (probably unwisely) been reading threads about women who had BFN on 11.12 even 13 DPO but wound up with a positive once AF was due . So truly you are not out until AF shows .

I am not going to text anymore until AF is due if AF DOESNT not come I will then test . As I'm
Done driving myself mad and what will be will be

As hard as it is just try to relax xxxx

You are right...
I had cramps all day yesterday, I am still hoping those were the implantation (9dpo). Today i have nothing apart from a bad start of the day with my husband...
And I just want to cry.
I keep imagining how wonderful would it be to get bfp... X

@Mischali congratulations 🥳 how exciting. So nice to see people getting their bfp..

Like everyone else I've tested again and it's negative so therefore I am not (NOT) testing until af is here which should be the 27th..
It's disappointing..
@Donnat89 I know what you mean about symptoms so I'm going to write them all down in a diary so I know for next month..even spotted some blue veins on my boobs but they could have always just been there but never noticed..
Never thought I had any symptoms prior to af coming apart from emotional a few days before and cramps on the day of af..
Will help for next month so I don't get my hopes up.
But now off I go and google neg at 10/11dpo to go on to get a bfp lol 😂

@pineapple2 I have done the same thing has given me some hope

Like you I never Remember feeling this awful before AF until I started TTC so I'm
Convinced it's all in my head like
You at worst I would be a bit emotional day or 2 before and cramping the day before but not a weeks worth of it so I'm gonna try ignore symptoms from now on

My back aches and mild cramps seem to have gone today for now but could appear later ! We shall see! AF due 25 if it doesn't arrive I will test again . But not going to bother before that xxx

@Adrianoska try to stay positive today , if cramping has gone could be a good sign maybe try hold
Of testing until AF is due ? X

@Adrianoska I has cramps all of last evening and night actually! And my boobs were swollen. I'm not giving up until AF rears her ugly head. One of my friends tested negative on 13 DPO only to get a BFP two days later so there's hope :)

❤️❤️❤️
Yes I am trying to stay positive.
I have no symptoms now...
I will wait to test maybe tomorrow or maybe even on Sunday? I don't know...
The only thing is I am so tearful. But that could be simply this crazy baby run.

Much love, girls...
X

Hi everyone. I really relate to the struggles with uncertainty. This morning at 10 dpo I got a significant bbt drop and a negative test. I have all the symptoms of an imminent AF but am not due until Sun/Mon and can't stop myself swinging between she's on her way and I'm out, and hoping maybe my temp will be high again tomorrow and this is an implantation drop which would explain the negative test and give me a bfp tomorrow. It really feels like AF but everyone says the cramps are similar? I have back pain and a heavy feeling in my uterus. I know I just have to wait but it's maddening having that tiny glimmer of hope!

I keep checking my calendar and counting dpos over and over. Still i think I am on the 10th one...
I feel some small cramping again.
Oh my god. I can't wait to one day have bfp... Please universe 🙏🏻💕

@AsSurprisedAsYouAre my temps have been the same, big drop on 6dpo and down again 7dpo today with spotting yesterday too. Ive started with a cold & didnt get a good nights sleep last night.
Im going to track bbt again tomorrow then leave it till AF turns up, it just stresses me out too much.

@Mischali - omg congrats!!!! ☺️
@rachelrainbow - definitely see a line! Have you tested again yet or are you gonna do the impossible now and wait....? 😃

I’ve been holding strong with not testing, but have been going a bit nuts with symptom spotting. I just feel so off this month and have been experiencing things I don’t normally leading up to AF. I may be coming down with a cold so maybe that’s unrelated and the actual cause of my symptoms who tf knows.

11dpo today...almost there. 🤞🏾

Guys! Guys...
I had some brownish discharge just now... 10dpo
Never happened before? Is that implantation?
X

@adrianoska possibly.... it's certainly a hopeful sign. I had it with my 1st baby and got a bfp the next day. But- i also had it last month and nothing came of it (bar a ridiculous number of poas and time spent squinting) really hope it's a good sign for you x

I will test in the morning.
Seriously my boobs are killing now. Could be all in my head i know.

Xxx

Looks like it is just AF afterall... 😔😢😢😢

Why are my cycles so short? Like only 24 days? Use to it was more like 29...

I only ovulated 11 days ago!

Ffs.

I can't stop crying 😭

@Adrianoska I'm so sorry for you. Stay positive and onto the next round. It will happen for you.

Congratulations to everyone who's got their BFPs
AF due today, no signs or symptoms yet so keeping everything crossed. xxxx