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TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!

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Donnat89 · 04/02/2020 19:24

Hi all ,

I want some company .... currently in my 10 month of TTC after a miscarriage last March at 14 weeks

Due to ovulate around the 10th so my TWW will start around the 11th

Anyone else in the same boat ? Let's keep each other company

Ps I need support not to test early as drove myself mad last month !

Xxx

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MrsChicken89 · 20/02/2020 07:57

Im 6dpo and my temp had a huge drop this morning from 37 to 36.39. Near enough back to the coverline.
Can getting a cold drop your temp?
Trying to stay positive!

Donnat89 · 20/02/2020 08:26

@Pomeranian I'm not sure tbh , I'm not the best with spotting lines

I am 10dpo and caved and tested this morning I got a BFN on one step strip and FRER so I'm sure I'm out this month !

Good luck to you all waiting to test .

I hope you get your BFP . Xxx

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Pomeranian · 20/02/2020 08:30

@Donnat89
Oh no, when is AF due?
I've got everything crossed but trying not to get too stressed about it. Xx

Sammyclaire22 · 20/02/2020 08:34

I've had big drops in about half of my charts @mrschicken89 for no obvious reason- there is info saying it can be implantation but never has been for me! But it might be a good sign or could just be your cold. Do you take it orally? If you are mouth breathing due to being stuffy that might have caused it.

Try not to stress @adrianoska, it's ok to have bad days and feel like giving up but it's really worth persevering. We tried for 12 long months for our first then it was ectopic so I thought that was me barren for life but then I got pregnant again the next cycle and looking back now it feels like it all flew by. I'm on cycle 5 of ttc number 2 now and last month really struggled with it all. But this month I'm a lot calmer. Just be kind to yourself and see if there are habits you do that don't help. I used to get frer in ready then caved and tested early, then would obsess over evap lines. This month I've subscribed to delivery so can't have them early and stopped using opks and I think it's really helped. I still bbt but that's done within seconds of waking then I can try and keep busy the rest of the day.

Sammyclaire22 · 20/02/2020 08:36

@donna89 it's still early and there was a chart floating about that said afternoon urine is better around 11dpo I think. But implantation might not have even happened yet so try not to stress- it's not over until AF arrives!

Donnat89 · 20/02/2020 08:49

@Sammyclaire22 thank you I know that's true I'm due on 25th so 5 days to go as my cycle is usually 27 days but can be a day or so either side .

I'm not gonna stress about it and may test test in a couple days closer to when AF is due .

I'm sure AF is on her way had dull back ache for days which is a sign of AF for me . Had a few niggly pains in either side which I haven't had before that I can remember but could be one of them things

Xxxxx

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Mischali · 20/02/2020 08:56

@pineapple2, @Adrianoska @Pomeranian I’m literally laughing out loud at your early testing posts... I also tested yesterday 3dp5dt (8 dpo) with a two hour hold just because I HAD TO!! Of course it was negative, so was this morning’s test! I keep googling “how soon did you get your bfp with ivf”. All I need to do is wait a few more days but nooooo I have to pee my money away 😂😂😁😁. Will test again tonight, tomorrow am, etc! My blood test is scheduled for Monday.

Mischali · 20/02/2020 09:01

Oh and re symptoms... for me personally the most symptoms I got was every single month trying naturally. My previous successful ivf I had bloating from my distended ovaries & progesterone supplements, that’s IT. I didn’t believe I was pregnant until I saw the u/s. Same this time. The ivf drugs made me miserable but since the embryo was transferred I feel nothing but bloating, slightly sore boobs and sore ovaries- all from the procedures and the progesterone. So in my case the decrease in progesterone after 7dpo ttc naturally, caused all my tww symptoms. On progesterone supplements I feel great physically. Weird right.

Adrianoska · 20/02/2020 11:23

I am at work, stroking my tummy and boobs in a lecture theatre! Ffs.
I swear I felt this shsrp pain of implantation, I did feel this when i got pregnant before with my second child.. Obviously all i want to do now is to neglect my students and run to the pharmacy. Aaaahhhh! Too early! And probably all in my head 😢
I am going mad xxx

Juno231 · 20/02/2020 12:05

@Donnat89 I'm due 25th as well and this wait is doing my head in. I think I'll test on Saturday cause I won't be able to wait any longer!

rachelrainbow · 20/02/2020 12:10

I’m due on in 23rd Feb. Feeling generally a little bit crap and tired. I’m officially 11 dpo today and got the faintest line on a frer. I’m the same- sat at work, constantly checking if my boobs are sore 😬.

TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!
60sPony · 20/02/2020 12:23

Hello, can I join... TTC #2 and think I ovulated around the 11th. Trying to wait another week before I test but starting to feel quite tempted.
We are trying to swing for a girl for our first few months of trying so only had sex up to four days before ovulation so thinking it will be unlikely to get a BFP this month.

@rachelrainbow that looks very positive to me - congrats!

Adrianoska · 20/02/2020 12:40

Omg that looks positive!!!

Send me all your baby magic. What did you do? Eat? Read? How often? How long for? I need all the stats please 😊🙏🏻😂

Donnat89 · 20/02/2020 12:46

@rachelrainbow looks great ! congrats

@Juno231 I feel
So crap getting BFN this morning at 10DPO hasn't helped I will test again tomorrow but I think I'm out . I hate this wait too it's soo horrible and make me feel worse just wish AF would come now if it's going to anyway ! Xxxx

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Juno231 · 20/02/2020 13:53

@Donnat89 oh hang on - I ovulated on the 11th but count today as 9DPO! As it's days POST ovulation or have I been counting this all wrong? Hopefully you're in the wrong so you were clearly too early to be testing today already 😁. Fingers crossed for a BFP at the weekend!

Donnat89 · 20/02/2020 14:19

@Juno231 no you are right but my cycles are 27 days . I ovulated on the 10th AF due the 25th . I don't do OPKS so I'm just going by my app and usually cycle days and CM so pretty certain it's right . Xxx

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LRHR · 20/02/2020 14:54

Hi Everyone, I'm currently 12dpo, AF is due on Saturday. Tested BFN this am.

Last month I was spotting 4 days before AF and was convinced it was IB but unfortunately not.
This time no spotting, no CM, sore nipples (feel almost bruised) the biggest most painful spots on my chin and jawline and switching and changing between constipated and diarrhoea (sorry tmi)

Crossing everything and going to avoid testing until next week if AF doesn't visit.
Wishing you all the best of luck xxx

LRHR · 20/02/2020 15:02

@Donnat89 Sorry to hear about your miscarriage ❤️ sending love
@pineapple2 I'm 29 and ttc baby #3 but all the tracking is completely new to me as my other 2 just happened.
I'm taking pregnacare prenatal vitamins and also follow a healthy diet.
@rachelrainbow looks like a positive ❤️

Donnat89 · 20/02/2020 16:08

@LRHR welcome to the nut house hope you get your BFP !

I've started to get period like cramping along with back ache so I'm almost certain I'm due on !

Will have to try again next month xxx

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pineapple2 · 20/02/2020 16:22

@Mischali I'm the same googling everything. I went on another thread on mumsnet and a poster out she tested at 9dpo was negative but went on to test positive within a few days. It all gives hope.

@Adrianoska lol your post made me laugh. I'm
The same though squeezing boobs together every so often but no aches, pains nothing.

@Donnat89 it's not over till the little witch comes..I swear I'll be getting a puppy if I'm not pregnant this month 😂😂 but like you I think I'm out too so we can start again next cycle and go through it together..

@LRHR ive been taking vitamins too and DH has been taking wellman conception too but I have to remind him to take them arghh
Used preseed too..even fertility doctor sent me a lovely little stork with baby charm for ordering preseed and opks from them which I thought was a lovely gesture and really hoping it's going to bring me some luck

pineapple2 · 20/02/2020 16:27

@rachelrainbow looks like a positive to me..congratulations...hope we all get our bfp soon eeek

Donnat89 · 20/02/2020 17:04

@LRHR yes you are right and I would feel hopeful still if I didn't feel so crap , but because I do I just know it's not my month ! Yes the sooner AF arrives the sooner I can move on and these stupid AF hormones can go away !!

Yes I have read threads about people having a neg at 9/10
DPO then had a positive a few days later so there is always hope but I think you have to go by what you feel sometimes too . Argh who knows ! Xxxx

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Donnat89 · 20/02/2020 17:05

Sorry @LRHR my last post was
Meant for @pineapple2

I'm so not with it this afternoon , I just want to nap and wake up and AF Be
Over 😟

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Donnat89 · 20/02/2020 20:15

Also anyone else find that before they started TTC they never really took notice of their AF symptoms ? I've been Thinking about this today I never recalled feeling this crappy a week before AF before I started TTC and wonder if it's because I symptom spot now ?

Like at worst I wold have mild cramps a day or so before but never felt this crap a week before and only seems I have noticed all this only since TTC ? Xxx

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Adrianoska · 20/02/2020 21:18

I bought more tests... I hope to last untill 11dpo (Saturday) but probably will not... 😟

I had odd cramping all day. But i can't trust a word that comes oit of my mouth any more.

My husband said to stop mentioning it to him altogether as it breaks his heart. Ffs

I am going mad.

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