TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!

[Donnat89]

Hi all ,

I want some company .... currently in my 10 month of TTC after a miscarriage last March at 14 weeks

Due to ovulate around the 10th so my TWW will start around the 11th

Anyone else in the same boat ? Let's keep each other company

Ps I need support not to test early as drove myself mad last month !

Xxx

@Skyla01 tbh it's very much in its infancy so I wouldn't recommend it as a replacement for bbt, I just track it for a bit of fun and there's always a thread on this forum with others that do the same. I use a fitbit and wear it overnight :)

@MrsEmilyB oh its the same here! Some days I'm super positive and others then I'm convinced its not happening this month either! I'm a bit all over the place today, as I had mentioned previously I don't use anything only the app on my phone and tried to pay attention to CM this month. Thought I had some EWCM before what my app was saying was ovulation so thought I was on track. Now I'm not sure, I feel like I have O pains in my left pelvic area today and a bit of CM thats (TMI) white (ish and creamy) but I am CD18 today. I know its possible to O that late in a cycle but last time I got pregnant it wasn't that late! So now I don't know if I am actually 5DPO or not!!
Is nothing happens this month then next month I am definitely using OPKs or BBT methods to track it!
We have DDT lots in the last week and a half and will continue tonight and every other day to hope we are covered but who knows! Ha ha!
Sorry for the long post I am just confused. xx

@Skyla01 last time I got pregnant I had broken my phone and it was off being repaired I didn't bother download the apps I use on the spare , so had no idea when I was Ovulating or when AF was due , when I did test I was a week late and got a BFP .

I do wish I could switch off from TTC as I think i would find it less stressful , but I can't

I have bought Some FRER to use tomorrow morning I will be 10DPO then I'm hoping for the best but fully expecting a BFN X

@Ivoryjane - it's so hard not to be all over the place! It's our first cycle, so I thought I'd be super chilled but I'm just not even 😂

In terms of CM, fertile is usually clear or slightly cloudy, slippy, stretchy and often in abundance! Thicker and sticky is usually non-fertile and there's a lot less.

I've been having O pains since 7dpo! I'm hoping it could be a sign of implantation rather than AF being mean. Maybe I'm just hyper aware? I never cramp pre-Flo. Maybe implantation pains for you too?! Is your cycle regular?

I'm wishing the next 2 days away so I can do a FRER

@Donnat89 I'm determined to hold off until 11dpo Saturday! But I've almost caved so many times today!

How accurate are FRER's at 10/11 days?

@MrsEmilyB I'm not sure , I mean it depends on if you've even implanted yet ?

I'm gonna try one tomorrow morning and then will prob wait until next week before I do another xx

Got a spot brewing on my chin which always pops up for AF. RHR remains low and my cervix is now low and firm so I think that means I'm out this month! Feel like I'm just waiting for AF to start so I can start afresh.

I've had weird shooting pains today on and off not sure if it's a good or bad thing or even just nothing ?

Backache hasn't got worse either and it usually does by now in fact I can barley feel it just odd twinges here and there

Argh I hate this waiting xx

Thanks @MrsEmilyB maybe its just regular CM then! Ahh such a minefield all this TTC!!

I have pains on my left side but tbh I think they come and go throughout my cycle. I did have pains in my tummy earlier but as someone posted yday perhaps its just gas! I think I will still go with being 5DPO and see where that leads me!
I agree @Donnat89 I hate all this waiting too! But I know I cant test for ages yet so I'm going to try ignore it over the weekend and work will be crazy next week so will hopefully keep me busy albeit not too stressed if possible!

@Ivoryjane exactly I'm
Going with gas at the moment , I can start testing tomorrow but I am
Expecting a BFN at 10 DPO I will then most likely test on Sunday at 12 DPO then wait and see if AF comes before I test again

This will all depends if I get More AF like symptoms though ... if I do I won't bother testing unless AF DOESNT SHOW .

We shall see xx

@Donnat89 ya I think that is a good way to go about it. I'm going to try and wait as long as I can. And if I start to get AF symptoms I may just leave it! Although I am not sure if I even get the same symptoms every month!! Ha ha! Oh well we shall wait and see!
Very best of luck testing tomo really hoping you get your BFP but its still early at 10DPO so fingers crossed over the coming days. xx

@Ivoryjane i think so , my symptoms are pretty much the same every month so I generally know what I'm looking for but I've also seen people get all their AF symptoms and still get BFP so you really can't know until AF shows really .

I have my fingers crossed for you too ! X

@Donnat89 ya it really is so hard- symptoms no symptoms- I think until you either get the BFP and/or miss your period there is always some doubt in my little head! Ha ha!
Thank you xx

@Ivoryjane I completely agree it's a waiting game really ! I haven't got much longer to wait so I'm hoping it goes quickly now . Sitting tight hoping for the best x

Good morning Ladies ❤️

@Donnat89 did you do a test? My fingers are crossed for you.

DH and I DTD this morning and I had some spotting afterwards. This can happen near AF and I'm due Monday so I'm guessing that's me out of luck this month 😭 I'll wait and see

Well I think that's me out! Got bright red blood when I went for my FMU this morning so looks like AF showed up on CD25 this month. @Adrianoska looks like I'll be joining you on the May bus!

@MrsEmilyB

I'm
Confused I had BFN on FRER and I think a Vvvfl on IC I've attached photos not sure if I'm swing things

Will retest on Sunday to see if anything changes .

Xx

@Donnat89 I think I see a very faint line on the IC too! Fingers crossed for you. Please keep me updated!!!

@MrsEmilyB it's defo there , can still see it now , but I'm thinking might be an Evap as BFN on FRER and they are more reliable will test again on Sunday but think it will be BFN

IVe got lots of left sided pain today and backache is quite bad so I'm not hopeful

Will keep your guys updated xx

@Donnat89 I had a BFN on my FRER too. Maybe in a few days 🤞

@MrsEmilyB let's hope soo !

Back ache seems worse
Today so I'm not feeling helpful ! X

I hate super faint lines! I'm like you @donnat89 and swing positive to hopeless so often test just to shut my head up for 24 hours but then faint lines screw me even more! I can see a faint line too so you arnt imagining it, really hope it's a good sign for you. X

@Sammyclaire22 they drive me mad I've had them a few times on FRER but not the ICS , but who knows . All I can do is re- test in a couple days but yes do swing from being really Positive to being negative again , I'm feeling lest positive this afternoon I don't know why I just do . It's not nice .

I am fully expecting another BFN but want it over with so I can move on .

Only a few more days to go I suppose !

Good luck everyone xxx

@Donnat89 oh fingers still crossed for you. I can see a faint line there too so it's not over yet. But I totally get what you mean! I think we are all fairly the same some moments really positive and in one breath I could be negative about it. My hopes to stay calm over the weekend probably aren't going to ring true, I feel so anxious and this wait is torture!
@MrsEmilyB its still a possibility for you too- fingers crossed ladies and for everyone else too
xx

@Sammyclaire22 @Donnat89 I feel the same as both of you! A few days ago I was so positive and today and yesterday I've felt like crying 😭