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TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!

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Donnat89 · 04/02/2020 19:24

Hi all ,

I want some company .... currently in my 10 month of TTC after a miscarriage last March at 14 weeks

Due to ovulate around the 10th so my TWW will start around the 11th

Anyone else in the same boat ? Let's keep each other company

Ps I need support not to test early as drove myself mad last month !

Xxx

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Juno231 · 24/03/2020 10:25

Well AF just arrived very suddenly! On one hand I'm sad as I was hoping this was it but on the other I'm relieved that I didn't just skip a period! Makes me think I ovulated much later than I thought so need to carry on with the OPKs.

December baby it is then 😅.

Donnat89 · 24/03/2020 10:31

@Juno231 sorry to hear that how late was AF ? I get what you mean I'm holding out hope but also just want AF to arrive as hate the uncertainty. X

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Juno231 · 24/03/2020 10:37

@Donnat89 3 days late per app, 4 days late per my average cycle. First time I've ever been late I think!

My fitbit is sticking to an ovulation date of the 6th of April despite the delay, whereas femometer has updated it to the 8th of April now. So I've got some waiting to do!

Got my fingers crossed for you Donna!

Donnat89 · 24/03/2020 10:52

@Juno231 how annoying , my cramps are back and are quite painful so think AF will show today at some point or tomorrow if tomorrow I will also be 3 days late and I've never been more than 2 days late so it's very odd and annoying as it will switch my cycle up again ! X

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Juno231 · 25/03/2020 07:47

Any updates @Donnat89 ? I dreamt I had a baby girl last so am feeling a bit funny this morning. Am also a bit excited about my next FW as I feel I've learnt plenty from my last two cycles to improve my chances now.

The thought of having an early Jan baby isn't great though - I've got a late Jan birthday and that sucks enough, nevermind having one straight after the festive period! Everyone is poor, partied out, on a diet etc...

Donnat89 · 25/03/2020 08:15

Yep still no AF and another BFN so can safely say I'm not pregnant but not sure what's going on I know I didn't ovulate this late so AF should arrive today latest but no sign yet . I'm gonna wait until end of the week the. Test again if still no show . What do I do if AF hasn't shown by next week ? X

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LRHR · 25/03/2020 09:41

@Juno231 I'm glad you're feeling positive ❤️

@Donnat89 still not final until AF shows
Xxx

Donnat89 · 25/03/2020 09:49

@LRHR yes I know it's just such a frustrating waiting game but it is what it is

@Juno231 I'm a New Year's Day baby it's not too bad ! Xx

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Juno231 · 25/03/2020 10:05

@Donnat89 oh that's nice to hear Donna! About your birthday I mean.

I think you're just gonna have to plod along despite no AF. I don't think doctors care until you've missed a few so not much can be done in between. I doubt it'll come to that for you though!

Bic501 · 25/03/2020 10:59

Biggest congratulations @LRHR, keep positive about this whole Covid 19 thing!

@Adrianoska sounds like yeah you would perhaps need to adjust the timings of your blood tests but like you say, unfortunately you'll have to wait for that. But keep trying and be positive 💗

Everyone else what's you thoughts on trying next cycle through all this? I'm abit on the fence with it.

I'm 9 dpo (I think) got positive opk last Monday. I haven't tested, I work in the NHS and work is getting crazy and I have been so anxious about everything anyway. I have no symptoms anyway. But will see how I feel on Sunday, might test if I'm not feeling PMS symptoms xx

Donnat89 · 25/03/2020 11:33

@Juno231 yea I know literally nothing I can do , just wait for AF or BFP either way it will be one of the other .

Just gonna take a day at a time and test every 2 days and see what happens xxx

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LRHR · 25/03/2020 13:18

@Bic501 thank you ❤️
It's a difficult one at the minute but I'd keep trying and if it happens through all of this craziness then it's a miracle xxx

Donnat89 · 26/03/2020 06:51

Still no sign of AF , not testing today will test tomorrow . 😩 I just want to know what's going on ! X

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Donnat89 · 26/03/2020 11:29

Af has just shown up , but gutted but relieved so I can now move on to my next cycle ! X

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Donnat89 · 26/03/2020 11:34

I say period it's more like spotting but think it's the start of AF . As only there when I wipe and not big amounts but nothing in my underwear .

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Juno231 · 26/03/2020 12:04

@Donnat89 hm that could still be just early pregnancy spotting! still getting BFNs though I take it?

I'm on my last day of AF I think and am so impatient for FW to start. Speaking of which @Adrianoska are you killing your husband with BD this week?

Donnat89 · 26/03/2020 12:08

@Juno231 haven't tested today am waiting until tomorrow or Saturday. Usually once I have blood when I wipe period starts in full flow so will see if it turns into anything today . I can't even say it's a lot
Of blood if I wasn't looking big for it I wouldn't have noticed it if that makes sense ? Will wait and see I'm sort of hoping it is AF so I can move on and get back to TTC xxx

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LRHR · 26/03/2020 14:35

@Donnat89 is it red blood or like a pale pink? It may be early pregnancy xxx

Donnat89 · 26/03/2020 14:41

@LRHR was pale pink but had nothing since so I'm so confused xx

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Juno231 · 26/03/2020 15:40

Well my friend was a couple days late and I made her do a test today and she got a BFP! She wasn't even actively trying - they were thinking about TTC in June and she's convinced they didn't even DTD around OD. So weird how easy it can be for some!

Makes me even sadder I got my AF this month as would have been fantastic to be on mat leave at same time as her.

Littlepeas2 · 26/03/2020 15:53

@Donnat89 do you normally spot before you come on properly?

@juno231 that’s such a shame. At least you have a nice short (compared to me 😫) cycle so your next FW will be here before you know it!!

LRHR · 26/03/2020 16:22

@Donnat89 that sounds like the same symptoms I had. I'd try testing. I tested in the morning and it was negative and by 2pm decided to test again and it was positive xxx

Donnat89 · 26/03/2020 16:26

@Littlepeas2 no I don't I usually wipe see blood and from then on normal period never had this before

It was pink / brown blood and a bit mucasy sorry if TMI and have had nothing since so just gonna sit tight and see if it turns I to AF maybe I'm just having a weird cycle who knows , I'm gonna test tomorrow or Saturday if still no AF and go from their .

I spoke to my doctor she said keep testing every 2 days she asked if I had any faint lines I said yes but they where too faint for me to say positive she said as AF hasn't shown it could be likely that it was a positive result . So literally just keep testing and waiting she also said the spotting I had doesn't sound like start of AF especially if AF doesn't usually start like that so just got to wait basically and if still no AF on a week I need to call back

I just want AF now this is driving me nuts xx

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LRHR · 26/03/2020 17:03

@Donnat89 it all sounds very positive ❤️
Fingers crossed xx

Donnat89 · 26/03/2020 17:47

@LRHR just trying not to get my hopes up I so feel like I'm gonna come on , but then nothing no more spotting since earlier have taken some ibuprofen to get rid of the niggly back ache which has helped a bit gonna have a nice relaxing bath and then just see what tomorrow brings xx

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