New thread for the crazy gang part 2!

[Ellsbells112]

Well since we are at the tail end!!

@Beau2020x @quiffy @Symptomspotter86 @BFP2020 @ange211

@Mumofboys17 no I think its from the pain, they aren't normally this bad and it's just making me nauseous 🤢 maybe it's from flying through different time zones ✈️🤷‍♀️

I know right it's so weird I'll even try to help it along but nothing works haha just can't finish! Xx

Listen girls, one of my best friends got pregnant while she was on the injection and didn't find out until she was 15 weeks. I mean I'm so happy for her but every time I see her I'm looking at her like what in the name of fertility wizardry do you posses give me your powers 😂😂

@Symptomspotter86 gahhh no, I'm so sorry lovely!!! I know the exact feeling! It's horrible I can totally sympathise. This is why I am never ever testing again early. 💕

@Symptomspotter86 I'm so sorry. I'm gutted for you XXX

@Symptomspotter86 so sorry hun x I feel for you, the amount of times stupid faint lines gave me hope, I know it's difficult but please stay strong x
Ladies thank you very much for all your advice yesterday. I have spoken to my OH and we decided we're not giving up just yet. We gave ourselves till summer and then if nothing happens till then we'll consider next steps - it will be 12 months trying.
This bleed is very similar to when I had an MC last year. Painful from the start, began at weird time (this time at night, last time in the middle of the day) while my af always arrives in the morning and its not very painful. I feel pains in my left side only, which is the side I ovulated from going by O pains and I'm passing quite a bit of clots and tissue. Bleed is now light, very dark, not a lot of bright red blood and not much overnight but still painful and my stomach is upset - exactly like when I had MC. I don't know whether I should be buying a test and testing to find out, last time I still had positive test 4 days after the bleed. What do you ladies think?

@Symptomspotter86 - so sorry lovely. I had a chemical before too and it was heartbreaking. Xx

@katie1109 I don't think you should test, I think you should see it as af came, if anything it would have come up before the bleed I think but also, don't torture yourself more I think you should let it be and focus on next cycle xx

So now I definitely belong in the crazy gang. Been getting bfn’s. Am on 13dpo today and af is due. Been getting mild cramps and really bad backache.

Took a FRER this morn and got the squintiest of squinters... attached a few pics. Can anyone see it and do you think it’s an evap line?

@Beau2020x wizardry looooool 😂😂😂 that really is wizardry!! Listen my body obviously loves getting pregnant for dickhead I don't want to be with. When it comes to the man I actually love and been with for 5 years it's like um no 🙁🤦‍♀️

@Symptomspotter86 I'm so sorry chick xxxx Ahhh this happens a lot it's really sad 😔 🤗 look after yourself keep your chin up xx

@Langpants I can see something in the first picture but I'm crap with these things so I don't know if it's an evap or not, maybe wait another 2 days and try again? Xx

Thank you. That’s the unedited photo so glad you can see. With my first pregnancy I got a BFP at 9dpo (squinter at 8dpo!) so thought I was out. Don’t want to get my hopes up as I had already resigned myself to starting again this month (even bought new opks 😂)

Will test again tomorrow or Weds if af hasn’t arrived by then.

Sorry to hear that @Symptomspotter86 :(

@Langpants I can see a squinter there too. fingers crossed!

I’ve decided that either FRERs aren’t as amazing as they’re made out to be, or Clearblue have massively upped their game! A teeny squinter on a FRER to a positive digital in 24 hours!

@Fredthespider ohhhh!!!! Congratulations!!! What did you do this month? Haha and how long have you been trying? I need to know details lol

I'm going to the doctors today, since I've officially been off contraception for 11 momths and we have been dtd around my fertile week since then,but only from September did we really dtd for the sake of trying. Let's see what she has to say to me

@Fredthespider - woohooooo! Nice one. Huge congratulations! Lovely to see.

@Fredthespider congratulations hun x very happy for you x it’s lovely to see BFPs in the gang x but I must say the gang is going down in numbers now rapidly! First @Sunflower2019, then @Quiffy and now you @Fredthespider! x huge congratulations ladies, here’s to healthy 9 months to all of you xx🍾🍾

@Fredthespider omg amazing news!!!!! So sooo happy for you!!!

@Katie1109 Hmmm, it's tricky. But I do agree that you shouldn't test. I think it's common to get an upset stomach with AF, I have it some but not every time. However if you do really want closure, which I think you do need/want, then maybe you should. So that you truly can move on this cycle. I'm glad your chat went well last night and glad you aren't giving up. We got you! x

@Fredthespider congratulation :-))

@Fredthespider Oh wow!!! I just scrolled back up to your FRER and I can't believe CB have picked it up already! YAAAAYY!! ❤️🙌🏻
Massive congratulations lovely!! Xxx

@Katie1109 I agree with what others have said.. sometimes it's almost better not to know? I've had a couple of chemicals and I can't help to think if I had held off early testing I'd have never known. Only you know what's best for you, of course. X
Pleased that you had that chat with OH too 😊 hope you're feeling a bit more positive xxx

So my CB digital OPK has given up the ghost, tried twice this morning and this keeps happening 😩 ffs!!!!! 🤬 had 2 days of flashing smileys (tested twice yesterday)
Back to the green strip IC's for me then. 🙄

@Ellsbells112 Good luck at the docs today xxx hopefully you get somewhere!! 🤞🏻❤️

@Mumofboys17 that's weird why is it doing that?? Is it not put in properly or something? If it wasn't picking up anything it would be a blank circle?? That looks like there's an error on insertion or something??
Thanks girl, I can bet the first thing she'll say is OH get a sperm test and I'm soooo ready for it lol and then fingers crossed that's fine, we can then look at my tubes and womb for scarring from past procedures xx

@fredthespider congratulations!!! So happy for you ❤️🍾🍾🍾

@Symptomspotter86 ahh no, maybe a dodgy test or a chemical? Hopefully next cycle is the one 🤞

@Langpants I think I can see something but I’m not sure. Definitely test in a day or so 🤞

@Katie1109 I’m so happy you’re going to keep trying and you had a good chat. I’m not sure on the test, go for what you feel you need to know/not know for closure

@Mumofboys17 I thought that was a 🍆🍆 when I first looked 😹😹

Definitely up for a secret Facebook group or WhatsApp group. I’m now in a Facebook one, they just made it totally private and got people to pm their emails. Still not the same as this group, you ladies are the best around 😭😭😭

@Ellsbells112 yeah that's what I thought at first, I tried two separate test sticks (this is why I pee into containers now 😬😂) waited for the screen to clear but it happened again. DH may have to pick up a replacement on his way back from the gym 🙄 so bloody annoying!! They aren't cheap either 😩

I reckon they'll send you for bloods first, seems to be the Dr's suggestion for everything haha, really hope this is the start of you getting back on track ❤️ xx

@Quiffy hahahahaha 😂😂😂😂 got long, firm veggies on the mind?! 👀 xx

I didn't know you could do that! As in invite people via email to fb groups! Not gonna lie it's scary to think we'd expose our identity (like superheroes or something 😂) but I'm definitely up for it, when/if I actually manage to get pregnant!!!! 😬

@Mumofboys17 have you still got your 'wake up' stick? the white one that you used to sync it to your phone? When my holder went a bit squiff I stuck that back in to try and fix it.

@Fredthespider wake up stick?? 😮
Think I maybe have a different CB kit? It's the 4 peak days one and doesn't come with anything to sync to my phone
I'm intrigued by the wake up stick.. i thought you were using a euphemism at first 😂😂