New thread for the crazy gang part 2!

[Ellsbells112]

Well since we are at the tail end!!

@Beau2020x @quiffy @Symptomspotter86 @BFP2020 @ange211

@Mumofboys17 no I think its from the pain, they aren't normally this bad and it's just making me nauseous 🤢 maybe it's from flying through different time zones ✈️🤷‍♀️

I know right it's so weird I'll even try to help it along but nothing works haha just can't finish! Xx

@Quiffy I wasn't overly excited for this love island but wow, it is providing! Drama central already.

Haha we've been pretty good actually! Every other day for the last week-ish. Can't decide whether or not to go tonight and then every night until 17th or skip tonight? My OH has started going to the gym before work now instead of at night so he's trying to sleep at 8pm a night!! Had hop on last night while he was practically asleep - not ideal in my FW babes!

I'll see what the OPK says tonight then decide if we need to go tonight

@Ellsbells112 eeeek okay, this sounds like this month is fate for you too!!!

@beau2020x the twins have just entered so I can see it kicking off. Tell him the gym will be there when you’re up the duff, you need seen to 😹 8pm pffff

@Ellsbells112 we really are cycle buddies imagine if we O the same day too that be weird 🙈

I'm trying to plan a wedding too my OH is dead set on getting married sept 2021 so if I'm not pregnant by latest may we will have to stop trying I need to be skinny for my wedding day 🙈

@bfp2020 congratulations on wedding planning! Fingers crossed you get your bfp before then 🤞🤞🤞

@BFP2020 congrats on getting married!

TTC #1 never been pg before
Age 33
Cycle no 5 of ttc
CD8
AF/BFP 4th Feb

@BFP2020

TTC #2
Age 27 (28 this year)
Cycle no: 6
Currently CD 34 😬 (long cycles between 32-35 days normally)

No actual idea when AF is due 😂 according to Ovia it's Thursday 🙃

@Beau2020x @Quiffy what you both put about your pets had me howling 😂😂
I hate the judgemental looks I get off the cat if he happens to walk in mid-DTD 😳😂

Tests haven't arrived yet, our postie seems to change his mind on what time he comes daily 😂 been keeping busy today I don't want to sit thinking about it else I'll go mad.. stripped all the beds, been food shopping (with demanding toddler in tow) he's just having his lunch now so will put him down for a nap shortly and I'll carry on being 'busy' if and when the postman EVER arrives!! 🙄
No change symptom wise. No cramps really just like a slightly heavy feeling? No change in cvm. Keep thinking AF will come 😩 bitch is seriously testing my patience this cycle!!!

@BFP2020

TTC #1
28 years old
Cycle 5
AF due 30th Jan

@Mumofboys17 still looking positive for you! Symptoms could mean anything at this point AF symptoms and pregnancy symptoms are usually always the same at the start! Are you going to do the FRER when it arrives? I just have the feeling this month is your month! (I'll die if I'm wrong)

@Beau2020x arrrhh I'm so not sure!! I think I keep comparing to last time. I had very obvious implantation bleeding approx 8/9dpo and that evening I got a strong positive on a FRER with the tiniest wee I've ever done in my life 😂 and I'm like.. ok.. I don't know when I actually ovulated but I'm sure it was around 2nd Jan has I had ewcm that day. DTD on 1st and 2nd and then nothing til the 8th 😕 had a BFN on a cheapy test on the 10th I think when I posted it on here.
Those teeny tiny orange spots were on Sunday, obvs haven't tested since but I'm convinced I'm out because I didn't get an early positive like I did with DS

This is me being Ross from friends and I'm TOTALLY fine about all of this 😬😂😂😂

I do have a CB digital I've been saving.. but not sure I can cope with seeing those horrible words confirming I'm definitely not preggers 😬😩

I caved 😬 But at least I know!! AF will probably show up tonight now 😂
Going to eat a load of chocolate and fill my amazon basket with OPK's and preseed now 🙃😂😂

@Mumofboys17 awww I'm sorry it's a negative!! Hopefully af comes so you can start a new cycle xx

@BFP2020 haha we are aren't we 😁 ill most likely ovulate on the 27th of this month!

@Beau2020x let's hope so!! Whoop whoop

I still feel super sick 🤮 for some reason but at least the period cramps have eased off, I hope I never get a period like this one again 😂 I can deal with pain and blood but nausea and no baby?! No no no 😂

@Mumofboys17 oh nooo hun!!!!! I am so gutted for you!! You're probably right though, it's all in the brain. I've taken pregnancy tests before to try and get AF to come - it works!

PS. Hate 'not pregnant' why can't they use something like 'babes not this time but you keep going girl!' something equally as motivating and less depressive.

@Ellsbells112 @Beau2020x thanks girls 😊
It's ok, I'm not massively heartbroken, I knew within minutes of taking the test it would be negative as last time the 'pregnant' bit came up straight away lol but it is a bit gutting. DH is home tonight after working away for a few days, so he'll be up for some sexy time even if it isn't logistical 😂 sometimes that can help AF along so we shall see!

I agree though. Something like 'no worries B you got this' would be nice 😂😂 xx

@Mumofboys17 no worries b you got this!! 😂😂😂 Yesss that would be encouraging! Haha glad you feel positive tho xx

I just went and bought raspberry leaf tea and nettle tea 🍵🤷‍♀️ apparently they're good for you and pregnancy so I'm going to give it a shot. I think I'm really going to try and not drink coffee this cycle too! And no alcohol which is easier than no coffee for me

Me again 😂 I also bought some new sexy stuff from love honey woohooooo let's go I'm ready! Anyone tried nipple pumps!? Lmao well I'm gonna!! 😂 Clit clamp hoorah let's go 😂😂😂😂

@Ellsbells112 oooooomg what!! hahahaahah

I'm dying over here!!! I'm gonna google this shit when I'm not on works wifi

@mumofboys17 no :( least as you say, you know. Still disappointing. Scoff all the chocolate x

I agree on the words. Maybe a nice “keep trying and here’s a voucher for an espresso martini and some chocolate”.

@BFP2020 meant to say:

TTC #1 (not been pregnant before so not sure the plumbing works)
30
Cycle 6
Af due jan 31st

@ellbells112 love how that went from nettle tea to a clit clamp 😹😹😹 I’ve not not had coffee since before Christmas. I used to drink 3 or 4 cups a day but went off the taste while TTC (think it’s the pre guilt who knows??) but I’ve replaced with tea so I don’t think that’s much better caffeine wise 🤪

I was meaning to ask what everyone is doing about coffee etc while trying to conceive? I have 1 coffee every single morning at work and have for the last 6 years. Swear I need it to function!

@Ellsbells112 clit clamps?! Is that actually a thing 😱 DH treated me to a love honey gift pre Xmas, think it was more for him than me 😂

@Beau2020x I used to always have coffee or tea first thing in the morning, didn't change doing this when TTC the first time, it was only when I actually got pregnant I stopped because I completely went off them both 😷
I've not really drank coffee since, so I still have tea, always a cup in the morning but never more than 3 during the day. I don't think it would make a massive difference re having too much caffeine, unless you've been having about 10 cups of coffee a day surely? X

@Beau2020x hahaha fertile week is gonna be fun 😜 anyways, one cup won't hurt you unless you're very sensitive to it? If it can still make you shake and your heart race then I'd say don't drink it lol but I'm not a professional either

@Quiffy 😂😂 yeah I'm going to try and replace with these herbals teas. I could easily drink 3 cups of coffee a day tbf but I've gone down to one or 2 Ttc now it's going to be noneeeeeee