New thread for the crazy gang part 2!

[Ellsbells112]

Well since we are at the tail end!!

@Beau2020x @quiffy @Symptomspotter86 @BFP2020 @ange211

@Mumofboys17 no I think its from the pain, they aren't normally this bad and it's just making me nauseous 🤢 maybe it's from flying through different time zones ✈️🤷‍♀️

I know right it's so weird I'll even try to help it along but nothing works haha just can't finish! Xx

Oh @Katei1109 I am so so sorry!! I totally get you, it is heartbreaking. Sending a huge hug your way. xx

@BFP2020 hmm I know that you can have secondary estrogen surges which cause dips and are fine but that's like one and you'll get ewcm with it, I had it yesterday. I know what you mean with the pain but yu can have pain after too, so I had pain prior to ovulation and then I get a different more uncomfortable pain once the egg releases x

@katie1109 I'm so sorry 😞🤗 it is heartbreaking I totally get you xxx😥

@Katie1109 Sorry lovely 🙁 we all know exactly how you feel. Sending hugs and positive vibes your way xxx

Thanks girls x I don’t think I can be bothered with all this anymore. I don’t feel like af is on its way, but obviously it is x I know 10/11 DPO is still very early, but everyone always get their BFPs at that stage, even if only faint 😭

@BFP2020 this is my chart xx

@Katie1109 I'm so sorry. It is normal to feel upset, frustrated, fed up and damn fucking angry. Let it all out. We are all here for you.

The weird cramps are continuing. Almost like AF but different. Hard to explain but I know I'm not imagining them. Kind of feels like a pressure or full bladder?

Oh I'm sorry @Katie1109. The who process is so demoralising :(
You never know though, you can implant up to 12dpo X

@Ellsbells112 So confusing like because from what I read up on it says that temp spike comes after O so looking at your chart you would think you Ovulated CD 13. You said it was CD15 like didn't you?

@BFP2020 it's really confusing but everyone is different. Also I don't think I'm explaining myself properly lol so basically cd13 I definitely didn't ovulate because it was under coverline, my coverline is 36(96.8) now on cd14(sorry I said cd15) its a bit mad because I had a flashing face in the morning but then I got loads of ovulation pain so I decided to do another opk in the evening which came as a solid face. So either I ovulate as soon as I get an LH surge which would have been the night on cd14 or I ovulate the next day which is the same day as the bbt rise(both can happen) cd15 soo I dunno haha. But I'd say so you get an understanding of your own, perhaps do clear blue opks and temps to see how it tallys up as everyone is different x

@BFP2020 actually I've bloody confused myself!! You should ovulate the day before the temp rise right? Which would have been CD13 but I didn't get a peak opk till Sunday night 🙁 so I have no idea when I ovulated. Anyone? Lol unless I was correct in that I bloody ovulate the day of my temp rise, which it must be!

@Ellsbells112 I've done CB ones and to be honest the cheap ones are just as good. I got my surge I think yesterday morning. Tues night was dark but looking at the 2 of them together I think yesterday mornings OPK was stronger. I honestly think it was this morning for me pain wise. So if I see a temp rise in the morning I will take it as CD 18 for O day. The Accupunturist said to me temping is more efficient than anything and the min you see temp rise you have ovulated in the last 24 hours.

It's hard to know but I'd say CD 13 or 14 for you. So your either 4/5 DPO today further along than you expected.

I think I said last month that I’m lucky enough to don’t get any spots on my face etc during my cycles at any time. Well now I’ve got 3 of them! I could swear my body just hates me😭

@katie1109 Ditto! I know it's easier said than done but try not to stress too much - we can hold hands together next cycle (providing AF shows for you that is!) x

@Beau2020x thank you x I must admit I don’t feel stressed it’s just pure anger now. I’m fed up, really fed up x in life I’m a bit of control freak but this is nothing that I can control and it’s driving me mad when I’m failing time after time...
I’m max 2 days away from af, CD27 today. Normally I have af cramps by now and at time my CM is pink tinged but I feel nothing. I really want it to arrive and arrive on time now so I can move on. I really don’t want it to be late unless I am pregnant, because limbo will drive me mad!! I just feel so helpless and angry and sad at the same time 😭

@BFP2020 yeah I hear you. I was also on some medication this month too that apparently can mess with temp readings (letrozole) it makes you hyperovulate. But going off my pains I ovulated on Sunday. Flashing smiley in morning, then loads of ovulation pain around 3pm, another opk at 5pm and a solid face, that was on cd14. Also though since the medication can make you hyperovulate I could have released two eggs within 24 hours of each other lol so I might stop obsessing about temps etc this month and resume the next 🤔

@Katie1109 i hear you i feel the exactly the same i just went to buy frer after work special as af was due yesterday and guess what went to do a wee and guess what af is here 😢this really is mentally hard as well a physical i felt like i couldn’t do this last month but hear we are again with having to start all over again😢we here to cycle 10 🤞🏻wish both good luck

@Mrslane2019 thank you x and I’m sorry af arrived for you x it’s heartbreaking and I know I’ll be in my next cycle within next 48 hours x I think I’ll just get absolutely bladdered over the weekend 🍷

@Katie1109 oh bless you. I wish there was something I could say that could make it better but we all know the only thing is a baby! Honestly, you WILL get there!

@Mrslane2019 arghhhhh so annoying!! Never mind, you can save that FRER for next cycle because girls, we got this and next month we WILL get our BFPs! 💕

@Beau2020x thank you for your kind words we here for each other i love the support 😘
@Katie1109 i hear you to 🍸here to weekend aiy 🍸

i’m going to get some angus canthus , primrose and try concentrate on slimmingworld try lose a like bit of weight this is my goal 💪not going to stress a hopefully so baby dust with sprinkle

we can do this girls

I honestly do not understand why my body has to be that way. I’m sitting here now with a hot water bottle because I’ve got sharp stabbing pains down low, feels almost like it’s inside my lady bits...I’m bored with this crap now!

@Quiffy it's so good to see your lines getting darker! Congratulations!

@Katie1109 I feel you, I'm the same. I can't stand not having control and the fact this is all taking so long is driving me insane as well. I had a full on melt down at the weekend because of it and longstanding grieve for a bereavement. It all got too much.
I'm sorry you are also feeling it. You are allowed to be angry, annoyed and upset. It's normal to feel like that, just try to get into a more positive mindset once you are onto the next cycle. We will all get there and I know at this point someone random on the internet doesn't feel like anything, but it will happen.

IC from this morning. Is there something there or I’m wishful thinking? 11/12 DPO today, af due Saturday according to my apps x

@Mrslane2019 sorry AF has arrived. It's absolutely gutting but loving your pma X
@BntTowers so sorry for your loss. I do think it's cathartic to let it out and have a good cry though ♥️
@Katie1109 I think I see a sliver of something on the inverted one 🤞
As for me my hopes are fading fast. Couldn't be arsed DTD last night & DH working tonight.. fw closing rapidly. Acht well should make tww easier ;)